Ekubeni amaxesha amandulo abantu bebekele ingqalelo kwimifanekiso ephakamileyo ngamaphupha, njengoko bavumelekile ukuba bajonge kwixesha elizayo baze baveze iingxaki ezikhoyo. Yonke le ngcaciso ingafumaneka kwiincwadi zokuphupha, ngokucacileyo ichaza iqhinga elibonwayo.
Yintoni umhlobo owayekade ephupha ngawo?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, intlanganiso enjalo i-harbinger yokufumana isipho okanye iindaba ezilungileyo. Iphupha apho umhlobo wabantwana abathathe inxaxheba ngumqondiso omhle othembisa intlanganiso enhle. Siza kuqonda ukuba ngabaphi abahlobo nabahlobo abaye bafanele bafunge ngayo - ngumqondiso ocacileyo, obonisa ithuba lokuseka ubudlelwane . Umbono ebusuku, apho umhlobo oye wangikhathaza, waza wacela ukuxolelwa, ufuzisela ukuba inyaniso umlozi unokuhlala encike kuncedo lomhlobo. Ukubona umhlobo osemgangathweni ophezulu ephupheni ngumqondiso obonakalisiweyo, obonisa ithuba lokuqhubela phambili umgangatho wemisebenzi. Ukwamkela endlwini yomntu owayengumhlobo, kuthetha, kubalulekile ukulindela iinzame ezininzi. Ukuba nomhlobo owayengumhlobo kwindawo engaqhelekanga kwiphupha kukubonakalisa ukuba iingxaki zemali zivela. Ukuba amaphupha omntu owayekade engumhlobo aqhelekanga, ngoko kukufanele ukudibana naye ngokwenene ukuze udibanise "kwaye".
Yintoni eyayiyiphupha ngayo umhlobo ongaphambili?
Ukuba umntu owayesakuba ngumhlobo wayenomdla, ngoko ke, ngokwenene, usuku lomtshato luya kwenzeka kungekudala. Umbono ebusuku, apho umhlobo owayekade egule khona, kufuneka athathwe njengesinconywa, ukuba akufanele aphile kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye ujongene nenyaniso. Ngamanye amaxesha iphupha ngohlobo lwangaphambili libonisa ukuba ufuna uncedo, apho kungcono ukuba angayenalo.
Yintoni iphupha lomntu owayengumhlobo oshiya?
Isalathiso esinjalo sithetha ukuba umphuphi akayekanga ukuhamba kunye kwaye angathanda ukumisa uqhagamshelwano.