Kukho imimiselo ethile, kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuba siqonde ukuba baninzi kakhulu, kwaye nganye i-carapace iyahlukana yedwa. Kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuba ufunde oko umntwana akufanele akwazi ukukwenza kwiinyanga ezili-10. Oku kuya kunceda abazali abaselula ukuba baqonde kakuhle umntwana.
Uphuhliso lomzimba
AmaMommies aqaphelisisa ubunzima bamaxoxo kwaye abanye baqaphele ngokuxhalabisa ukuba kule minyaka iyancipha i-set of mass. Kodwa ukuba ukuziphatha kwentsana, kunye nempilo yakhe ayizange ihlasele, ngoko akukho sizathu sokonwaba. Ngeli xesha, iintsana ziqala ukongeza isisindo ngokuthe ngcembe, kwaye ziqhelekile ukuba zichithwa ukuya kwi-200 grams ngenyanga, nokuba ngaba inani liphezulu kakhulu ngaphambili. Emva koko, abantwana sele sele behamba behamba, bekhuthele. Oku kuchaza ukwanda okuncinci.
Nalu uluhlu lwento umntwana ayenokwenza ngayo kwiinyanga ezili-10, kungakhathaliseki ukuba intombazana okanye inkwenkwana:
- zihlale phantsi;
- Kulula ukuguqula kwisisu kunye nasemva;
- zinyuka;
- yima eduze kwenkxaso kwaye uhambe, ubambelele kuyo.
Iintsana ezininzi sele zizama ukuhamba ngokwazo. Vala ukunyamekela indawo ekhuselekileyo. Umama kufuneka ahlale esamehlo umntwana, yibambe phantsi kweengcambu ngexesha uzama ukuthatha amanyathelo. UKarapuzu unomdla ngokukhethekileyo kwimithintelo eyahlukeneyo, uya kubayisa ngokuzithandayo.
Ngeenyanga ezili-10, abantwana sele benokuqonda kakuhle iibrashi zabo, bayakwazi ukuyibamba into efunekayo kwaye bangeke benze izinto ezinjalo ngaphambili. Ukuba uvula umculo, ke abantwana baqala ukunyakaza ngokukhawuleza, bedansa.
Uphuhliso lwengqondo
Iinyanga ezili-10 zixhalabisa intsapho ngendlela engabonisa ngayo iimvakalelo kunye nemizwa yakhe. Karapuz uzame ukuxelisa abadala, ukuphulaphula intetho yabo, zama ukuvelisa. U-Kroha sele esazi inani lamagama ezinto ukusuka kwindlu yasekhaya kunye nesicelo somama angabonisa nawuphi na.
Abantwana banomdla kwabanye ngabantwana, bathanda ukuhleka. Abazali banokuqaphela ukuba abantwana bazama ukuphula into okanye umdlalo. Akuyimfuneko ukugxeka isidalwa esincinane, kuba uyayenza ngokufuna ukwazi. Kungenxa yabantwana ukuba baqhelane ne-design entsha.
AmaMom abona ukuba bakhululekile ngakumbi kunokokugqibela. Kodwa kusekho ukungathembeki kwabangaphandle, umntwana ufuna ixesha lokuziqhelanisa nabantu abangaqhelekanga okanye abantu.
Eli xesha liyamangalisa kuba umntwana uhlakulela ukucinga. Uqala ukuqonda ukudibana phakathi kwezenzo.
Inkathazo enkulu kubazali kukuphuhliswa kwentetho yomntwana. Wonke umama ufuna i-crumb ngaphambi kokuba athethe amagama okuqala. Ngako oko, umbuzo wento umntwana ekufuneka athethe ngayo kwiinyanga ezili-10 phantsi kokuphuhliswa kwesiqhelo kukukhawuleza.
Kule nqanaba, umntwana usaphinda aphindaphinda iibllabha ezibiniweyo. Ukuba ubona umntwana, unokubona ukuba umntwana usebenzisa zona xa ebonisa imizwa eyahlukileyo.
Kubalulekile ukuthetha nomntwana, xubusha naye nayiphi na inyathelo kunye neemeko, kuba ngaphezulu umntwana eva intetho endala, ngokukhawuleza uza kuthetha.
Ukuba umama ukhathazeka ngokuphambuka kokuphuhliswa komntwana, kufuneka acele ingcali. Uya kuqhuba uphando kwaye enze izigqibo zakhe. Ukuba kukho ukuphambuka okufunyenweyo, kulunge ukuwafumanisa kwangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba ugqirha uya kuphawula uphuhliso oluqhelekileyo lomntwana kwaye aqinisekise uMama.