Abasetyhini abaninzi bayakhalaza ngempilo embi ngexesha "ezinzima iintsuku", kodwa nabo banqwenela ngesondo ngexesha leenyanga. Nazi izizathu zokuba kutheni ungaqhubeki ngokuphathelele iminqweno yabo, abantu - le ntloni, kunye nokwesaba ngengozi kwimpilo ebangelwa yile nkqubo. Ngoko makhe sibone ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ulale ngesondo ngexesha lokuya esikhathini, akukho nto ingabangela ingozi kwimpilo, kodwa sinciphisa ize?
Bathini oogqirha?
Iyeza zanamhlanje zikholelwa ukuba ubulili ngexesha lokuya esikhathini alibandakanyi nemiphumo emibi kumzimba wesifazane ophilileyo. Kodwa oku kunikezelwa, ukuba imigaqo yokucoceka ecocekileyo idibeneyo. Inyaniso kukuba ngokuya esikhathini, umlomo wesibeleko yi-ajar, ukuze i-bacteria ye-pathogen ikwazi ukungena kuyo. Kwaye imimandla yegazi imangalisa ukuphuhliswa kweebhaktheriya. Ngoko, ukuba uyakhohlwa ngococeko, unokufumana inkqubo yokuvuvukala kwizitho zangasese. Ngenxa yoko, isondo ngexesha lokuya esikhathini siyavunyelwa kuphela ukuba kukho impilo esondelene nabo bobabini iqabane.
Isondo ngexesha lokuya esikhathini nokukhulelwa
Kukho uluvo lokuba phakathi kweenyanga zokulwa ngokwesondo olungakhuselekanga kuphephile ngokupheleleyo ngokukhulelwa. Kodwa le nkolelo ayinyani. Ewe, ukukhulelwa ngesondo ngexesha lokuya esikhathini akulula, kodwa kukho ithuba. Umzimba womfazi ngamnye uhlukile, iqanda lingakhula nangemva kokuphakathi komjikelezo, nangaphambi kwayo. Kwaye i-spermatozoa, njengokuba uyazi, kwiphepha lezazisini "linokulinda ithuba labo" iintsuku ezingama-5-7. Ngoko umngcipheko wokukhulelwa ngesondo esingakhuselekanga ngexesha lokuya esikhathini uyafumaneka. Ngokukodwa ukwanda ukuba ukuhamba kwimizi yabasetyhini kunemihla engama-15-20. Yaye ukuba iinkolelo malunga nokunyameka kwabasetyhini ngexesha lokuya esikhathini ziyacima, cinga ngale nto. E-Afrika, isizwe siphila apho, ngenxa yeenkolelo zonqulo, ngokwesondo kuvunyelwe kuphela ngamaxesha. Nangona zizinto ezikhethekileyo zobudlelwane bezesondo, isizwe siphila kwaye asihlose ukufa.
Indlela yokulala ngesondo - kunye nekhondom okanye ngaphandle, unqumle, kodwa ukuba ukukhulelwa akucetywanga, ngoko malunga nokukhulelwa komzimba akufanele kulibaleke.
Ukwabelana ngesondo kuthinteka njani ukuya esikhathini?
Yaye ngesondo ngenyanga kunye nenyanga nganye umgangatho wesini. Yintoni, ngoku siza kuyenza.
- Xa ulala ngesantya ngexesha lokuya esikhathini, ukunyuka kwesisu kuya kwehla. Oku kubangelwa ukuphazamiseka kwixesha lomzimba.
- Ngethuba lokuya esikhathini, abafazi bahlala bexhamla. Oku kubangelwa kukuba ngexesha lokuya esikhathini, isiswini, njengoko sinyuka ngenxa yokunyuka kwegazi kwaye siba nzima kakhulu kwaye sithintele. Ngenxa yoko, isondo ngexesha lokuya esikhathini kunokunceda uvelele ngakumbi kunamanye iintsuku.
- Kukho uluvo lokuba ukuba unesondo ngexesha lokuya esikhathini, oko kuya kuphelisa ngokukhawuleza. Oku kuboniswe ngokwenene ukuba emva kwe-orgasm kukho ukukhishwa ngokukhawuleza kwe-endometrium. Kwaye kwenzeka ngenxa yehomoni equlethwe kwisidoda. Ngoko ukuba ufuna ukukhawulezisa ukuhamba kwexesha, kufuneka ulale ngesondo
ngaphandle kwekhondom. - Umgangatho wesini unokuphucula ngeli xesha kwaye kuba baninzi (kodwa akubona bonke) amadoda abanjwe ukukhwabanisa ngokugqithisileyo ngokwesini. Ewe, kunye namakhosikazi kweli xesha likhululiwe, elichaphazela kakuhle umgangatho wothando othuthuzelayo.
Ngoko-ke, masiqokelele-ukulala ngesondo ukuya kwinyanga, kodwa kuphela kunye neqabane elithembekileyo, ngelixa ugcina imithetho yococeko kwaye ungayikhohlwa malunga nokukhulelwa. Ukuba uyayilandela le mithetho, ayiyi kuba yingozi kwimpilo yakho. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna isondo ngexesha lokuya esikhathini kwaye ungayiqondi umlingane wakho, yenza impilo yakho, ungaziphiki ukuzonwabisa.