Umfundi unenzuzo enkulu kumntu ogcine ukuvula incwadi esikolweni. Iincwadi ngokuzihlaziya, ezifanele ukufunda kumfazi, ziya kunika ulwazi olubalulekileyo lwengqondo kwaye luncede utshintshe ubomi ukuze kube ngcono.
Ziziphi iincwadi zokufunda ukuzithuthukisa kwintombi?
Iincwadi ezona zizodwa zokuzihlakulela ngokwamabhinqa ziyimisebenzi yabangcali beengqondo. Kuzo, nawuphi na ummeli wesini esilungileyo uya kufumana iingcebiso ekumiseni ubomi bomntu, ekuhlakuleleni iimpawu zakhe, ekuchaseni ukwesaba kwengqondo kunye neengxaki.
- Neil Fiore "Indlela elula yokuqala ubomi obutsha . " Abantu abaninzi banokungakhuselekanga, bathanda ukubeka izinto kwi "bhokisi ende". Inetyala yale nto ayikho kuphela imikhwa kunye neempawu zengqondo zesimo, kodwa kunye nezinye iimpawu zobomi beengqondo. Kule ncwadi, i-American psychologist ixoxa malunga noko kukuthintela umntu ukuba aqale into entsha kwaye ifike ekugqibeleni kwayo.
- Nicholas Butman "Indlela yokuwa nomthandane nawe kwiminithi engama-90 . " Nabani na amabhinqa amaphupha onoyolo lonwabo. Ngethuba ekwakheni le ncwadi, uNicholas Butman wahlalutya ezininzi izibini ezonwabileyo kwaye wabonisa iipatheni zokwakhiwa kwazo. Umsebenzi walo mbhali uza kunceda amacebo e-NLP kunye nobuchule bokuxhumana obuphambili, fundisa iindlela zokuphumelela umdla kunye novelwano.
- UGary Chapman "Iilwimi ezintlanu zothando . " Iingxaki ebuhlotsheni ziqala ngokungaqondani. Kwaye bambalwa kakhulu abantu bayazi ukuba kukho iindlela ezininzi zokubonisa iimvakalelo zabo. Emva kokufunda le ncwadi, lo mfazi uya kufunda ukuqonda kakuhle umyeni wakhe kwaye uphendule ngempumelelo iimpikiswano zeentsapho.
- UVladimir Levi "Ukuxhalabisa" . Abasetyhini abaninzi banokwesaba noloyiko kunoma yimuphi umbandela ongaqhelekanga. Le ncwadi yesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo iza kukuxelela okokoyiko kwaye kutheni kuyadingeka, kwaye ikufundise nendlela yokuyigcina phantsi kolawulo.
- UTina Sylig "Yenza wena" . INjingalwazi yaseYunivesithi yaseStanford kwincwadi yakhe ayiboni nje ngeemfihlelo zezoshishino eziphumeleleyo, kodwa ikwafundisa ukuba wandise ubungakanani bokucinga , rhoqo uzame into entsha, utshintshe. Le ncwadi ngokuzikhusela ngokwabo kubasetyhini iya kunceda ukuba ube ngumntu onokudala, onempumelelo.