Enye yeengxaki zentlalo yanamhlanje yintlupheko yabemi bayo, ebonakalisa ukungakwazi ukwenza izigqibo ezizimeleyo, ukukhusela amalungelo abo, ukunqoba ubunzima. Izizathu zalo mgaqo zifihlakeleyo kwiimbali zembali ekupheleni kwekhulu leminyaka elidlulileyo, xa kwakukho ukuphuka kwiimpawu eziqhelekileyo kunye neziseko, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, akakwazi ukunikela ngenye indlela, kodwa ngokusisiseko yonke into ekukhuliseni intsapho. Umntu ongumntu omdala ungumphumo wokuba u-hyperopeaky okanye ukunyanzeliswa kwabazali-ukunyamekela umntwana xa umntwana ephantsi kokubeka esweni rhoqo kunye nokubonakaliswa kobuninzi bokuzimela.
Iimpawu zokuba ngumzali
- umntwana ujikelezwe ngqalelo engqongqo;
- umnqweno wokukhusela umntwana wabo nangona kungabikho ingozi yangempela;
- umnqweno wokubopha umntwana kuye, amenze axhomekeke kwiimvakalelo zakhe neemvakalelo zakhe, umenze enze okukhululekile kunokwenzeka kubazali bakhe;
- umntwana ukhululiwe ngesidingo sokuba athathe inxaxheba kwisisombululo seemeko ezinengxaki, ngoko, akanakho izakhono eziyimfuneko kwaye akakwazi ukuhlola ngokwaneleyo imeko;
- ukuphuhliswa kwezinto ezibizwa ngokuba ngumfundi ongenakunceda - ukuphendula kwisithintelo esincinci, ngokubhekiselele kwizinto ezingenakuphikiswa.
Kukho ezimbini iindidi eziphambili zokungakhuselekanga.
Ukunyanzelisa ukukhusela
Ukunyanzeliswa kokunyanzeliswa kukubonakaliswa kumzekelo wobudlelwane bomzali bomntwana "umntwana - kwinqanaba losapho". Ngokuqhelekileyo, loo ngqumbo iboniswa ngabomama abangatshatanga, bethululela umntwana konke okusemandleni okuthandana. Umntwana onjalo uvunyelwe ukusukela ebuntwaneni bakhe kwasekuqaleni, iimpawu zakhe zixhomekeka, ukukwazi ukunyanisela amaxesha amaninzi.
Umntwana onjalo unesiphakamileyo esiphambili sesifiso, umnqweno wobunkokheli, kodwa ke, ngokuqhelekileyo akakwazi ukuqonda kwiqela lezingane. Zonke iimfuno kunye neenjongo zakhe zifezekiswe ngempumelelo kwintsapho enye, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba kwakhiwe imodeli efana neyobudlelwane nabanye. Ngale ndlela uhlobo lomuntu olushushu, olufuna ukubonakaliswa nokubonakaliswa, ekufikeni kwentlekele oku kunokukhokelela ekuziphenduleleni, ngenxa yokuba ininzi inxalenye yokuzibulala.
Imodeli enjalo yobudlelwane bomzali bomntwana yimbangela yesimbolo sokuncedisa, esilungelelaniso sokukhuliswa, xa yonke into isombululwe, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo i-hyperope kunye nokunyamekelwa kwengqalelo kunzima kumntwana.
Ukuxhomekeka ngokuthe ngqo
Ngomzekelo onjalo weentlalontle zentsapho, umntwana akapheli ngokupheleleyo. Akwenqatshelwe ukuthatha inyathelo, ukunyanzelisa izinto ezintsha, ukukhawulela imisebenzi, ukuzimela, ukugxilisa ingcamango yokugqitywa ngokupheleleyo. Umntwana uhlala phantsi kolawulo olunzulu kwaye phantsi kwengcinezelo yengqondo rhoqo. Izakhono zakhe kunye nekhono lakhe lixhomekeke ngamabomu kwaye linyanzeliswe, ngenxa yezizathu zokhuseleko. Ngenxa yoko, umntwana akakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yeprayimari impawu yobudala bakhe, ekholelwa ukuba "usemncinci" kwaye uya kwenza konke okungahambi kakuhle. Olu hlobo lolwalamano lwabazali lwabazali lukhula kwiintsapho apho abazali bazikhethele khona indlela yokukhulisa. Ilizwi labo ngumthetho, bayigunya elingenakuphikiswa.
Iziphumo ze-hyperope
Umnqweno wokunyamekela nokunyamekela umntwana wakho uyinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ufumana i-hypertrophied kwaye
Ukongezelela, phantsi kweemeko ze-hyperopic, umntwana uhlakulela rhoqo, unengqondo ephazamisayo, engabonakaliyo kwiminyaka yakhe. Ngenxa yoko, kukho ukuziphatha okuphikisanayo, ubunqongophala bokuzimela, ukuzithengisa, ukuzithemba ngokwaneleyo, kunye nokukwazi ukunqoba ubunzima ngokwabo. Ngokukodwa "kwiimeko ezinzima," umntwana, engazi indlela yokulahla ukuxhatshazwa kwemvelo kwaye ngaphandle kokwenza nayiphi na imizamo yokwenza njalo, uhlala kwisangqa somndeni womzali, njengoko akakwazi ukuzakhela. Oku kuguqulela kwi-hyperope edabukisayo yabantwana abadala, abahlala bexhomekeka kubazali babo ngokungapheliyo.