Mhlawumbi wonke umntu ohambahamba wayenokuzichazela ngolwimi lwezandla. Kwaye, ngokumangalisayo, ukunyameka kunceda ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kumazwe ahlukeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngale ndlela asikhulumi kuphela xa sidibana nabantu basemzini. Ulwimi lwentetho, ubuso bomzimba kunye nokuzibonakalisa ukuthetha kwethu kwansuku zonke. Siyaqonda ukuba yinto engathandekiyo, kodwa asikwazi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthetha oko omnye umntu ufuna ukusixelela. Ngokumalunga nendlela yokuqonda ulwimi lweentshukumo kunye nokuhamba komzimba, indlela yokufunda ukuthetha ngayo ngokuqaphelayo, siya kuthetha namhlanje.
Iintetho zeNtombi zeNtetho
Abaninzi bazama ukuqonda ulwimi lwezandla ukuze baqonde ukuba u-"cha" wakho uluhlu olunjani. Emva kwakho konke, ngaphandle kokuyiqonda, sisoloko sinikela iimvakalelo zethu, sichasene namazwi ethu. Ngoko, umfana osefunde kakuhle unokufunda iimpawu ezilandelayo zomzimba wakho:
- ukuphosa i-curl ngomunwe wakho, ukugubha iinwele zakho (ngokuqhelekileyo kwanamantombazana aneenwele ezimfutshane). Kuwuphawu lokutya kunye nomdla. Ukuba umntu uyasithanda, siqondisa ngokuqhelekileyo iinwele;
- ukubetha into ejikelezayo. Kuza kuba nempumelelo nakwabo bantu abangaqhelekanga ngolwimi lweentshukumo zamantombazana. Ukunyuka okunjalo kunika umdla wethu osondelene nobudlelwane obusondeleyo, kwaye amadoda afunde ezi zibonakaliso ngeenkuthalo;
- malunga neenjongo ezifanayo zesondo kuthiwa unqumla umlenze okanye umdaka (imilenze idlulile);
- ukuwela kweengalo. Kuthetha ukuba sizama ukucima indawo yethu. Lo mqondiso ufunda ukuvalwa kwaye akafuni ukunikezela iinjongo zayo;
- kumgama. Xa simthanda kakhulu umntu, sisondela ngakumbi kuye. Ngamanye amaxesha nangaphandle kokungazi. Ngokukhethekileyo amantombazana athobekileyo, ngokuchaseneyo, zama ukuxhamla kwisifundo abanomdla kwikhoneni elingaphezulu. Nangona kunjalo, ukusuka apho akukho ulwimi lwezandla okanye ulwimi lomzimba olufundwayo.
Ulwimi lomzimba kunye nezenzo zomntu
Kufuneka ufunde ulwimi lwezandla lwabafana xa ufuna ukwazi kwangaphambili ukuba ummeli wesini esahlukileyo ungubani. Amadoda asetyenziswa ezi zilandelayo:
- ukujongwa okufutshane emehlweni. Ukuba oku kwenzekayo kwintlanganiso yokuqala, qaphela: mhlawumbi, le yindlela yokwenza "i-glue" wena. Kungenzeka ukuba uyamthanda le ndoda, kodwa iinjongo zakhe zingabi zibi;
- lijongene nawe ngeholide. Ukuba inxalenye engaphezulu yesazi iphendukele kuwe, unokuqiniseka ukuba ngoku uphakathi kwenkalo yomntu. Makheke ubuke ubuncinane ngefestile ngeli xesha;
- umi, ephendukela kuwe, kwimilenze ephakathi. Lo ngumqondiso wesithakazelo sesini;
- uya kuhlutha. Ukuba umntu umi okanye ehleli ngokubukeka ngokuzithemba, ngoko ukhangelelana ngesinye iisokisi zithi, mhlawumbi, unamandla. Umele umvumele umntu azi ukuba unamathuba (ukuba kunjalo, kunjalo);
- xa udibana nombono, le ndoda inyanzela ikhanda layo kwicala elinye. Ndiyakuvuyela - sisisimemo esincinci kwisithuba sakho somntu! Unokuqiniseka ukuba indoda enomdla kuyo;
- ukuthobela umlomo womntu. Ubungqina obuhle ukuba ngaba bakhululekile okanye banomotheka ngokunyanisekileyo . Ukuba i-gry grins kwikona enye yomlomo wayo okanye ukumncumo kwakhe ngokukhawuleza kwaye kunomdla, kubonisa ukuba iqabane lingenakuliseka okanye iingcinga zakhe zihlala kwenye into.
Ulwimi lwezandla lwabathandekayo
Ngaba uye wadibana nendoda ixesha elide, kwaye awukwazi ukulinda amagama athandekileyo? Jonga ngakumbi, mhlawumbi ulwimi lomzimba wakhe ludlulisele ixesha elide ngothando. Indoda ethandanayo iyazama ukubonisa intombi yakhe kwabanye. Igama eliphambili "lakho". Uthabatha ngesandla, uyambamba ngeenxa zonke, ubeka ibhatyi lakhe emagxeni akhe - ngokubanzi, kukho konke ukubonisa ukufikelela kumzimba. Ukongezelela, ukuba awunamdla kuye, indoda iya kuzama ukukhusela kwizinto ezicingayo "iidons". Uya kubamba umnyango, anike isandla, akuyeke ekuboneni imoto eqhuma. Ngelizwi, uya kuziphatha njengomntu oyinyaniso!