Abantu abaninzi baninzi bafumana ukuhlaselwa koyika kunye nokuxhalaba, kodwa kukho uluhlu olunjalo lwabantu abanoyiko, uxhalaba kunye neengxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo zihlala zihlala zihlala kunye. Kwaye akunakwenza kube lula kubo.
Uloyiko oluqhubekayo kunye nokuxhalaba lunokubangela ukuba unqabile, ukhulule inkqubo yesifo. Oku kubonisa ukuba umzimba uhlala exinzelelekileyo.
Uloyiko, uxhalaba lunokunciphisa umgangatho wobomi bomntu, kuba yimbangela yezibonakaliso zezifo ezahlukahlukeneyo.
Uloyiko oluqhubekayo
Uloyiko oluqhubekayo lunokuhamba kunye neengxaki zengqondo njengoko:
- Izixhobo ze-psychic.
- Neurotic.
- Eziphazamisayo.
- Sharp.
- Uxineke, njl
Izizathu zokubakho kwezi zinto zinokuba zininzi, kodwa zonke ziyakwazi ukudala ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunye nokuhlaselwa kwesoyiko . Olu hlobo lubonakalisa ukwesaba, oluhambelana nomoya wengozi, ukufa, okuza kwenzeka kwimizuzu emininzi, kunye nokuxhalaba, ukuxhatshazwa kwangaphakathi.
Indlela yokulahla ukwesaba rhoqo?
Uloyiko olusoloko luya kushiya ubomi bakho xa ulandela le ngcebiso.
- Funda ukuhlala apha kwaye ngoku, ungacingi ngekamva nangaphambili. Yazisa umzuzu weli xesha.
- Ukuba ufumana ukwesaba okungaqondakaliyo, ukuxhalabisa, ngoko ixesha lokuba wenze into ebalulekileyo. Emva kokuxakeka abantu abanalo ixesha lokukhathazeka.
- Ukwesaba rhoqo ukufa kunokunciphisa, ukuba uyaqonda ukuba ukufa akufanele ukwesatshwe. Akuyi kuba yinto engathandekiyo xa uqhelana neemfundiso zesizwe saseMpuma ngexabiso lokufa kunye nesimo sengqondo kuso. Mhlawumbi u soyika into engaziwayo, yintoni efihliweyo emva kokufa komntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo khumbula igama elithi Epicurus lokuba akukho ukufa xa umntu ephila, kodwa kukho xa umntu engasekho. Hlalani nethemba kwimeko apho.
- Uloyiko oluqhubekayo kumntwana luya kulahla xa uqaphela ukuba ukwesaba umntwana kuqhelekileyo. Kodwa nangona nje ingazange iguqulwe yintlekele. Ungakulibali ukuba ukuba imihla ngemihla, uhlala ujolise kumntwana, kusenokwenzeka
ngakumbi ukomeleza ukwesaba kwakho. Ukongeza kuzo zonke ezi zinto, ukuxhalabisa kuphazamisa umntwana. Kwaye xa uyakhusela ngakumbi, ingaphantsi iyakwazi ukuzilungelelanisa kwihlabathi. - Musa ukulibala ukuba iingcinga eziqhubekayo malunga nendlela yokulahla ukwesaba rhoqo aziyi kusebenza. Qonda kuphela ukuba kukho izinto ezintle ebomini. Zifumane kwiwe. Yazisa ubomi kwaye uzame ukuyitshintsha ibe ngcono.
Ngoko, ukwesaba kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa ukuphazamiseka xa ikhula ibe yinto ehlala isigxina. Emva koko kufuneka ucinge kwakhona ngemikhwa yakho kunye neengcinga eziqhubekayo.