Umntu uye wahlala enomdla kwinto ethile engaziwayo, engaziwayo, yingako isihloko sesicatshulwa sephupha sihlala sifanelekile ngaphezu kweminyaka eyi-12. Namhlanje, ngenxa yoko, kukho inani elikhulu leencwadi zokuphupha. Ukuzisebenzisa, kuyafaneleka ukuzama ukukhumbula kangangoko kunokwenzeka iinkcukacha zesalathisi kunye nomthwalo wemvakalelo. Ukongezelela, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba iincwadi ezininzi zephupha zinikeza ukutolika okufaniyo kwiphupha elifanayo, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuthelekisa ukugqitywa kweziganeko zobomi bokwenene.
Kutheni uphupha ngokuzalwa komfana?
Abalobi abaninzi bephupha bacinga ukuba leli phupha liwuphawu olulungileyo, oku kuthetha ukuba yonke into yobudlelwane bosapho iya kuba yinto efanelekileyo. Kulabo abafuna ukukhulelwa, ukuzalwa kwenkwenkwe ithembisa ukudibanisa ngokukhawuleza kwintsapho. Ukuba iphupha libonwa ngummeli wesini esilungileyo kwisimo, lithembisa ukunikezelwa kwakhe okulungileyo nokukhawuleza. Iphupha malunga nokuzalwa kwenkwenkwe ngaphambi kokuba umtshato ubonakalise ukuba kulungele ukugcina igama lakho. Kwezinye iimeko, iphupha elinjalo li-harbinger lokufumana iindaba ezilungileyo eziya kuba zifanelekileyo kubahlobo abasondeleyo okanye izalamane. Kusenokuthetha ukuba iingcamango ezintsha kunye nezicwangciso zekamva ziya kubonakala kungekudala. Ukutolika kwephupha kukuthi kufuneka bafezeke, njengoko baya kuphumelela.
Iphupha ngokuzalwa kwenkwenkwe ithembisa ukuphuculwa kweshishini kunye nomsebenzi. Unokuthembela kwimpumelelo enkulu kwimicimbi yezezimali. Kukho nolwazi lokuba iphupha elinjalo licebisa ukuba kulungele ukuhlaziya izikhundla zobomi kunye nokubeka kwakhona izilungiso ngendlela entsha. Ukuba inkwenkwe izalwe ngumphuphi, ngokukhawuleza kuya kuba nethuba lokutshintsha ubomi ngokutsha kwaye uqale yonke into ebusweni obucocekileyo. Kanti oko kuthetha ukuba ukuzaliseka komnqweno onqwenela kakhulu. Ukuphupha kokuzalwa kwenkwenkwe ngaphandle kweengxaki kunye noxinzelelo ngumqondiso olungileyo, uqikelele ukubuyela kweengxaki. Ukuba ukuzalwa kunzima, lungiselela ukukhulisa iingxaki kunye nokuqala kwebhanki "elimnyama".
Ukuba ukwamkela ukuhanjiswa, kwaye inkwenkwe ivela, ithetha ukuba kwikamva elikufutshane uza kufuneka uthathe inxaxheba kwishishini elinzima. Yonke into ihamba kakuhle, kuya kuba nako ukunqoba zonke iilingo kunye neengxaki. Enye into enjalo ingabonakalisa iindaba ezingalindelekanga ezivela kumntu oliliweyo. Ukuchazwa kwamaphupha ngokuzalwa kwenkwenkwe kuxhomekeke apho kwenzeka khona kanye. Ukuba ukuzalwa kwakusemakhaya, ngoko awukwazi ukukhathazeka, kuba yonke into iya kulungile nabantu obathandayo, kwaye kuya kuba nekhobe epheleleyo endlwini. Ukubukela ukuzalwa kwenkwenkwe ephupheni kuyinxalenye yeendaba ezingalindelekanga. Iphupha lokuzalwa komntwana ongathandeki liqikelela into engenanto. Ukubona ukuzalwa kwenkwenkwe egulayo kuyimpawu embi, ibonisa indlela yokuxhatshazwa kweengxaki ezincinci kunye neentsapho ze-scandals.
Ukuba ukuzalwa komntwana kwinkwenkwe nentombazana kukuphupha, oku kuwuphawu oluhle, olubonisa ukuba ukhetho olufanelekileyo luyenziwe ebomini. Sekunokuthi ukukholisa umntu onomngcipheko oza kunceda ekuxazululeni iingxaki zemali. Umbono ebusuku, apho amakhwenkwe amabini azalwa ngokukhawuleza, uthembisa ubutyebi kwikusasa elikufutshane. Oku kuthetha ukwandisa igunya. Kwezinye iincwadi zokuphupha ukuzalwa kwamawele kubonisa ukuba umsebenzi ubaluleke kakhulu kuwe okwangoku. Ukuba intombazana eqokelela phantsi kwesithsaba, isalathisi esinjalo sibonisa ukuzimisela kokuziphatha ukudala intsapho. Olu ngcaciso lucacile, ukuba ukuzalwa kwaletha uvuyo, kodwa ukuba bebangela ukungahambi kakuhle, ngoko kukufanelekile ukugxotha ingcamango yomtshato kwithuba elithile. Umbono ebusuku, apho umama wazala inkwenkwe, ubonisa ukuba ufuna uncedo kunye nenkxaso kwimiba ebalulekileyo.