Ithuba ebomini babo bonke abesifazana, ngexesha apho akwazi ukukhulelwa, ukunyamezela kwaye abelethe umntwana, ufumane igama lokuzala okanye lokuzala.
Kulunge nini ukuba nomntwana?
Ixesha elifanelekileyo labasetyhini abahlala eRashiya nakumazwe aseYurophu lusephakathi kweminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwe-35. Eyona nto ifanelekileyo yokuzalwa yile minyaka eyi-25-27. Kule ngqungquthela yokuba intombazana inomzimba ikulungele ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili. Kodwa, ngelo xesha, umntu akanakukungaziboni izinto zendalo, amandla asemzimbeni omnye wesibindi sokukhulelwa umntwana, ukuwuthwala, nokuzala. Eli lixesha likwabonakaliswa nokukhula okupheleleyo kwentlalo nentlalo ye ntombazana.
Ukukhulelwa kwasebuncinaneni
Njengoko kuchaziwe ngasentla, ubudala obubele bokubeletha kumfazi ngowama-25-27 iminyaka. Nangona kunjalo, akuqhelekanga ukuba ukhulelwe ngaphambi kokuba uneminyaka engama-20. Njengomthetho, kwiimeko ezinjalo ukufumaneka kweengxaki ezahlukeneyo kuphakamileyo kakhulu, eziqinisekisa ukuphuhliswa rhoqo kwe-toxicosis kunye nokuvela kwamathambo emantombazana amantombazana. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, ukukhulelwa kuphelile ngokukhuselekileyo, ngoko ke iintsana ezizalwe ekuqaleni zineqondo elincinci lomzimba, isethi yayo ihamba ngokukhawuleza.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko xa amantombazana aneminyaka eyi-16-17 abeletha abantwana abasempilo. Kodwa kwiimeko ezinjalo, oomama abancinci babe neengxaki zengqondo kuba bebengakulungele ukuba ngumama kwaye bengenalo ulwazi oluyimfuneko oluyimfuneko ekukhuliseni kakuhle umntwana.
Ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili
Kungekudala, kukho iziganeko eziqhelekileyo xa abafazi abaneminyaka yobudala yokuzala abantwana (emva kwe-40) bazala umntwana wokuqala. Oku kuchazwa yinyaniso yokuba abaninzi bacinga ukuba ngumsebenzi wabo wokuqala ukwenza umsebenzi kwaye bafikelele kwiintsika ezithile, baze baququzelele ubomi bentsapho.
Kodwa, ngokomthetho, ukukhulelwa umntwana emva kweminyaka engama-35 kunzima kakhulu, kungakhankanyi ukuzala nokuzala. Oku kubangelwa kukutshintsha kwimeko yangaphandle, ekhokelela ekubeni kukho ukuhla kwekhono lomfazi ukukhulelwa ngokwemvelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kule minyaka, abafazi baneengxaki ngokuqhelekileyo kokuya esikhathini kunye nenkqubo yokuhamba.
Njengoko uyazi, yonke intombazana enoba izalwa inenani elikhulu leeseli zesitalana, inani apho ngexesha lokuzala lihlala linciphisa. Ngexesha leminyaka, loo mfazi uhlala ejongene nezinto ezintle ezichaphazela kakubi imeko yomzimba ngokupheleleyo, ngakumbi inkqubo yesondo. Yingakho uneminyaka engama-35 ukuya kwimi-40 ubunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana ekuzalweni uza kuba neyantlukwano kunye nokuphazamiseka, ukwandisa amaxesha amaninzi.
Ukukhulelwa phakathi kwexesha eliphakathi
Namhlanje, ukukhulelwa kwiminyaka engama-30-35 akuqhelekanga. Kulo xesha, njengomthetho, abantwana abaphilileyo bazalwa. Nangona kunjalo, ukukhulelwa kule minyaka kunomthwalo omkhulu kumzimba wesetyhini. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yokulungiswa kwe-hormone emzimbeni, umfazi uqala ukuziva encinci, ukuphuma kwamandla akhe.
Izifo zobudala bokuzala
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngexesha lokubeletha, abafazi bajamelana nezifo ezahlukahlukeneyo, imizekelo yazo ingaquka ukuphulwa komjikelezo wokuya esikhathini (NMC) kunye nokuphuma kwe-uterine ye-uterine (DMC) engasebenzi . Ezi zihlandlo zivame ukubangelwa zizifo zamalungu omzimba wesini somzimba wokuvuvukala.
Ngaloo ndlela, nayiphi na ibhinqa, eyazi ukuba iyiphi iminyaka yokuzala umntwana eyiyo ekuzalweni komntwana, iya kuba nokucwangcisa kakuhle ukukhulelwa ize ibele umntwana ophilileyo.