UKylie Minogue, ongenabantwana bakhe, wathintela kwisifundo esibuhlungu somama, enika udliwano-ndlebe kwi-Sunday Times Magazine. Umculi wachaza umzabalazo wakhe onzima nomhlaza webele kunye namaphupha okuba ngumama, okwenziwe, akufuneki ukuba kuzaliseke.
Akukho miphumo
U-Kylie Minogue oneminyaka engama-48 ubudala, oza kutshata nomntu oneminyaka engama-29 uJasas Sassa, engxoxweni engathethekiyo kunye nentatheli evela kwincwadi eyaziwayo yaseBrithani, wavuma ukuba wayengenako ukumnika umntwana oyintandane umntwana.
Ngo-2005, xa wayeneminyaka engama-37 ubudala, umculi waseAustralia wayefunyanwe nomhlaza wesifuba. Ukuze ulondoloze ubomi bukaKylie, oogqirha baxininisa kwi-mastectomy ekhethekileyo kunye noomathotholo kunye nezifundo ze-chemotherapy. Emva konyaka wonyango olunzulu, isifo sagqiba ekugqibeleni, kodwa iMinogue kwakufuneka ilandelelanise izicwangciso zokuba nomntwana ngenxa yokunyanga.
Imibuzo ebuhlungu
NgokukaKylie, kwakunzima kuye ukuba amkele le nyaniso enenzondelelo kwaye wayenomdla ngokucinga ukuba umntwana uya kubukeka njani, ngaba uya kubonakala ngathi, inkwenkwana okanye intombazana? Kwangexesha elide, i-Minogue ayikwazanga ukudibanisa nesigwebo seengcali, kodwa ngoku iyakwazi ukubheka iinyani ngomntu kwaye ithathe inyaniso engathandekiyo kwaye ngoko iyakwazi ukuthetha ngayo ngokuzithoba.
Umculi wavuma ukuba uziva engakhululeki xa omnye umntu omaziyo eqinisekisa ukuba iyeza alinayo kwaye akukho nto inokwenzeka:
"Xa uva ukuba ngoku kukho amathuba amaninzi okuba ngumama, ufuna ukumemeza. Ewe, kuyamangalisa ukuba kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kukho ulwandle lwamathuba. Ku khuthaza! Kodwa ukuba ngokukhawuleza ulahlekelwa ngulo mvelo wendalo owawuvela kwimvelo, oya kubalwa kuyo, ngoko ubukho bazo zonke ezinye iindlela azikholisanga. "Funda kwakhona
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Makhe songeze, iMinogue inomdla ngokuthetha nabazalwana bakhe, abathandayo kunye nabathandana nabo, becinga ukuba phantse abantwana bakhe.