Ukucela indlela yokulungisa ikamelo labantwana kwinkwenkwe, kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kwinani lamanani abalulekileyo.
Indlela yokulungisa igumbi lenkwenkwana?
Okokuqala, ukwakhiwa kwegumbi kufuneka kuhambelane nomntwana wale nkwenkwe kwaye kulula ukuyitshintsha, kuxhomekeke kwimfuno yakhe yeminyaka. Ngako oko, kukufanelekile ukukhetha iifenitshala ezininzi, rhoqo ufumana ikona yezinto zokusebenza zezemidlalo (kwimeko enzima, ukuxhobisa ubuncinane udonga lwaseSweden) kwaye unikezele indawo yokwenza ubuchule obuza kusetyenziswa ngokukhawuleza njengokusebenza (esikolweni). Ukukhetha umbala webala kunye nokuyila kweendonga zegumbini le nkwenkwe, akuyimfuneko ukulandela ngokuthe ngqo imilinganiselo ekhoyo:
- Imibala eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nemibala eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka Ngobuninzi bala mibala, igumbi liya kuba libandayo kwaye lingakhathazeki. Kungcono ukukhetha imibala ye-pastel engathathi hlangothi, nangona imibala egcweleyo ( ophuzi , i-orange, i-emerald) nayo iyamkeleka njengendawo eqaqambileyo kwaye inika igumbi "lokuphila";
- umfanekiso osesithombeni sophawu nje ngumatshini wokubhala. Akunjalo ukuba inkwenkwe yakho iya kuba nomdla kule nkqubo. Umzobo kufuneka ubonakalise iimfuno zomntwana, kungekhona abazali bakhe.
Qiniseka ukuba ukhetha izinto zokugqiba, ifenitshala, izambatho kwikamelo lomntwana, qaphela ukuvunyelwa kokusebenzisa izinto ezinjalo kunye nempahla kumagumbi abantwana, ithuba lokucoca okanye ukuhlamba rhoqo.
Ngamanye amaxesha umbuzo uvela nokuba ukwakhiwa ikamelo elilodwa kwinkwenkwe esanda kuzalwa? Ngokungaqinisekanga, awukwazi ukuyiphendula. Usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa ludinga ukunakekelwa ngumama malunga nexesha. Ngoko ke, kunokwenzeka kwaye kunokwenzeka, mhlawumbi, ukuhlobisa ikhoneni labantwana kwikamelo labazali. Nangona kwamanye amazwe aseNtshona (eFransi, umzekelo) abantwana ukususela ebusaneni bahlala kwigumbi elilodwa. Okukhethiweyo kukukho.
Ukuyila igumbi lezingane kumfana osemtsha
Umfana osemtsha, ongena kwixesha elibizwa ngokuba ngumda wexesha elidlulileyo, uya kufuna omnye "umdala" uyilo lomgangatho. Yaye ukuba ukuklanywa kwenkwenkwe yenkwenkwe yenkwenkwe engabangela ukungavumelani nabazali, kubandakanya kwinkqubo yobhaliso lomntwana wakho. Umbuko wegumbi labantwana le nkwenkwe-intsha ingenziwa kwiimpawu ezahlukeneyo - iiklasikhi ezingenakwenzekayo, i-high-tech okanye i-thematic design, kodwa nangona kunjalo, kufuneka ucinge ngenyameko ukufakwa kwemimandla eyahlukeneyo kunye nokunyamekela ukukhanya kwazo eziphezulu.
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