Ukukhupha - yintoni na indlela yokudlala ngendoda?

Ngokomlando, amandla amakhulu yowesifazane ebuthakathaka bakhe. Ukunyuka kwamanzi kwanika abameli besini esilungileyo ilungelo lokuba nesibindi nokuzimelela, bahlala kwiindawo eziphambili ekusebenzisaneni namadoda kwaye bahlakulele iitalente zabo kungekuphela kwento ethiwa "imicimbi yabasetyhini". Kodwa kutheni, ukuba nalo lonke le nto, libale indlela yokudlala ngendoda kunye nokushiya izixhobo ezindala ezivivinywe nezivivinywa? Ubudlelwane, ububele, ukudlala - ezi kunye nezinye iimpawu zichazwa ngegama lokutya kunye kwaye aziyi kulimaza nakwiyindoda ekhululekileyo.

Yintoni i-coquetry?

I-Coquetry yindlela engakumbi yobomi kunye nentshukumo kunokwesiko esilungisiweyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, eli gama lichaza indlela yokuziphatha komntu (ngokuphindaphindiweyo ibhinqa), ozama ukubonakalisa iimpawu zakhe ngendlela enenzuzo yakhe, ukuba athande abadibanisa. Ibhinqa elingumququzeli alifuni ukukhupha abantu kwintsimi yabo yomthonyama, kodwa ayiba yindalo engenayo kwaye ingenakukwazi ukuyenza, ayikwazi ukuba nayiphi na into kwimimiselo yamakhosikazi avamile.

Ukudlala ngothando kunye nokuqhathanisa yintoni umehluko?

Phakathi kweendlela eziqhelekileyo zowesifazane ekukhohliseni amadoda zidla ngokubizwa ngokuba nomdla. Uthando olunjani luhluke kwi-coquetry? Ukwahlula okubalulekileyo kukuba ukuzithobela ngothando kuyisithembiso esinjongo kwento ethile, ukukhwabanisa yindlela yokuphila nokuziphatha, akukho nto ithembisayo, nje ukuklolodela kunye nokuthabatha into enokuyenza. Ukuthetha ngomzobo, ukukhwabanisa kukuqhumisa ukucoceka kweqhumiso, ukugubungela le ntombazana ngaso sonke ixesha, ukunyaniseka kweso sithokozo esilungileyo esisetyenzisiweyo ngenjongo ethile.

I-Coquetry ilungile okanye imbi?

Ngethuba lethu kukho iinkolo ezahlukeneyo, ukuziphatha kunye neembono zehlabathi ukuba impendulo engabonakaliyo kulo mbuzo ayikwazi ukunikela. Ukuba sicinga i-coquetry kwinqanaba leemfundiso ezixhaphakileyo, ezi zilandelayo ziya kufumaneka:

1. Zonke iinkolo zobufundisi ezifana ne-Islam kunye nobuKristu zicinga ukuba ukuthanda ngothando kuyisono. EbuKristwini, esi sikhundla sinxulumene nokulahleka kukaEva kunye nembono yokuhlaselwa yinyama, kwiSilamsi - i-coquetry inokulungiswa kuphela kumyeni wayo.
2. Imigaqo yokuziphatha kwabantu kunye neengcamango ezifanayo azikhanyeli iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokutya, ukuba akukho nto iphula amalungelo kunye nenkululeko yabanye.
3. Kwimiqondo yanamhlanje ye-esoteric-yengqondo ibonwa njengento ebalulekileyo kwaye ibalulekileyo echaphazela kakuhle impilo yowesifazane kwaye igalelo ekuqiniseni ukuzithemba kwayo.

Indlela yokudlala nomntu?

Bonke abantu bahluke kakhulu, kwaye ngoku akukho mntu udale isicwangciso sezandla zendalo yonke, akayi kuchaza umyalelo wezenzo, okuyilo myalelo wendlela yokudlala ngothando nomfana, kodwa kukho iingongoma ezibalulekileyo ezichongiweyo.

1. Imimiselo enyanzelekileyo eyenza ingqalelo kwiindawo ezinjalo zomzimba njengentamo kunye neentambo. Ayinalo imvelaphi yesondo, njengokuba kubonakaliswa kwiindawo ezinokwenene ezinobungqingili ezifana nesifuba kunye neentsimbi kwaye kubonisa ukunyaniseka, ukunyamekela nokukhuseleka. Ungayilungisa iinwele zakho, udlale ngesongo okanye ubukele umlenze, uphendule intloko yakho ngethuba lencoko ... Into ephambili kukuba yendalo kwaye ayifuni.
2. Ukunyakaza okumnandi kwintlepheko, ukungabikho kwezinto ezintle.
3. Ukuba khona kweso simbolo kwiingubo kunye nokukwazi ukufumana ukulinganisela phakathi kweempahla ezinokuthozama kunye nezishukumisayo, ngaphandle kokubetha ngexesha elifanayo ukugqithisa.
4. Amandla okuxhasa incoko, intetho enhle nefanelekileyo , ilizwi elimnandi.
5. Ukuhlonela abanye, ngaba ngamadoda okanye abafazi.
6. Ukungenakwenzeka, ukukwazi ukugcina umgama kwaye ugcine abantu bexakeke ngaphandle kokubakhuphaza nabo.

Indlela yokudlala ngendoda kunye neenkcukacha?

Ukuthandana kokuthandana nge-intanethi, apho intlanganiso yomntu eyenzekayo kuphela xa ithe yaba ngumdla kumnxibelelwano osondeleyo, wadalwa kunye neendlela ezintsha zokukhohlisa, ngoku umbuzo wendlela yokudlala imifanekiso ngokuchanekileyo ngokubhaliweyo, ifanelekileyo. Sekuvele kubonakala kwaye zibonakaliswe iindlela.

1. Yiba yintsusa, kodwa ngaphandle kokugqithisa. Akukho mntu uya kuxabisa umnxibelelwano, okwazi ukubuza kuphela imibuzo elula, kodwa akuyimfuneko kwaye uqale ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza ngeengxaki zefilosofi.
2. Ngokunyanisekileyo ube nomdla kubomi bomnxibelelwano.
3. Musa ukungena ngaphakathi, kodwa ungenzi ukuba umnxibelelwano ube ngumqali we-imeyile.
4. Bhala ngaphandle kokuphosakela, zama ukugcina isalathisi yentetho kuyo yonke imilayezo.
5. Musa ukulungisa iimpazamo zomnxibelelwano.
6. Ungazami ukugcoba. Xa kunxibelelana, inyaniso iya kuvuleka.

Ungayeka njani ukudlala ngothando nomntu wonke?

Yonke into ilungele ukumodareyitha, kwaye kufuneka ukushiya eceleni xa iba yindlela yokufumana ulawulo kumadoda azungezile okanye ikhusela loo ntokazi ukuba ingaphila, ichithe ubuhlobo bayo nomntu osisigxina. Impendulo eyiyo kumbuzo othi "njani ukuyeka ukunyonyana" ayengakabonakali, kodwa nakuyo nayiphi na imeko ayifuni ukuziphatha ngokunyanisekileyo kunye nokugatywa kwamanqweno asemveli. Mhlawumbi kufuneka ufumane umdlalo omtsha, utshintshe isangqa soqhagamshelwano okanye ucele abahlobo bakho ukuba balandele indlela yakho yokunxibelelana .