Uphuhliso lwabantwana bokuqala

Ubudala ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-1 ukuya kwe-3, okanye ukuqala kwasebuntwaneni, oku kuthethwa ngeli nqanaba ebomini kwintsana, oku kukuqala kokunqoba nokubuhlungu, iimvakalelo eziqaqambileyo, ezininzi iimpawu ezintsha kunye nokufumanisa. Ngexesha elifanayo, eli xesha kunzima kakhulu kumntwana kunye nabazali bakhe, njengokuba ukhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye ukhula kwaye yonke inyanga entsha ivula ii-horizons ezitsha kuye, ngoxa ama-mama kunye nabazali kufuneka bavumelane rhoqo neentswelo kunye namathuba abantwana babo .

Uphuhliso olusondeleyo lwangaphambili lomntwana lubangelwa iimpawu zeeminyaka kunye nempembelelo yendalo, yinkqubo yemvelo kunye nethuba elihle lokubeka izinto ezilungileyo kwixesha elizayo.

Izixhobo zokuphuhlisa abantwana abancinci

Ingqalelo yomntwana oneminyaka elilodwa - sele "ingekho ishidi elicocekileyo" kuwo awuyi kubhala oko ufunayo, nangona inkwenkwe engazange ikwazi yena njengomntu, kodwa unayo iminqweno yakhe, iimfuno, izakhi zofuzo zenziwe kwaye zenziwe kwinkqubo yokukhulisa iimpawu zobuntu. Oku kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo xa kuthethwa ngokukhutshwa kweemvuthu. Mhlawumbi ke, iindlela zokufundisa ezisemgangathweni yilezo zibonisa uthando kunye nentlonelo kumntu omncinci njengemigaqo ephambili. Kwaye nabo baqwalasela iinkalo zophuhliso zabantwana abancinci, ngokukodwa oku:

• iinjongo zokuzimela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, iimvuthu zisasafuna uncedo lwabazali babo, kodwa zifuna ukubanceda ngokufanelekileyo, ukuze umntwana abe nomuzwa wokuthi wenza konke;
• isidingo esiphuthumayo sokudumisa nokukhuthaza;
• ukuzimisela ukusebenzisana nabantu abadala;
• ukuqonda injongo yenkalo ethile kunye nokukwazi ukuyiqonda. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana uyazi ukuba iphiko, kunye nendlela yokusebenzisa ngayo, uya kubachasa ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba abazali bakhe bayondla, kwaye uya kufuna ukwenza ngokuzimela;
• umnqweno wokunxibelelana neontanga, ezixhomekeke kunxanxwa kwento entsha.

Izixhobo eziphambili zophuhliso lwabantwana abancinci

Xa uneminyaka emithathu, iintsana zikhupha kakhulu ekuphuculweni kwengqondo nangokwenyama. Bafunda ukuhamba, ukuthetha, ubuchopho babo, njengokuba isiponji sithatha nayiphi na ingcaciso ayifumanayo, ngaphandle koko, imimandla yeemvakalelo zengqungquthela iyafezekiswa kwaye iphuculwa. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukukhula ngokomzimba, kwengqondo, nokuphuhliswa kwengqondo yabantwana abancinci, njengengqiqo, ngengqondo nangentetho, zonke iinkqubo ezihambelanayo kunye nezihambelana.

Ekuqaleni, umntu akufanele athathele indima yokuphucula rhoqo amakhono omzimba avumela umntwana ukuba ahlolisise kwaye aqonde ihlabathi elikufutshane naye. Ukufunda ukukhahlela, kwaye uhambe, abantwana bayakha ubudlelwane obunobangela, bahlakulele ukuqonda intetho, ngoko kuya kuba lula kubantu abadala ukuba baphumelele.

Ukufunda ulwimi lwabo lwasekhaya, abantwana bayenza isidingo soqhagamshelwano, banelise ukoma ngolwazi olutsha kunye nokubonakala, okubonisa ngokucacileyo ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kunye nomoya. Ngenxa yoko, iimvakalelo zithintela uphuhliso lwengqondo - iimvuthu ziqala ukucinga, ziqhelana nemidlalo yokudlala indima, zifumane izihlobo ezicingayo. Ngendlela, ababizwa ngokuba ngabahlobo abaqinileyo ababonakala ngathi basondele kwiminyaka emithathu kuthathwa njengento eqhelekileyo kule nto kunye neqela elidala. Belana ngesithukuthelo kunye nenjabulo, yenze inkampani kumdlalo, xa abazali bexakeke kwimicimbi yabo.

Iimpawu zentlalo zobuntu bomntwana ziqala ukwakha ngonyaka wesibini wobomi, kwaye ekupheleni kweyesithathu, okubizwa ngokuba yixesha leengxaki. Nangona ibhungu liye laphumelela kakhulu, isigama sakhe sandile, umsebenzi usuqilima kwaye uhlukeneyo, ukuziphatha okushiya kakhulu ukufunwa. Oku kubangelwa ukuba ngeli nqanaba kukho ukukhula okusebenzayo komntu womntwana osemncinci, unenkani, unobuncati, ubunzima obubonakalayo kwisinyathelo ngasinye.