Ukuhlanjululwa ngothando kwiintonga kubonwa ngabaninzi njengolonwabo, kodwa ngokwenene, ukuba uyithatha ngokungathí sina, uya kukwazi ukufumana ulwazi lwenyaniso ngobomi bakho. Inkqubo ilula ngokwaneleyo kwaye wonke umntu unokukwazi ukujamelana nayo.
Ukuqagela ngeentonga kumfana
Ukuba ufuna ukufumanisa indlela umntu othile athetha ngayo, sebenzisa ukuqiqa okulula. Thatha iphepha kunye neepeni. Cinga ngomntu uze udwebe imigca emileyo kwimigangatho emine de izwi langaphakathi likukhuthaza ukuba unqume. Ukuqhubeka nokubhula kwiphepha kunye neengxowa zemiqolo emithathu kunye neyodwa, ukuwela iintonga ezintathu kunye nemigca engaphezulu. Ngenxa yoko, akuyi kuba namakhola kumqolo ngamnye, okanye kuya kubakho enye okanye ezimbini. Ukubhala ubhale ngokulandelayo, oko kuku-0, 1 okanye 2. Ngoku kuseleyo ukufunda intsingiselo yokuxoxwa kweenhlanhla ephepheni ngamacwecwe:
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Isibheno saseNgesi "uKumkanikazi"
Kule ngxelo, iphepha alilisebenzisi, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukulungiselela izithandathu ezisixhenxe zokhuni. Izibonda ezine kufuneka zibe zide nje njengomnxeba womnwe, kunye nazo zonke njenge-pinky. Ukongezelela, intonga enye kufuneka yabelwe ngexabiso xa kuthelekiswa nabanye, kwaye iya kuba "intombikazi". Yibeke ngasezinyaweni zakho, uze uthathele ngakwesokunxele sakho. Vala amehlo akho kwaye ubuze ngengqondo umbuzo. Emva koko, gubungela iintonga uze uziguqule esandleni sokunene. Kubalulekile ukugcina intonga enye, kunye nabanye balahlekelwe phantsi. Emva koko ungaqhubeka nokuchazwa:
- Ukuba kukho intonga ende ekhohlo esandleni, ke impendulo yombuzo ikhangelekile kwaye impela.
- Ngabo "ukumkanikazi" uthinta ubuncinci omnye umgcini - olu luphawu oluhle, impumelelo ethembisayo. Kwixesha elizayo elizayo, zonke iinjongo ezibekwe ziya kufezwa.
- Kwimeko apho intonga enye ilele kwenye, ithetha ukuba iingxaki ezikhoyo ziya kulungiswa ixesha elide.
- Ukuba zonke iintonga zikhangelele "intombikazi," uya kuba nako ukucombulula zonke iingxaki zakho ngokuzimeleyo.