Inani elikhulu leengxabano nokungavumelani - yinto enjalo yindlela yokuphendula phakathi kwamamama okwenza kube lula kangaka, kodwa ngoku kungabikho nto engabalulekanga, njenge-dummy. Abanye bacaphukile ukuba umntwana akasamlisi i-pacifier, ngelixa abanye bayakuthanda ukungenise umntwana kuye. Ngubani o lungile? Yaye indlela yokufundela umntwana kwi-dummy, ukuba kukho isidingo esiphuthumayo sale nto? Sizakuzama ukuphendula yonke imibuzo kwaye siyiqonde imeko.
Ngaba umntwana ufuna i-dummy yomntwana?
Abachasene nabahlali be-pacifiers namhlanje badibana nanyathelo ngalinye. Nangona esibhedlele, oomama abancinci ababuza umbuzo ukuba umntwana unokufumana umntwana oswelekileyo, ubhekane neengongelo zabahlengikazi abancinci abafakela ukuba ukunika umntwana ingxowa ayinqatshelwe. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko apho kungenakwenzeka ukukhupha nale nto enhle yobuntu. Umzekelo:
- iimali ezide zokuhamba;
- balinde ukujika kwabo esibhedlele nakwamanye amaziko;
- ukuyothenga, ukuba ukuba umama kuphephe ngokukhawuleza;
- Izambatho ezintsha ezifanelekileyo kumntwana;
- nayiphi na indlela yokuhamba nokuhamba.
Ukongezelela, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ingxowa yintsindiso yangempela ngexesha le midlalo kwi-sandbox, xa umntwana eqhubeka ephakamisa "kaku" ukusuka emhlabathini. Kwaye akukho nto ikhankanyiweyo njengomsebenzi omkhulu womntwana oneminyaka elilodwa njengoko usana. Ukufikelela kwiminyaka emine nesiqingatha, abantwana banokungena ngokunyanisekileyo emilonyeni yabo yonke into engekho embi, beqala ngamathoyizi kunye nokuphela kwabo. Njengoko uqeqesho luye lwabonisa, kulula kakhulu ukuncwina umntwana ukusuka kwi-pacifier kunokusondeza umnwe. Ukuba unokungabaza ukuba unika umntwana i-pacifier, xa kuyimfuneko, ke vumela ukuba ingxabano ephakamileyo kuwe yinto yokucoceka, inokusindisa ngexesha lokuvuswa kwamantombazana enkcenkceshe, kwaye ivuselela imisebenzi yamathumbu kwaye igcine isakhiwo segesi.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana kwi-dummy?
Xa sibhekene neengxaki zokubaluleka kweengono, siphendukela kwingxaki yesibini. Kuqulethwe kwinto yokuba umntwana engathathi i-pacifier. Oku kuya kwenzeka ngezizathu ezininzi:
- Izinto ezifakwe kuyo azifanelekanga umntwana;
- lincinci okanye lukhulu kumntwana;
- usana alufanelanga ukuma kwedummy.
Ukukhetha i-pacifier kumntwana, ufunde ngokucophelela ulwazi malunga nephakheji. Kukho ubuncinane obuthathu obukhulu bomhlaba: ukusuka ku-0, ukusuka kwi-3 ukuya kwiinyanga ezintandathu. Izinto ezisetyenzisiweyo zintlobo ezimbini: i-silicone kunye ne-latex. Ubume bentsimbi buhluke kwaye luyadalwa ngokubhekiselele kwiinjongo ezahlukeneyo. Ukongezelela, kukho ezinye iziqheno - ukucinga ngendlela yokufundisa umntwana osanda kuzalwa kwi-pacifier, ungayikhohlwa malunga nesisindo azalwa ngaso. "Bogatyri" ngokukhawuleza ukugawula ingxobo yobukhulu bokuqala, tk. uya kuba mncinci kubo. Kodwa kukho abo abachasene nanjengobungakanani bokuba ngaphezulu. Ngamanye amagama, lungiselele ukuba kufuneka uzame malunga neenambuzane ezili-12 ngaphambi kokuba ufumane enye i-chad yakho ithanda.
Cinga ukuba ekugqibeleni wenze ukhetho lwakho. Ihlala isenza isigqibo sokuba ninike umntwana umntwana kunye neendlela zokusingatha kakuhle, ukuze umntwana amthande. Kule nto sikucebisa ukuba uphulaphule la macebiso alandelayo:
- phambi kokusetyenziswa kokuqala kwaye ngaphambi kokuba ngamnye usetyenzise ubilise i-pacifier imizuzu 2-3;
- ukuthatha indawo yee-dummies rhoqo kwiiveki ezi-4-6 zokusetyenziswa;
- Ungasebenzisi iibhande kunye neebhola zerabha entanyeni yakho ukugqoka i-pacifier. Kungcono uthole ityala elikhethekileyo;
- Akukho mzekelo ungagcini ingono kwi-sweet (isiraphu, iswekile, ubusi) ukuze ungayicacisi. Oku kungakhokelela kwisifo se-diathesis yomntwana, i-caries, kunye nokuxhomekeke kwintetho;
- Kuyafana nokugxeka iingxowa ngaphambi kokukunika umntwana. Khumbula ukuba i-saliva yakho inomlinganiselo omkhulu weebhaktheriya eziyingozi kumntwana;
- ukuba umkhwenkwe umntwana atyhuse ngokusemandleni ukuba anike ngokufanelekileyo emva kokutya. Ukuba uyayilungisa ngobisi lwakho, umntwana akayi kuqaphela ukutshintshwa kwaye alele ebuthongweni kunye ne-pacifier. Khumbula ukuba ngexesha lokulala, i-pacifier iyasuswa kakhulu emlonyeni. Okanye ungasebenzisa iinjubusi ezikhethekileyo zobusuku;
- Musa ukuzisebenzisa kakubi i-pacifiers yakho. Banike kuphela njengesisigqibo sokugqibela, xa kuyimfuneko ngokwenene ukuwanelisa i-reflex yokusana yomntwana;
- kugcina iimbumba ezincinane endlwini. Inani elifanelekileyo li malunga nehlanu. Zonke zifanele zizaliswe kwaye zigcinwe kwiimeko ezizodwa.
Ukufundisa umntwana kwi-pacifier akuyona into elula. Kodwa ukuba, nangona unemizamo yakho, ngesizathu esithile umntwana wenqaba ukuzithatha - ujabule. Akunakufuneka utyumle umntwana okhulile kwisikhwebu sakho esithandekayo, esiye sazalwa. Kwaye oku, kholwa kwam, umsebenzi unzima kunokuba uthathe i-dummy ngokwayo.