Indlela yokulungiselela igumbi leholide?
Njengoko uyazi, abantwana banamathele amabhaluni amakhulu kwaye aqaqambileyo, ngoko-ke kwiminyaka emi-2 ubudala ngosuku lokuzalwa kwonyana wabo kuya kuba yinto efanelekileyo yokuhlobisa iholo kunye nemibhobho enemibala embalabala, ukubophelela kwiihlalo, izibambo zomnyango kunye nokusabalalisa phansi. Unako ukuwafakela nge-helium, kwimeko apho, baya kutsalwa kwidilesi. Kodwa ukuba oko akunakwenzeka, unokuzifakazela, kodwa ungayidluli, isandi sebhola elingalindelekanga lingasabisa umntwana kwaye senze iinyembezi.
Kunokuhlala kwiindwendwe?
Ngoku ungabandakanya umculo omnandi wabantwana kunye neengoma ezivela kwiimifanekiso zakho ezizithandayo, ziyakwazi ukudala imihla yokuzonwabisa yazo zonke iindwendwe ezincinane kunye nabazali babo.
Kodwa ixesha lokuzalwa komntwana kwiminyaka emi-2 kufuneka likhethwe malunga nokulala komhla bakhe kunye neendwendwe ezincinci, musa ukuzihoxisa, ekubeni umntwana usenokuba neemeko ezimbi ngenxa yokuxhalaba kunye nokuxhatshazwa. Ukubhiyozela umhla wokuzalwa kwenkwenkwe kwiminyaka emi-2 kufuneka kulungiswe ngemidlalo emfutshane, kuba ngeli xesha abantwana banokuphelelwa ngumdla kwinto enye. Ukuzonwabisa okunjalo kunokuthi, "Karavai", "Ulwandle lukhathazeka kanye ...", "Uqagela ngakwesinye isandla", kwaye emva kokutya abantwana banokuthathwa kunye nomdwebo oqokelelweyo. Ijongo lemihla yokuzalwa kwanezingane zonyaka wesibini kukuba unako ukuqasha abenzi bezilwanyana okanye iinclowns abangakwazi ukuthatha inkwenkwe yokuzalwa nabahlobo bakhe abancinci ngemincintiswano enomdla kakhulu kwiyure okanye ezimbini, ngeli xesha abazali bephumula baze baphumule.
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Khumbula ukuba iholide yabantwana kufuneka ibe yintsana, kwaye imikhosi yendabuko yabantu abadala kunye nokukhulisa i-toasts ngosuku lokuzalwa akuyona yabantwana.