Ubomi babesetyhini abakhulelweyo banzima: bafuna i-strawberries ngo-Febhuwari, ngoko i-mandarins ngoJulayi ... Ngosuku olusondelayo lokuzalwa kweenguqu kwiimvakalelo kunye neminqweno yomama ozayo ziba ngakumbi, kuba ziphazamiseke yi-"nesting syndrome". Yintoni le? Iyintoni imbangela yale syndrome? Kule miba enomdla ngokuzayo (kunye nabazali bexesha elizayo) baya kuphendulwa kwinqaku lethu.
Yintoni le?
Isifo sesidumbu samabhinqa abakhulelweyo asikho nje ukunyanzeliswa kwezilwanyana zomama . Ibhinqa elishumi lokugqibela lokukhulelwa liqala ukuziva ukuba kuyimfuneko ebalulekileyo yokulungisa indlu yakhe ukuba ibonakale yintsana, ukubonelela yonke into efunekayo.
Ukubonakaliswa kwesifo se-nesting:
- Ukulungiswa kwangaphakathi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, i-nesting syndrome ithululelwa kwisifiso esinzulu sokulungisa ngokukhawuleza indlu yonke, thengisa ifenitshala entsha kunye neengubo ezintsha. Kulo, kunjalo, akukho nto iphosakeleyo. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba isimo sengqondo sebhinqa ngethuba lisoloko litshintsha emva kweemodemoni, ukhethwa ngothando kwaye uthenge i-wallpaper yangobusuku namhlanje ubungozi bubonakala bubuhlungu kwaye buyotheka, kwaye ukulungiswa kwakhona kwekhadi eliya kuba yinto engathandekiyo kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla. Ukunciphisa umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa kwelahleko kuncinci, kukufanelekile ukulawula amandla okubhubhisa nokulungisa kwisitishi esinokuthula: kukulungele ukuqala ukulungiswa kwiphepha okanye kwikhompyutha. Ngoku kuninzi inani leenkqubo zekhompyutheni eziye zaphuhliswa ukuze zikuncede zibonise ukuba le nto okanye eso sigqibo siza kubonakala kwiindonga zangempela. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akufanelekanga loo mfazi ngexesha lokugqibela lokukhulelwa ngokwabo ukuthwala izisindo, ukuphefumula upende okanye ukuhambisa ifenitshala.
- Ukucoca ngokubanzi. Isidingo esicacileyo sokuhlambulula yonke into, ukukhupha izinto ezongezelelweyo, uhlambe iifestile kunye nama-chandeliers ukuba ukhanye - oku kukunye ukubonakaliswa kwesidleke esikhulelwe. Umnqweno uyanconywa, kodwa ngokukhawuleza umfazi utyhila ubuchule bakhe, ezama ukufezekisa ngokuthe tye kwindlu. Esikhundleni sokunikezela iintsuku ezimbalwa zokugqibela ngaphambi kokuba abelethe intanda yakhe, umama ozayo uya kubachitha kunye ne-rag kunye ne-cleaner ye-tile. Enye indlela yokuphuma ukunikezela igunya. Musa ukuhlazeka ukubandakanya umyeni wakho, unina okanye abantwana abadala kwiimicimbi yezoshishino. Ewe, makungabikho ukucocwa ngokucophelela njengawe, kodwa injongo iya kufezwa - indlu iya kucoca kwaye impilo iya kugcinwa. Kanye kunye nokucocwa kuyimfuneko ukulahla ngokungenasidingo okanye kunzima ekunyamekelweni kwezinto, ukuyitshintsha ngokulula ngokuhlamba nokucoca. Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, oku kuya kunceda ukunciphisa ixesha lokugcina indlu ihlambuluke ubuncinci.
- Ukuthengwa kwedowari kwintsana. Ngoku, xa kukho ezininzi iimpahla kunye neento zokuzilungisa kwiisityuli zeevenkile, kunzima kakhulu ukumelana nomnqweno wokuthenga ngaphezulu nangaphezulu kwiimvumba zakho. Amashishini kunye namaphepha amaphephancwadi kuphela athambisa ioli phezu komlilo, ekhuthaza umama ozayo ngengcamango yokuba ngaphandle kwempawu ezininzi ezahlukileyo umntwana wakhe akayi kuvuya ... Enyanisweni, usana olusandula
Imvumba idinga kakhulu kakhulu: i-bodikov embalwa kunye namadoda amancinci onke amaninzi, iingubo zokugqoka zokuhamba kwiipolyclinic, ii-overalls ... Ezinye iironi ezifanayo zembatho ziza kuhlala zingenakunyulwa, zibangele ukuphazamiseka okufutshane malunga nezizathu zokuthenga kwazo. Uphephe ukungcola okungadingekile kuya kunceda kwangaphambili ixesha lokuthenga uluhlu lwentsha , oluza kulungiswa ngabahlobo abanolwazi okanye nakwimithombo yethu ye-intanethi. - Ezintsha izinto zokuzilibazisa. Olunye ukubonakaliswa kwesifo sokukhulelwa sisisithabathazelo esitsha: umntu unomdla okanye udibanisa ngentsapho, umntu uchitha iintsuku ezipheleleyo ekhitsheni elungiselela udidi olutsha lwezolimo, omnye umntu ukususela ekuseni kuze kube sehlathini ukhula. Inomdla umgaqo oyintloko omnye - akufanele umonakalise umntwana. Ewe, malunga nokunye akufanele ukulibala.