Ukuzalwa komntwana akusiyo nje isiganeko esivuyisayo ebomini bomntu, kodwa kwakhona utshintsho olukhawulezayo olungathinteli kuphela ishedyuli yansuku zonke, kodwa kunye nehlabathi langaphakathi. Amaphupha anjalo akalokothi athetha kwangaphambili ukuzaliswa kwentsapho ebomini bobubomi, ngokuqhelekileyo liba ngumbonakaliso lweenguqu, zombini ezilungileyo kunye nezimbi.
Usana olusanda kuzalwa luphupha ntoni?
Kwiimeko ezininzi, iphupha elinjalo lithembisa ukumangaliswa nokungalindelekanga. Oku kungachazwa njengento yesimo esinozinzo ngobuninzi, kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, uya kufezekisa ngokwakho. Iphupha apho iintsana ezisanda kuzalwa zihamba khona zibonakalisa ubunzima obuzayo. Iintsana ziziphatha ngokuzinzileyo - kuyimpawu yokuba unokusombulula ngokukhuselekileyo iingxaki ezikhoyo. Umbono ebusuku, apho uhlala khona kufuphi ne-crib kunye nosana, uthembisa uxinzelelo lweentsapho.
Iphupha apho umntwana osanda kuzalwa ecinga ukuba yi-harbinger yeengxaki ezahlukileyo, ezidla ngokuxhalabisa kwizinto eziphathekayo. Ukuba ubona intombazana, ngoko kufuneka ulindele ukutshintsha okuya kubakho okulungileyo. Ukondla umntwana ephupheni ngumqondiso olungileyo othembisa impilo enhle. Enye iphupha libonisa ukuba inhlanhla iya kuhamba ne-shishini, kwaye uya kuba nako ukuguqulela ngokwenene konke okucetywayo ngaphambili. Kubalulekile ukulungiselela ubunzima, yiloo nto umntwana ozalwayo osanda kuzalwa. Ukuba umntwana uyamemeza ephupheni, kuthetha ukuba kuya kubakho ukungqubana okukhulu kwiintlalontle zentsapho. Ukuzibona kwiphupha njengokuba usana olusanda kuzalwa lithetha ukuba usoloko ukwesaba ukuthatha uxanduva, kwaye uyitshintshe komnye umntu. Elinye iphupha liyakubonakalisa ukuthotywa kwakho kwenene. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ukuphinda ucinge ngokuziphatha kwakhe kwaye uqale ukuhlala njengomdala. Kwintombazana encinci, iphupha apho azibona njengomntwana osanda kuzalwa, uxwayisa ukuba unokumangalelwa ngokuziphatha kakubi.
Ukubona umntwana osanda kuzalwa ephupheni aze ahlambe, ngoko, ngokwenene unokuba nzima ukujamelana neemeko ezinzima. I-Dream Book ithembisa ukuba uya kukwazi ukuguqulela ngempumelelo izicwangciso zakho. Elinye iphupha liza kukuxelela ukuba abantu abajikelezile bayakuxolela ngenxa yecala elincinci. Ukuba ulahlekile kwaye awufumananga umntwana - oku kuyisixwayiso sokuba ufanele ulungiselele imeko eza kukukwenza ucinge ngezinto zehlabathi.
Gcina umntwana wakho osanda kuzalwa ephupheni, ngoko, empilweni yangempela izicwangciso zakho ziya kuphulwa. Ukuba inkwenkwe yayingumfokazi - lo mqondiso ukuba umntu uzama ukukusebenzisa ngenxa yeenjongo zawo . Iphupha oya kumanga umntwana osandul 'usana usisimboli sokuba unokugcina ubutsha bakho ixesha elide.
Kutheni uphupha ukukhulelwa umntwana osanda kuzalwa?
Kule meko, iphupha liyakucingwa,
Kutheni umntwana oza kuzalwa ephupha?
Iphupha elinjalo lidla ngokudibanisa neemeko ezimnandi eziza kwenzeka kwixesha elizayo elizayo. Kwincwadi enye yephupha kukho ulwazi lokuba lo mbono ebusuku ubonisa ixesha elilukhuni, kodwa ungakhathazeki, kuba yonke into iya kupheliswa kakuhle. Ukuba umntwana uyakhala, kwaye awukwazi ukumnciphisa nangayiphi na indlela - oku kuyimpawu yokuba uyamoyika iingxaki ezikhoyo, kodwa kufuneka uzinciphe, kuba "umtyholi akayibi kakhulu njengoko evezwe."