Ubomi bentsapho abugcini nje ngexesha eliqhakazileyo, ngamanye amaxesha imibhangqwana ibe neembambano kunye neengxabano . Kodwa yonke into inokutshatyalaliswa ukuba indoda nomfazi bathandane. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuhamba kwexesha, iimvakalelo zingathathaka, nto leyo ingakhokelela kwinveli kumacala, kwaye emva koko umtshato uqhawule umtshato. Ngoko ke, elowo mfazi uya kuba yingcebiso encedo kakhulu malunga nendlela yokuqonda ukuba umyeni wakho uyakuthanda. Kukho imiqondiso emininzi ongayichaza ngokucacileyo ukuba esinye isiqingatha sivakalelwa kuwe.
Ungaqonda njani ukuba indoda iyayithanda umfazi wayo?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, nobungqina obuninzi bothando lomntu lunokungabonakali nje ngenxa yokuba umfazi otshatileyo uwathatha. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ube ngumlindi omncinci kunye nomlindi omncinane kumlingane wakho kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye abo abangakwaziyo ukuqonda ukuba umyeni uyamthanda umfazi wakhe, ezi zinto zilandelayo ziyakwenza njengengqiqo:
- iqabane lizama ukukukholisa ngezipho ngaphandle kwesiganeko;
- uzama ukungahlali emsebenzini;
- uzama ukuchitha nawe ixesha elininzi ngangokunokwenzeka;
- ayifaki ukusebenzisana ngokubambisana kwemicimbi yentsapho edibeneyo;
- Ngokwenyathelo iququzelele ukuhlwasana kunye neveki;
- enomona, ukuba ubeka ingqalelo kwabanye abantu, kodwa ngelo xesha uziqhayisa kwaye uziqhayisa kubahlobo bakho.
Kwakhona, abaninzi abafazi banomdla kwimpendulo kumbuzo wokuqonda ukuba indoda ayithandi. Oku kuya kunikwa ngezizathu ezininzi:
- iqabane liye layeka ukukuphulaphula, kwaye imibuzo yakho iphuma kumabinzana emisebenzi;
- phantsi kweengqungquthela ezahlukahlukeneyo, uyayeka ukuthetha nawe;
- uphelile ngokupheleleyo ukuba unesifiso sesondo kuwe;
- naziphi na iimpazamo zakho ezibangela ukucaphuka;
- akayithandi nayiphi na inqaku lakho elichaphazelayo;
- akayithobeli ingqalelo yakho imbonakalo;
- iqabane lihlala lingathandabuzi izicelo zakho kunye neengcebiso.
Ungayiqonda njani ukuba indoda yangaphambili iyakuthanda?
Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba isibini sidideke, kodwa sinemiva . Kukho iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuqonda ukuba umyeni wakho usekuthandayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo akayikukhathalela, ukuba uhlala ebiza kwaye ecela iingcebiso, unikezela ukunceda ngemisebenzi ethile yasendlini, imali, isathetha kakuhle kuwe kwingxoxo nabahlobo, ngamanye amaxesha "ngengozi" ihlangana nawe kwisitalato; Akakhohlwa ukuthokoza ngokuzalwa kwakhe kunye noMnyaka omtsha, uzama ubuncinane ngandlela-thile ukuba azikhumbuze yena kwaye athathe inxaxheba ebomini bakho.