Bonke abazali baphupha ukuba umntwana wabo okhulayo waphumelela ekuxoxaneni noontanga. Emva koko, kubudlelane nabantwana ukuba umlingiswa, uhlobo lokuziphatha kuluntu kunye nobuntu lwakhiwa. Kungenxa yoko ukulungelelaniswa kwezentlalo kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana basesikolweni. Ukuza kunoma yiyiphi inxaxheba, abantu badinga ixesha lokuba bafundele kwaye "baveze" ngokwabo, ngelixa abantwana befunda kuluntu ukuba baphile, okuchaphazela ngqo ukuphuhliswa kwabo.
Impawu zentlalo yomntwana
Uphuhliso loluntu lwezingane zasenkulanga luquka inkqubo yokubambisana ngabantwana bezithethe, izithethe kunye nenkcubeko yoluntu, kunye neempawu zentlalo yomntu ngamnye, encedisa umntwana ukuba aphile ngokukhululekile kuluntu. Kwinkqubo yokulungiswa kwentlalo, abantwana bafunda ukuphila ngemithetho ethile kwaye baqwalasele imimiselo yokuziphatha.
Kwiinkqubo zonxibelelwano, umntwana ufumana amava enhlalakahle, anikezelwa ngumbutho wakhe osondeleyo: abazali, ootitshala begadi kunye noontanga. Ubungcali bentlalo bufezekiswe ngenxa yokuba umntwana uthetha ngolwazi kwaye atshintshe ulwazi. Abantwana abangenakulungiswa ngokuqhelekileyo baninzi balahla amava kwabanye abantu kwaye abadibana nabadala kunye noontanga. Oku kungakhokelela ekuziphatheni kakubi kwixesha elizayo ngenxa yokungahambi kakuhle kwezakhono zenkcubeko kunye neempawu zoluntu eziyimfuneko.
Naliphi na umsebenzi unenjongo, kwaye amandla omntwana ukufezekisa injongo enika ukuzithemba kwaye unikezela ngolwazi lwakhe. Ingqiqo ebaluleke kakhulu ibonisa ukuhlaziywa koluntu kwaye ichaphazela ukuzithemba kwayo. Ukuzivavanya kwabantwana kuthintela ngqo impilo yabo yentlalo kunye nokuziphatha.
Izindlela zokwenza amava entlalo yabantwana
Ukuze ubuntu bomntwana bube nokuvisisana, ukuphuhliswa kwentlalo kubantwana kufuneka kusekelwe kwinkqubo yokufundisa. Iindlela ezichaphazela ukubunjwa kwemo yezenhlalakahle zomntwana ziquka ezi zinto zilandelayo:
- Ukudlala : kumdlalo, abantwana bazizama ngokwabo indima ezahlukahlukeneyo zentlalo ezenza bazive bengamalungu asekuhlaleni.
- Uphando : lunceda amava omntwana, amvumela ukuba athole izisombululo ngokwakhe.
- Umsebenzi wesifundo : kwenza umntwana azi umhlaba ojikelezayo kwaye anelise umdla wakhe.
- Umsebenzi woqhagamshelwano: unceda umntwana ukuba afumane ukudibana nomntu omdala, fumana inkxaso kunye nokuvavanya.
Ngaloo ndlela, xa kudala iimeko zokuphuhliswa kwentlalo yabantwana, kuyimfuneko ukuba kungekhona nje ukudlulisela amava oluntu kwizakhono nolwazi, kodwa nokukhuthaza ukuveliswa kwamandla angaphakathi.