Kwinkqubo yokulungiselela ukubhalisa esikolweni, abazali kufuneka bajonge indlela abantwana babo abakhula ngayo. Namhlanje, kukho iimvavanyo ezininzi kubantwana abaneminyaka emithandathu ubudala phambi kwesikolo, esiya kuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi kakuhle ulwazi oluyimfuneko, okanye ukufumanisa iingxaki ezikhoyo kwaye ufikelele ekuphuhlisweni kwazo.
Kule ngqaku, sinika ingqalelo enye yezo vavanyo, onokuyiqonda into yokuba umntwana uyazi ngaphambi kwesikolo, kwaye unqume izinga lokuphuhliswa kwonyana wakho okanye intombi.
Uvavanyo lwezabelo zokuqala zangaphambili phambi kwesikolo
Ukuvavanya ukuba inzala yakho ilungele ukungena esikolweni kwaye ukuba ingakwazi ukuqonda ikharityhulam yesikolo, kufuneka umbuze imibuzo embalwa, oku:
- Liliphi igama lakho, ifani kunye negama lomsebenzi?
- Gama igama, igama kunye negama lomntu onguchwephepati, umama.
- Ngaba uyinkwenkwe okanye intombazana? Ubani oya kubakho xa ukhula-umalume okanye unina?
- Ngaba unodade, mzalwana? Ngubani omdala?
- Uneminyaka emingakanani? Yaye uza kuba unyaka kangakanani? Imibini emibini ukususela ngoku?
- Ngaba kusihlwa okanye kusasa (imini okanye kusasa)?
- Uyidla nini isidlo sakusasa - kusasa okanye ngokuhlwa? Ufumana nini isidlo sasemini - emva kwemini okanye kusasa?
- Yintoni eyenzeka ngaphambili - isidlo okanye isidlo sasemini?
- Uhlala phi? Iyiphi idilesi yakho yasekhaya?
- Ngubani owenza umama wakho asebenze naye, uyihlo?
- Ngaba uthanda ukudweba? Nguwuphi umbala lo ipen (ipensela, grater)?
- Liliphi ixesha lonyaka ihlobo, ebusika, entwasahlobo okanye ekwindla? Kutheni ucinga njalo?
- Unokukhwela nini i-sled - ehlobo okanye ebusika?
- Kutheni ikhephu liwela ebusika, kodwa kungekhona ehlobo?
- Yintoni ugqirha, umthumeli, utitshala?
- Kutheni ufuna ikhwelo, idesksi, ibhodi esikolweni?
- Ngaba ufuna ukuya esikolweni?
- Bonisa indlebe yakho yekhohlo, iliso lasekunene. Kutheni sifuna indlebe, amehlo?
- Ziziphi izilwanyana ozaziyo?
- Uhlobo luni lweentaka owaziyo?
- Ubani obengaphezulu - ibhokhwe okanye inkomo? Inyosi okanye intaka? Ngubani ophethe i-paws ngaphezulu: inja okanye iqhude?
- Yintoni enye: 5 okanye 8; 3 okanye 7? Bala ukusuka kubini ukuya kwi sixhenxe, ukususela kwi-8 ukuya kweyesithathu.
- Yintoni omele uyenze ukuba ulahleke ngenye into into yomnye umntu?
Ngexesha lemibuzo, bhala phantsi kwiphepha leempendulo zonke zomntwana wakho, kwaye emva koko uvavanye. Ngoko, ukuba inkunzi iphendule ngokupheleleyo kwaye ichanekileyo impendulo nayiphi na imibuzo, ngaphandle kwalabo abalwe phantsi kweenombolo 5, 8, 15, 16, 22, ufumana ingongoma e-1. Ukuba kukho nayiphi na le mibuzo le mntwana unike impendulo echanekileyo kodwa engaphelelanga, kufuneka afumane amaphuzu ayi-0.5. Ngokukodwa, ukuba i-future-grader wayengakwazi ukuchaza ngokupheleleyo igama elipheleleyo likamama, kodwa wathi "igama likaMamma nguTanya," wanikeza impendulo engaphelelanga, kwaye iindawo ezi-0.5 kuphela zinikwe zona.
Xa uvavanya iimpendulo kwimibuzo engama-5, 8, 15, 16 no-22, oku kulandelayo kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo:
- № 5 - ukuba umntwana uyaphendula ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uneminyaka engakanani kwaye uza kuba yithuba elingakanani emva kwexeshana, ufumana inqaku eli-1, kodwa ukuba unokucacisa ukuba zingaphi iinyanga eziseleyo ngaphambi komhla wokuzalwa kwakhe, kufuneka anikezelwe ngamaphuzu amathathu;
- № 8 - ukuba umntwana unako ukunika ngokupheleleyo idilesi yakhe kwikhaya kunye nenkcazo yeso sixeko kunye nesalathisi, kufuneka afumane amanqaku amabini;
- Inombolo-15 - ukuchazwa ngokuchanekileyo kweso ngasinye sale misebenzi umntwana kufuneka anikezelwe enye ngongoma;
- № 16 - ukuba umntwana ubonisa ngokufanelekileyo injongo yento nganye, ufumana amanqaku amathathu ngexesha;
I-22 - impendulo echanekileyo kulo mbuzo i-future grader yokuqala ifumana amanqaku amabini. Ukuba waphendula ngokungalunganga, akafumani nantoni na.
Emva kokuvavanya zonke iimpendulo ezifunyenweyo, kufuneka ubale inani lempawu eziza kubonisa ukuba umntwana wakho ulungele ukuya esikolweni. Ngoko ke, ukuba ekugqibeleni wathola amanqaku angaphezulu kwama-25, umntwana usulungele ukuguqulwa komgangatho omtsha wokuphila. Ukuba amanqaku okugqibela angama-20-24 amanqaku, ukulungela komntwana wakho kumgangatho ophakathi. Ukuba umntwana akafumananga amaphupha angama-20, akalungele isikolo, kwaye kuyimfuneko ukujongana ngokucophelela nalo.