Nguwuphi na ongenayo ingxaki! Kodwa ukuba babenze bambalwa, iingqondo zengqondo zithi umntu kufuneka azithande yena: iindlela ezikhethekileyo zengqondo zenziwe ukuqeqeshwa.
Iyintoni intsingiselo yengqondo ye-psychotechnics?
Njengomthetho, abo abangazange bathande uthando olwaneleyo ebuntwaneni babo abazithandi ngokwabo. Bakulungele ukuzidela, ukulahla iintlobo kunye nokuthuthuzela ngenxa yabantwana (abazali, indoda, njl). Ngelo xesha, ababonanga nantoni ekhethekileyo ngokwabo, abayicingi ukuba bafanelwe ukunyamekela kunye nokunyamekela, ngelixa abo bajikelezayo, basebenzise iimpawu ezilungileyo zabantu abanjalo ngendlela engacacile. Ngoko, lixesha lokuba ufunde oko kuthetha ukuthandana ngokwakho, kwaye uthathe inyathelo eliya kuwe.
- Okokuqala, zicinge ngokwakho kwisibuko (yenza oku xa usendaweni yedwa) kwaye uqonde ukuba nguwe, kwaye oku kukukhanda kwakho, kuba enye injalo ayikho. Zizumise kuwe, nangona okokuqala ngcibiliko iya kuhlutywa kwaye iyancipha. Qinisekisa: ngeveki uya kuvuya ukukrokra xa ubonakalisa kwisibuko.
- Kwaye ngoku uzibiza ngegama lithenda, udumise into ethile (ubuncinci borscht, eyokufumana kuphela eyolisayo).
- Ukuqonda indlela ozithandayo ngayo, sebenzisa izi ngcebiso ezilandelayo: bhala kwiphepha kwikholam zonke iimpawu zakho ezilungileyo kunye neempawu zomntu (ukuphendula, imfesane, imfesane, ukukwazi ukwenza i-embroider, njl.). Kuhle, ukuba uqokelele ezintlanu. Kwaye ngoku kwesinye - into ongayithandiyo ngokwakho (nakwama-50). Funda, kwaye ngoku usitshise eli liqabunga uze ulibale ngalo, kodwa iphepha elikulo, apho izibheno zakho ezibhaliweyo zibhalwa, ziphinda zifunde rhoqo imihla.
- Ufuna ukuqonda indlela yokwamkela nokuzithandayo - uye kwi-hairdresser, yenza i-hairstyle entsha, u-manicure, ujikeleze ngeentengiso, uthenge ubuncinane into emitsha. Kwaye-uye kwivenkile yezinto zokugcoba kwaye uzame kwindandatho enhle. Awudingi ukuthenga, kodwa ukulungelelanisa kuya kuphucula imvakalelo yakho. Kwaye ngoku uye ekhaya uze uphinde ubuye kwisibuko: akuyena umfazi obonakaliswa kuye? Ngaba akafanelanga ukuthanda nokunyamekela? Kunjalo. Ngoko ke, okokuqala uya kuzithandayo, zihlonipheke, kwaye ziyabona, kwaye abanye baya kuqonda ukuba ufanelwe konke okusemandleni obu bomi.