Masculinity

Ubuninzi bubungqina obuhle kakhulu kumadoda, kodwa ezi ntsuku zifumaneka rhoqo kubasetyhini. Ukuba ujika kwisichazamazwi, eli gama linqunywe liqela leempawu ezikuko, ngokuvumelana neenkolelo zendalo yonke, kufuneka zibe yindoda: isibindi, isibindi, amandla, ukuqina. Nangona kunjalo, isethi esinjalo sinokubhenela nawuphi na umntu.

Imiqondiso yobuninzi

Ngenxa yezinto ezingobuqhetseba obuninzi, zininzi iingcamango zokujonga. Ukuthetha ngokubanzi, abantu abanesibindi babizwa ngokuba ngabantu abanoluhlu olulandelayo lweempawu zobuntu :

1. Unesibindi, ukwesaba kwizenzo, kungekhona ngamazwi.
2. Amandla omoya, uya kuba ngumlingiswa.
3. Ukunyamezela ebusweni beengxaki kunye nobunzima.
4. Ubunzima kwizigqibo zabo.
5. Amandla okugcina eli gama kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni.
6. Isimo esinzulu ebomini, ngamazwi nangezenzo.
7. Ukuzimela, ukuzithemba, ukungabikho kwenguqulelo yengqondo kunye nokukwazi "ukugoba" phantsi kwabanye.

Olu luhlu luya kuqhubeka, kodwa le nto sele icacile. Nangona yonke inkathazo ibizwa ngokuba ngumtyholi wobuntwini, ingaba ngowomntu kunye nomfazi.

Indlela yokuphuhlisa umzimba?

Abasetyhini abaninzi kwixesha lethu abafuni ukukhubeka kwaye bahlanjululwe - bakulungele ukwenza izigqibo zabo, ukuphendula ngamagama abo, ukubonisa amandla kunye nokuzithemba kwizenzo zabo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunikezelwa kuwo wonke umntu, kwaye ezinye ziphupha nje zokuba nesibindi. Kule nkalo, ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo zingenziwa:

1. Ukuphuhlisa uxanduva. Akukho gama kufuneka litsho ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ukuba wenza isithembiso, kufuneka ufezekise. Ukuba wenze isigqibo - kufuneka siqwalaselwe kwaye singathinteki kwisibheno.
2. Ukuphuhlisa amandla akho. Kufuneka uqale ngeyona nto encinci kodwa incedo: sishiye iiskese okanye ukutya okuyingozi okanye uqale ukuya kwi-gym. Kwaye kumfanekiso, kuyakunceda, kwaye ihlakulela ngokupheleleyo amandla . U-Sladkoezhke uhamba ngaphaya kwevenkile yeefestile kunzima kakhulu, nangona kunjalo, amandla okungaxhatshali kwiminqweno emincinci endleleni eya kwiinjongo (kulo mzekelo, impilo kunye nokuvisisana) enye yamacala omama.
3. Ukuphuhlisa isibindi. Kufuneka uqale encinci - umzekelo, funda ukuba "cha" xa ufuna ukuthi "cha." Okanye ubonise uluvo lwakho, nokuba uyazi ukuba inkxaso ayikwazi ukuyihlangabeza. Ikhono lokwesaba ukubonakalisa iqondo eliphezulu lobuninzi.

Ukusebenza ngokwakho kule misonto, uya kuqaphela ukuba ngokuphindaphindiweyo kuba lula kwaye kulula ukuba ubonise ubukhulu bomzimba. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuvelisa lula into efunwayo kuyo yonke imbonakalo yayo.

Ingxaki yobuninzi

Ukongeza kwimizuzu emihle, ukuphuhliswa kobuninzi kungabangela iingxaki ebomini bakho. Inyani kukuba umntu owenza iimfuno eziphezulu, ubanika abanye. Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba ukuba awukufumani Indoda enomntu ongeyindoda, awukwazi ukuba naye, kuba uhlala esecaleni sakho uya kubandezeleka ngenxa yobuninzi beempawu oziphakamisile kuwe, okanye ufumene ekuzalweni.

Abafazi abanesibindi bafumana kunzima ukufumana iqabane ebomini, kuba ngemihla yethu umntu onesibindi akaqhelekanga. Uninzi lwawo aluqondi ukuba kuyimfuneko ukukhusela igama elinikeziweyo, kungekhona ukuzithobela ubuthakathaka bakho kunye nayo yonke into kulo moya. Ukuhlonipha umntu onjalo kunzima, kwaye ukufundisa kwakhona-ngamanye amaxesha akunakwenzeka.

Kwaye, nangona kunjalo, nazo zonke ezi ngxaki zithathwa ingqalelo, ubukhulu bomzimba kusekho into ebalulekileyo kwaye ihlonishwayo. Ngoko ke, ukuba ungeyiki ubunzima obunjalo - usebenze ngesibindi kwisimo sakho kwaye ufumane amandla angaphakathi.