Isiqabane ngasinye sitshatileyo sifuna ukuba umhla wabo womtshato ukhunjulwe ngonaphakade. Xa umiselwe umhla wokugqibela, umtshakazi nomyeni baqala ukuzibuza: "njani ukuba nomtshato ocolileyo?". Ixesha elizayo abasandul 'ukutshata baphupha ngokuguqula umtshato lomhla ube yeholide. Kwaye kwangethuba lo mcimbi ovuyayo, zonke iziqhelo zomtshato wendabuko ziyakhumbula. Ukuqwalaselwa kwamasiko kunye nemibhiyozo yomtshato inxalenye ebalulekileyo yeholide. Yaye ininzi yale miqoqo yomtshato inemvelaphi yasendulo kunye nembali. Kwakubalulekile ukuba ookhokho bethu bafumane intsikelelo yabazali kulo suku oluqaqambileyo, kwaye ukugcinwa kwemikhuba kwakuboniswa njengesiqinisekiso esibalulekileyo senjabulo nenhlalakahle.
Amasiko eMitshato yaseRashiya
Ngamaxesha onke eRussia, imitshato ibonwa njengenye yeemeko ezibalulekileyo ebomini ngamnye umntu. Imitshato yayiyolonwabo kwaye inomsindo. Kwakukholelwa ukuba kulungile ukuba kuvezwe njengoko umtshato usenzeka. Uninzi lwezithethe zamandulo zasinda kwiinkcubeko zanamhlanje:
- ukudibanisa. Lo mbhiyozo wandulela yonke imitshato. Ingundoqo yakhe kukuba umyeni wathumela abahlobo bakhe abathandekayo kubazali bakhe. Ukuba umtshakazi wayethanda umtshakazi nabazali bakhe, ngoko bavumelana ngomtshato, ukuba ngaba kunjalo, ngoko ke abazali bawanika umxube njengenqatshana. Esi siko siye saphila nanamhlanje kwizithethe zomtshato waseUkraine kwiidolophana;
- i-stag ne-hen party. I-stag ne-hen party yinto yesiRashiya yasendulo, kodwa isabonwa namhlanje. Kwiintsuku ezindala kwiqela lokukhusela umtshakazi ozayo wayelungiselela umtshato, kwaye abahlobo bakhe babethetha naye ngemimoya emibi. Iqela le-bachelor lalidla ngokuba nguyise, abazalwana kunye nabahlobo bomyeni. Bahlabelela iingoma bahamba ngezitrato;
- lomtshato. Umtshato ngumkhosi wama-Orthodox yakudala, ohlala phakathi kwezibini ezikholelwayo namhlanje. Lo mkhosi ubonisa umanyano ongokomoya phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Kwiintsuku ezindala, abazali babasikelela abantwana babo emva komtshato.
Umtshato ngokwawo eRashiya wawubhiyozelwa iintsuku ezintathu. Usuku lokuqala lunikezelwe kuphela kumtshakazi nomyeni. Umtshakazi nomyeni beza endlwini yomtshakazi kusasa, emva koko abantu abatsha baya emtshatweni. Emva komtshato, umtshakazi nomyeni bafumana intsikelelo evela kubazali babo, bavuyiswa kwiindwendwe kunye nomthendeleko wesidlo waqala. Umtshato unokuhlala kude kube sekuseni, iindwendwe ziphathwe iwayini kunye nezitya ezidliwayo, kodwa indoda nomfazi osandul 'ukwenziwa kwakungafanele ukuba newayini. Ngaloo mini, iindwendwe, njengomthetho, zahlala ubusuku bendlu endlwini yomtshakazi.
Usuku lwesibini lomtshato wawungazange lube lukhulu kunelokuqala. Izithethe ezininzi zosuku lwesibini lomtshato ziyabonwa ngeli xesha. Ngosuku lwesibini iindwendwe zahlanganiswa endlwini yomyeni kwaye zaqhubeka nomthendeleko wazo. Ngaloo mini, abazali bomtshakazi nomyeni babanika inhlonipho enkulu - bavuyiswa, bahlala kwiindawo ezihloniphekileyo kakhulu kwaye banamkelwa.
Ngomhla wesithathu lomtshato, umfazi omncinci wanikezelwa iimvavanyo zinyani-khangela ukuba uyazi njani
Imitshato emininzi eRussia ibanjwe ngokuhambelana nale miqoqo. Abanye babo baye bashintsha ngaphaya kokuqaphela, abanye baye balahleka, kwaye kubakho abatsha. Izibini ezitshatileyo zanamhlanje zigijuba amajuba "ngenhlanhla" kwaye zihamba neendwendwe zokuhamba ukuya kwiipaki eziphakathi. Abanye, abangafuni ukulibala iingcambu zabo, sebenzisa izithethe zaseMargenie, eTatar okanye e-Azerbaijan. Ingakwazi ukutshatyalaliswa ukuthumba, ukutyelela indlu yokuhlambela kwimini yomtshato okanye ukuhlobisa iholo yokutya kwindlela yokuziphatha. Emva kokuvelisa imfesane, umakoti nomyeni banokuguqula lo mhla obalulekileyo wobomi babo kwiholidi elihle, apho iindwendwe zabo ziyakhumbula ixesha elide.