Ukususela ekuzalweni, bonke abantu bahluke kwiimeko, ezihlala zingatshintshi ebomini, ngaphantsi kwefuthe kwiimeko kuphela iimpawu zengqondo ziguquka. Ngoko yintoni isimo sengqondo se-phlegmatic, i-melancholic, i-sanguine okanye i-choleric, yiyiphi into echaza kule nkcazo iza kuvumela ukuhlula omnye kwenye into engafanelekanga?
Isimo kunye nokubonakala
Ukuxhomekeka kwimeko yokuba isimo sengqondo sisimo esinesimo sezinto eziphilayo, abaphandi abaninzi baye bazama ukudibanisa nokubonakala komntu. Ububungqina obunzulu beli qhinga abuzange bufumaneke, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kubonakala kubaluleka. Inkcazo yeembonakalo zesondo, i-choleric, i-melancholic kunye ne-phlegmatic uya kufumana kwitheyibhile elingezantsi.
Kodwa ukucacisa ukuba ngubani ophambi kwakho: i-phlegmatic, i-melancholic, i-sanguine okanye ukubonakala kwe-choleric yodwa ayaneleyo, kubalulekile ukujonga ukuziphatha komntu.
I-Sanguine, i-choleric, i-phlegmatic, i-melancholic-character
Ubunzima bokuthobela kunzima ukufumana, ngokuqhelekileyo umntu ubonisa iimpawu ezimbini okanye ezintathu. Kodwa, njengommiselo, iimpawu zenye iintlobo zinamandla ngaphezu kwabanye. Ngoko, ziziphi iimpawu ezahlukileyo zesimo ngasinye.
- I-Choleric . Kuba abantu balolu hlobo bahlala behlala befuna uphando olutsha, abakwazi ukuhlala bodwa, ukuzola nokuzinza kubangelisekanga kubo. Ukuhlalisana nokusebenza, ukuzimisela nokunyanzela kunceda i-choleric ukuba iphumelele, kodwa ukungahambisani nokunyamezela akuvumeli ukuba bahlale kunye nabo bonke abahlobo. Ngenxa yoko, baninzi iintshaba kunye nabantu abanomona. Ukuqhagamshelana ne-choleric, kufuneka ukhumbule ngokukhawuleza kwakhe. Ukuba wayephakamisa ilizwi lakhe okanye atyunyule unyawo lwakhe, kungumsindo nje, kwaye awuyi kuba nomsindo onyanisekileyo kuwe.
- Sanguine . Abadibanisi bezonyani, abanokuzivumelanisa ngokunyanisekileyo nayiphi na imeko. Abantu abanjalo abafuni ukuxabana, bakhetha ukulandela iindlela zabo ezijikelezayo. Ngoko ke, phantse bangenazo intshaba, zonke ziphathwa kakuhle. Kodwa iimpawu zesondlo zibonakaliswe ngobungakanani bendawo, ziya kuba nzima kunako ukufezekisa, zikhetha ukukhetha into engadingi imizamo ye-titanic. Ukunxibelelana nomntu wesondlo akubonakalisi nayiphi na ingxaki, khumbula nje umnqweno wakhe onqwenela ukukholisa wonke umntu, ngoko uya kuphepha iimeko ezinokumthobela.
- Phlegmatic . Abantu balesi simo sengqondo banjalo njengabantu abahlala be-choleric, kodwa baninzi kwaye banomonde. Impikiswano ye-phlegmatic igwenywe ngazo zonke iindlela, kodwa abayi kuvumela nabani ukuba bahlale ezintanyeni zabo. Aba bantu abanakuphikisa, baqhubeka belandela inkqubo ekhethiweyo, bengabhathali abanye. Kunzima kakhulu ukwenza umntu onjalo ngokwakhe, kwaye akufuneki ukwenza oku, ukufutheka kwabo kuyonakalisa. Ukuqhagamshelana ne-phlegmatic, akufanele ulinde ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza, akafumaneki. Ungalokothi uzame ukuwuguqula phantsi kwakho, kuya kubangele ukucaphuka.
- I-Melancholic . Abantu abasengozini kakhulu, nantoni na inokubakhubeka. Ngokuqhelekileyo banempilo ebuthakathaka, kodwa kungekho imeko embi yempilo kubangelwa zizifo eziyinyani. Bahlala beziva bengonwabi, kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuxubusha le nkolelo. Kodwa i-melancholic like noyena mntu u novelwano, awukwazi ukufumana uncedo olungcono. Ukunxibelelana nomntu onje, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukukhuselwa kwakhe, ngoko kufuneka adunyiswe kwaye akhuthaze ngaphezu kwabanye. Kodwa awukwazi ukumgxeka ngezikhalazo rhoqo, ngoko uya kutshabalalisa imeko yakhe.
Ikhono lokuchonga uhlobo lwesimo esilulekayo kungekhona nje kuphela kwizengqondo zengqondo, lunokuba luncedo kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla. Ukwazi ubuthakathaka obungenangqondo kunye namandla omntu, unokukhetha iindlela ezilungileyo kakhulu zokuthetha.