Ukuxilongwa kobudlelwane babazali bomntwana

Ukuphucula nokudibanisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantwana nabazali, kuyimfuneko yokwakha ngokuchanekileyo ukususela ekuqaleni. Kodwa le ngcamango kwintsapho nganye inokwakho, ekhokelela kwiimeko zengquzulwano, kwaye oku kwenzeka nakunoma yiphi ubudala, kungekhona nje kuphela intsha. Ukuqonda oko kusengalunganga kwintsapho kumzali wabantwana, kukho ukuxilongwa okukhethekileyo, okuqhutywe ngumfundi weengqondo. Kwimihla eyahlukileyo, ingahluka, kwaye kuya kufuneka ukuba uzame enye ngexesha ukuze uqonde izizathu zokungaqondi.

Iindlela ezisetyenziselwa ukuxilonga ubudlelwane bomzali wabantwana zifanelekile kubantwana abancinci kunye nabantwana basenkulanga, ngeentlobo ezincinane. Izikhokelo zophando olunjalo zicinga ukuba iimbini ezimbini-ukuqwalaselwa kwimeko ukusuka kwindawo yabazali nakwinkalo yomntwana.

Izindlela zokufumanisa ubudlelwane babazali bomntwana

Okwangoku, iindlela ezisibhozo ziye zahanjiswa ngokubanzi, ngoncedo apho ochwepheshe abanolwazi banokukunceda ukuqonda ukuba yintoni ingxaki yobudlelwane nomntwana. Ziye zaphuhliswa ngabachwepheli basekhaya nabangaphandle kwiinkalo zengqondo. Masifunde encinane malunga nendlela abasebenza ngayo.

Uvavanyo lwalamano lwabazali

Olu luvavanyo olulula olubonisa iimpawu zabazali ngabantwana kunye nokuzimisela ukufundisa isizukulwana esincinane, kunye nezindlela ezikhethiweyo kunye nezindlela zokusebenzisana.

Indlela yeZarova

Olu vavanyo lusekwe kwintetho yabantwana malunga nabantu abadala - umama noyise. Ikuvumela ukuba ufumane ukuba ngaba, ngababongi babantwana, ngabazali ngokufanelekileyo bayabafundisa ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye banqume umlinganiselo wegunya.

"Ukunyamekela"

Njengengqalelo enganeleyo kubazali, kwaye ingqwalaselo eyingozi ingathintela kakubi ukuziphatha komntwana, ekuhlaleni kwakhe. Olu vavanyo luvumela ukuba ufumane, Akunjalo nokuba uMama noTata bayayinyamekela umntwana wabo, nokuba ngaba kunesidingo sokucima iincindi zabazali.

Ukongeza kwezi zivavanyo eziqhelekileyo ezisetyenziswayo:

• Indlela i-PARI - ivumela, ngokuyinhloko umama, ukuba aqonde umbono wabo wosapho, indima yomntwana kuyo, ubudlelwane bayo nomntwana (ukunakekelwa ngokugqithiseleyo, ubanda phakathi kwabo);
• Inkqubo yeShafer yenza i-psychologist ihlole iindlela zokukhuliselwa kwintsapho enikezelwe ngabantwana, kwaye ukunceda abazali bahlalutye indlela yabo yokuziphatha ngenzuzo yomntwana;
• "Ubuso Bothando" ngumbuzo wemibuzo kumama nobawo, okuya kunceda ukuqonda indlela abaphatha ngayo umntwana wabo.