Ingxaki yeminyaka emi-2 kubantwana

Iingcali zikholelwa ukuba iintlungu ezinxulumene nobudala abantu abajamelene nazo ngexesha lokuphila kwabo zincedisa ekuphuculeni i-psyche. Ezi zigaba zenguqu ziyimpawu esele zikhona kwixesha lokufunda. Ngoko ke, abazali mabafanele bazi ngokukhawuleza malunga neengxaki zeminyaka emi-2 kubantwana, ukuze bazi iindawo zalo. Ngeli thuba, unina abaninzi banokuvakalelwa kukuba umntwana ufumana umonde wabo. Enyanisweni, iingcali zeengqondo zenza ingxaki kwiminyaka emithathu, nje umzuzu wenguqu unokuqala ekuqaleni, kwaye kamva, ubude bawo buyiminye. Abanye abantwana baqala ukufumana eli xesha kwiminyaka emi-2, kwaye abanye bafika ku-4 kuphela. Ngoko ke, oomama kufuneka balungiselele ubunzima ngokukhawuleza.

Iimpawu zeengxaki zeminyaka emi-2 kumntwana

Kule minyaka i-karapuz iyasebenza, ilwela ukuzimela, kwaye ifuna amathuba okwakha ubudlelwane nehlabathi. Ingane ayithethi kakuhle kwaye oku kumthintela ukubonakalisa iminqweno kunye neemfuno zakhe. Ngenxa yoko, abazali abanakukwazi ukuhlala beqonda oko umntwana wabo akufunayo, apho kukho amanani amaninzi abangela amahlazo.

Ukuba umntwana unenkathazo iminyaka engama-2-3, umama unokuqonda ngokuziphatha kwakhe okutshintshileyo. Ukwandisa, kwezinye zezicelo zabo, abantu abadala baqala ukuva "Hayi". Ukongezelela, abazali bahlala bejongana nabantwana abakhohlakeleyo, ngamanye amaxesha abantwana kwiimeko ezinjalo bangabonakalisa ubundlobongela, baphule amathoyizi, baphosa izinto. Amama angabona ukuba i-karapuz idla ngokubonisa ukuba nzima.

Inkathazo yeminyaka emi-2 kubantwana - iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo

Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bahlale bezolile kwaye bangazami ukuwachitha. Awukwazi ukumemeza umntwana kwaye umjezise, usebenzisa amandla angokwenyama, ekubeni oku kuchaphazela kakubi ukubunjwa kobuntu.

Ukuze unqobe ubunzima beeminyaka emi-2 kumntwana, ukujamelana neengxabano, kuyafaneleka ukuphulaphula iziphakamiso:

• Imida ethile kufuneka imiswe, awukwazi ukunqanda into ethile, kwaye unokuyicombulula;
• akufanelekile ukutyelela indawo apho umntwana ekhulelwa ngokukhawuleza, ekubeni ukukhathala kubangele ukuhlambalaza;
• ukuba ngaba abazali abavumelanga into ethile kumntwana, ngoko kufuneka umchazele isigqibo sakho, kutheni bawathatha;
• Ukuba umntwana unomsindo, awukwazi ukumbetha, kungcono ukubonisa umonde, zama ukutshintshela umntwana kwenye into;
• Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela imbono yabantwana, ukuvumela ukuba "cha";
• Abazali mabazame ukungaxhatshazwa kakubi;
• Abantu abadala banyanzelekile ukuba bajonge ukuziphatha kwabo, akunakwenzeka ukufumana ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo xa iintsana zisondele.

Sifanele siyihlonele iminqweno yeemvuthu, uthathe uluvo lwakhe kwaye mvumele ukuba enze ukhetho apho kunokwenzeka khona.