Iliso elibi liyamanyathelo; Indoda, ekhangele umntwana, ayengasoloko enqwenela kuye into embi, Kodwa umntwana olulandelayo ilanga lokushisa liye laphuma. Ngaphezu koko, izalamane ezisondeleyo nezoxolo ziyakwazi ukuzenza, zingazi.
Ukuba umntwana unenkathazo, oko akusoloko kuyimpembelelo kweso elibi. Mhlawumbi wayetyhefu okanye unentsholongwane ethile, kwaye umama uqala ukukhumbula ukuba ngubani ongakhange amkhangele umntwana wakhe.
Unokumisela njani ukuba umntwana udibene? Iimpawu:
- ukunyuka ngokungenangqiqo kwimobushushu;
- ukuziphatha okungathandekiyo komntwana, ngokukhawuleza kunye nokukhala eside;
- umntwana okanye ujabulise, ngokugqithiseleyo, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, waba luvila, engaxoxiswanga;
- inkwenkwe yesoyiko, ngokukhawuleza yamoyika umnyama, yahlala yedwa, njl .;
- Inkwenkwe okanye intombazana iyenqaba imathoyilo ayithandayo izolo, okanye ayifuni ukudlala imidlalo yakhe ayithandayo;
- umntwana ulahlekelwe ngumdla.
Khawucinge ukuba wenzeni ukuba umntwana onobundlobongela abulali. Unokuthatha amanyathelo anjalo:
- Ukuhlamba umntwana, uthi: "Ukusuka kwamanzi e-poppy-imbewu ukusuka kwintsana yentlungu. Avela phi - apho kwaye idibene. " Amanzi asetyenziswayo kufuneka agxothwe emhlabeni.
- Hlulela iqanda eliluhlaza phezu komzimba kwaye uthi: "Ndiyigqithisa itekisi entloko, amahlombe, umva, aphethe, isifuba, isisu, imilenze, umzimba wonke. Ndiyifaka iqanda - ndiyingozi. " Emva koko iqanda litshiswa kwaye lifihlwe.
- Ukwahlula iqanda kwiglasi yamanzi, utyumle igobolondo enye yawa swoop kwaye uthi: "Andiyixinzezeli igobolondo - izicwangciso zakho zokugula. I-Dawl-iyichitha ukugula kunye (negama lomntwana). " I-egg kunye negobolondo zingcwatywe.
Kukholelwa ukuba ezi ndlela zifanelekile ukuba zenze i-jinxed umntwana omncinci (uneminyaka engama-7), kodwa yintoni enokuyenza xa iliso elibi lichaphazela inkwenkwana okanye intombazana endala? Ezi ndlela zifanelekile kubantwana abanjalo:
- Ukuzisa umntwana kwisigane samanzi okanye unokufaka isicelo sesibhengezo esahlukileyo: uthele kwibhakethi ukusuka phezulu kwentloko ngokutshintshisayo ngamanzi ashushu kunye namanzi abandayo. Kufuneka ukuba uqale ngamanzi ashushu, uze usebenzise amanzi abanda.
- Khanyisa ikhandlela uze uyiqhube kunye nomzimba womntwana kwindawo ekhuselekileyo. Kwezinye iindawo, ikhandlela liya kutshaya kwaye libheke. Kufuneka iholelwe dela ilangabi libe lithe ngqo.
- Beka ikhandlela kumgama wesigidi semitha ukusuka kumntwana kwaye uvumeleke ukubukeka, ngaphandle kokuthatha amehlo akhe kude aze aphume ngokwakhe.
Yintoni enokuyenza, ukuze ungabi ngumntwana we-jinx?
Ukukhusela umntwana kumntu onobubele, unokusebenzisa isiluleko esithandwayo:
- Ungabonisi umntwana kumntu ongaziwayo ngenyanga yokuqala, uze ubuze izihlobo zakho ukuba zijonge iimvuthu ixesha elide.
- Ungamvumeli umntwana adumise.
- Buza ukuba izalamane zingakhange zibheke umntwana olele ixesha elide, ingakumbi kubantu abangaziwa.
- Ukuze uhambe unokubeka umntwana kwiingubo ezibomvu - kuya kukukhusela amandla angalunganga.
- Ukubopha iintambo ezimbalwa ezibomvu kwisandla esifanelekileyo.
- Ukuvala umqhubi nge-tulle.
- Ukukhawuleza ukukhanyisa umntwana esecaleni lomntwana.
Amafutha abalulekileyo eucalyptus, umhlonyane, umjunipha, i-rowan ihlambulula kakuhle umoya. - Beka amaqabunga kunye namajikijolo e-rowan phantsi kwe-mattress kubantwana.
- Ungamvumeli umntwana wakho athathe nantoni na engaziwayo.
Ngoko, sathetha into enokuyenza xa udibanisa umntwana wakho. Khumbula, ukuba umntwana wakho ungaphilile ngosuku lwesibini, kungcono ukumbonisa ootitshala bezingane. Kungenzeka ukuba oku akuyona impembelelo kweso linye umntu, kodwa esinye isifo esifanele siphathwe ngokungabonakali ngobulumko obuninzi.