Ukukhala komntwana kusoloko kumqondiso kubazali ukuba umntwana ufuna ukunakwa okanye unento enokulimaza. Ngabantwana abakwazi ukuthetha, bafumene isizathu sokukhala, kulula kakhulu kunabantwana abangenakuchaza oko kungafanelekanga. Ngokukodwa ukhathazekile ngoomama abancinane abakhala abantwana emva kokuvuka. Ngesizathu sokuba umntwana akhale emva kokulala kunye nendlela yokumnceda, siza kuxela ngakumbi.
Kutheni umntwana ekhala xa evuka?
Abantwana abangaphantsi komnyaka owodwa ubudala
Izizathu zokubangela ukuba abantwana abancinci bekhalayo azininzi:
- indlala;
- diapers ezimanzi okanye i-diapers;
- ukungabikho kwengqalelo;
- intlungu.
Umntwana omncinci akanakudla umgangatho omiselweyo okanye ulala ixesha elide kunokuba liqhele. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ephupheni, uqala ukuhlupheka ngenxa yendlala kwaye, sele elambile, uvuka. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukukhala okunjalo kuqala ngokububula, ngoko kuba kubi kakhulu, umntwana uqala ukujika intloko ekukhangela ibhotile okanye ibhotile kwaye ukuba abayifumananga, ikhula ngokukhawuleza ikhule ngokukhala. Ukuzolalisa umntwana okhalayo, kufuneka ukondliwe.
Umntwana unokuvuka aze akhale ngokukrakra ukuba ephupheni ubhale okanye i-pokakal. Iibhotile ezimanzi okanye i-diapers kule ngxaki ngokungathandekiyo ilukhuni isikhumba, kubanda kwaye kubangela ukungathandeki, apho umntwana evuka khona. Ngokukhala kwakhe ucela ukuba kubuyiselwe iimeko ezintle. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba i-diapers iyitshintshe, kwaye isikhumba somntwana sihlambulukile, uya kuzincama.
Umntwana, engqongwe ngokungenasidla ngqalelo, uyakhala kwakhona xa evuka. Ukulila kulula kakhulu ukwahlula ukusuka kwezinye izibonakaliso zokunganeliseki umntwana. Ekuqaleni, ukukhala kudlula imizuzwana emininzi kunye nokuphazamiseka kokulinda, umntu uza kuza okanye akakho. Ukuba akukho mntu ufanelekile emva koko emva kwemizamo emibini okanye emithathu ukutsala ingqalelo, umntwana uqala ukukhala ngokukhawuleza. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bakwazi ukugcina umkhondo walezi zihlandlo, kwaye ukuba ukukhala kuyodwa, ungasondela kumntwana ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukuba ingqwalasela ngokukhawuleza ibe yinto eqhelekileyo, kufuneka inqunywe, ngaphandle koko abazali abayi kuphumla.
Umntwana uyavuka kwaye akhala ngokukhawuleza kwiimeko xa ezibuhlungu. Ukukhala kuyomelele, inokuhamba kunye ne-grimaces ebusweni bomntwana kunye nokwanda kweetoni. Ingane iyakwazi ukuchukumisa imilenze kwaye ifake. Ukukhala ngeentlungu kudla kuqala,
Abantwana emva konyaka
Umntwana omdala unokukhala emva kwemini okanye ubuthongo ebusuku xa efuna ukuya kwindlu yangasese. Ngokukodwa oku kusebenza kubantwana abasele bajwayelene nebhodi. Ukuba umnqweno wokuya kwindlu yangasese yimbangela yokukhala, umntwana angaya ebhodweni aze aqhubeke nokuphupha kwakhe iphupha.
Esinye isizathu sokulila singaba yimibhobho. Umntwana ngokwakhe uphazamiseka ngexesha elifanayo, kwaye ukukhala kunokuqalisa ngisho nangomzuzu wokulala. Ukuzola umntwana, umama ufuna ukumbamba.