Ukutshatyalaliswa kwegama elithi "Ndiyatshata nomfokazi osisityebi, uyavuya kakhulu," "Ndiya kwinqanaba lam intanda" kunye namanye amabali ngabafazi abaye bafumana ulonwabo lwabo kwelinye ilizwe? Akunjalo, hayi, kwaye ingcinga "Ndifuna ukutshata nomfokazi, ndingayazi ukuba ndingazenza njani le" zihlunu. Ngoko ke kukufanele ukuphanda ukuba yeyiphi imivalo ephethe umtshato nomfokazi.
Ungatshata njani umfokazi?
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukugqiba ukuba ngubani ethethayo xa sithi "Ndifuna ukutshata nomfokazi." Abemi baseUkraine abanakwenzeka ukuba baphuphe ngokutshata nomnye waseRussia okanye waseKazakh. Kuyavela, iindawo ezivela kwindawo ye-post yaseSoviet ayinomdla. Kwaye ngubani ofunekayo ngoko? Ininzikazikazi inomdla kumadoda avela kumazwe aseYurophu, ngaphandle kweTurkey. Ilizwe lokugqibela, ngokuqinisekileyo, liyaziwa ngamaqabane ayo eholide, kodwa umtshato awunqabile.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abahlali bethu bafuna amadoda phakathi kwamaJamani, amaNgesi, amaFrentshi namaTaliyane. Ukukhangela indoda ingenziwa ngokuzimela ngaphandle kwe-Intanethi okanye ifune i-arhente yomtshato. Kukho nawuphi na, kufuneka ukuba wazi malunga nempawu ezithile zomgangatho wesizwe. Ngokomzekelo, amaJamani axabisa ukulandelana kunye nokugcina ixesha kwaye bafuna okufanayo kumntu abakhethiweyo.
IsiNgesi asikwazi ukumelana nabasetyhini abahlala bethetha ngeengxaki zabo - eli lizwi elibi. Ngoko ufanele uhlakaniphe, ukwazi ukuphulaphula nokuthetha kuphela ngezinto ezilungileyo.
AmaTaliyane afana kakhulu kwiimpawu zabantu baseRashiya, kodwa phantse bonke "oonyana baka-mama." Ukuba umama uthethile into yaseNtaliyane, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuzalisekisa umnqweno wakhe.
AmaFrentshi aqhele ukuqonda ubugcisa, ezopolitiko, imbali. Uya kufuna ukukwazi ukuxhasa incoko. Kodwa iFransi iyaziwa ngokuziphatha okukhululekile kwiintlobano zesini, ngoko umFrentshi angakwazi ukuthandana nenye intokazi phambi komkhethiweyo wakhe kwaye akayi kukhwelisa umona.
Kodwa nawuphi na ukhethayo, kukho iphuzu elibalulekileyo ongenakulilibala ngalo-isivumelwano somtshato. Musa ukukhangela abagwebi, ufunde ngokucophelela uze uxoxe ngawo onke amanqaku. Ngaphandle koko, kukho umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa ngumntwana ngokuqhawula umtshato, imali, njl.
Abasetyhini abaninzi, beza phesheya, bafumene i-horizons ezintsha, baqale ukwenza umsebenzi. Emva koko, emva kwexeshana, umfazi usuphumelele ngakumbi kunomyeni wakhe, owathi wamthatha njengomgcini wendlu, kwaye kungekhona umfazi weshishini. Emva kwakho konke, abafazi bethu baxabiswa kwiNtshona ngokuchanekileyo ngenxa yokungakhululeki kwabo. Ukuba ibali le nzekayo kuwe, ngoko ufanele ulungele okanye ugcine intsapho, uzame ukungaphulaphuli iimvakalelo zomyeni wangaphandle, okanye ukuhlukana - amadoda angakuthandi ukuziva uhlazo lwabo.
Ngaphambi kokugqiba ukutshata, khangela ulwazi malunga nekamva lakho elizayo. Amaninzi amaninzi axhoma "uluhlu lwamnyama" lwabaphathi. Laba bantu basemzini bafumana imali yokuqhawula umtshato okanye abaqhelana nabo namantombazana abavela kwamanye amazwe abanakho ukuzaliswa komtshato. Kungcono ukuya kumyeni ozayo kwiiveki ezimbalwa kwiiveki ezimbalwa ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda imeko, uqonde oko kukulindele, ubuninzi bakho ulwazi ngolwimi nenkcubeko yelizwe elikhethiweyo liyinyaniso.
Ziziphi iimpepha ezifunekayo ukutshata umfokazi?
Ukuba ukhetha i-arhente yomtshato ukufumana umlingane, ngoko umbuzo wokuba uqokelele amaxwebhu afanelekileyo ukutshata umfokazi, awuyi kubakhathalela - iingcali ziyakunceda ukuqokelela kunye nokwenza wonke amaphepha afanelekileyo. Ukuba wenza yonke into yakho, khumbula ukuba akudingeki ukuba usebenze amanqaku amaninzi kwaye uwaqokelele ixesha elide. Ukongezelela, elo lizwe libonisa iimfuno zalo uluhlu kunye nokusetyenziswa kwamaphepha.
Kufuneka ufune ipasipoti (amanye amazwe afuna ukubona kuphela umntu wesinye isizwe), isatifikethi esithi awutshati kwaye isatifikethi sokuzalwa. Iikopi zamaphepha zifuna ukuqwalasela kunye ne-apilitle.
Emva kokuqokelela zonke izatifikethi, iikopi zithunyelwa kumyeni ukuze imvume yokubhalisa umtshato. Xa imvume ifunyenwe, ixesha lokufumana i-visa liza.
Zonke iinkcukacha malunga nohlu lwamaphepha kunye noyilo lwazo kufuneka zichazwe kwi-embassy yelizwe apho uya khona okanye kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa yelizwe lakho. Njengoko iimfuneko zenguqu zitshintsha, kwaye iinguqulelo, i-apostille, i-notarial insurances zibiza imali.