Nangona kunjalo, ukusuka ekuzalweni kweemvuthu ekufuneka ufundise ukwenza imisebenzi eqhelekileyo ngexesha elifanayo, ukulungisa amanye amanqaku njengoko ekhula. Kule nqaku, siza kukuxelela ukuba yeyiphi inkqubo kunye nemigangatho yemihla ngemihla ibhetele kumntwana kwiinyanga ezili-9, ukwenzela ukuba uhlale evakalelwa kwaye ephumle, kwaye akhula ngokubhekiselele kwiminyaka yakhe.
Indlela yokuhlela urhulumente wengane kwiinyanga ezili-9?
Ngokuqhelekileyo usuku lomntwana oneminyaka elisithoba luqala ngo-6-7 ekuseni. Leli xesha libhekwa njengelona likhethekileyo ukunyuka ekuseni. Ngexesha elifanayo ukubeka umntwana ukuba alale ngokuhlwa kufuneka kube ngo-20: 21 ntsimbi. Ngaloo ndlela, ubude bokuba ubuthongo obusuku bomntwana wakho buya kuba ngamahora angama-9 ukuya ku-10, oku kulungelelaniso kubantwana kule minyaka.
Ngomhla, umntwana osenyangeni enesithoba ubudala ufuna kwakhona ukuphumla ngokupheleleyo kunye nobude besikhathi sama-4-6 iiyure. Kuhle kakhulu ukuba umntwana wakho ulala kathathu ngosuku, malunga neeyure eziyi-1.5-2. Okwangoku, ukuphumla kwexesha elininzi kuvunyelwe, ubude bokuba bunyuswe kwiiyure ezingama-2 ngelo xesha.
Ukondla umntwana kwiinyanga ezili-9 kuyadingeka amaxesha amahlanu ngosuku ngosuku lweeyure ezine. Kwimeko yeemvuthu kule minyaka, kusekho isidingo sokuba ubisi lwebele okanye ifom yobisi echitshiweyo, nangona kunjalo, oku kutya kukudla kuphela ukutya oku-2 okanye ama-3 ukutya ngosuku. Ngethuba lokuphumla komhla, umntwana oneminyaka engama-9 ubudala kufuneka adle okusanhlamvu kwezilwanyana, inyama kunye nemifuno yemifuno, kunye ne-curd yokutya kwabantwana.
Ukuhamba nge-crumb kunconywa ubuncinane amaxesha amabini ngosuku. Ubude bokuhlala kwindawo evulekile kuxhomekeka kwiimeko zemozulu. Ukuhlamba umntwana kubalulekile imihla ngemihla, ngaphambi kokulala ebusuku. Ulwazi olunzulu malunga nemeko enokwenzeka yosuku lomntwana kwiinyanga ezili-9 ngelixa, le tafile ilandelayo iya kukunceda:
