Inyanga yobudlelwane yinto encinane kakhulu. Kwiintsuku ezingama-30 akunakwenzeka ukuba ufunde kakuhle umlingiswa womntu, izinamathiselo kunye nemikhwa yakhe. Akukho mfana okanye intombazana eyazi ukuba baya kuqhubeka bedibana, okanye emva kwexesha kuya kufuneka bahlukane . Kodwa, ekubeni ngamnye wethu eshahleni ubuncinane ubuncwane obuncinane, ndifuna ukuphawula lo mhla omncinci kwaye ndibonise inceba kwinyanga yesipho esincinane.
Yintoni ongayinika inyanga yobudlelwane?
Ukukhetha isipho kwiqabane lakho kufuneka uqalise ngokulumkisa, ngakumbi xa ujwayelene nangoko kutshanje. Musa ukucaphuka xa kuvela ukuba isiqingatha sakho sesibini sibonakala singayithobeli ingqalelo. Iingcaphelo zamadoda nabasetyhini zihlukile, kwaye sijonga izinto ezifanayo ngamehlo ahlukeneyo.
Ngethamsanqa, kwimeko yokukhetha isipho kulo mzekelo, izimvo azifani kakhulu. Kwiinyanga zobudlelwane, isipho kumntu kufuneka sibe nomfanekiso oqingqiweyo, njengento ebizayo, uyakwazi ukumlumkisa aze atshabalalise umoya wesithandane. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba isipho esona sikhulu sixesha esichithwa kunye.
Akuyiyo ingozi ukuba inkumbulo kumntu kwinyanga yobudlelwane ibonakala njengesimemo kwivenkile yokudlela okanye i-cafe yokudliwayo. Ingaba luhambo oluhlangeneyo ukuya kwi-cinema okanye kwindawo yokudlala. Kwaye isipho esithandekayo siya kuba ngamatikiti ekhoneni yeqela lakhe elithandayo.
Umtsalane we-adrenaline unokunqumla ngeparachute okanye isipho esifana naye. Icandelo lezinto eziphathekayo zesipho lifihlwe apha. Kodwa unokuqiniseka ukuba awusoze ulibaleka.
Ngokuqhelekileyo njengesipho, i-keychain yemoto, i-pendant, igug okanye i-lighter. Kungekudala, imifanekiso yobugcisa ithandwa kakhulu. Intombazana eyaziwayo ngokubamba izilingo okanye i-crochet ayiyi kunzima ukubopha othandekayo ngekhredithi okanye i sweatshi. Ukuba umfana uyamthanda intombi yakhe, uya kuvuya ngokuthatha nayiphi na izipho zakhe, into eyona nto kukuba uhamba kunye namazwi amnandi kunye nobushushu obushushu.