Ulonwabo lomama alunakulinganiswa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani kwaye kunzima, abantwana bayonwabile. Ibhinqa liyaziqonda ngokubanzi ngokumalunga nabantwana, ukunyamekela nokuzilinda.
Abantwana sele bazalwe benomdla. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlala uxolo kwaye ucace ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Akukho nto ibaluleke kakhulu isimo sengqondo kunye nokholo oluhle kuphela. Makhe sithethe ngokuqinisekiswa kwabasetyhini namhlanje.
Ukuqala
Yiyiphi injabulo abazali abaza kuba nayo xa bengenayo ingxaki yokukhulelwa umntwana. Yaye yintoni omele uyenze ngoko, xa iinzame ezininzi, i-alas, ziphela kwisiqephu esinye? Into ebaluleke kakhulu ayiyikulahlekelwa yithemba.
Ukulungiselela ukukhulelwa kufuneka kuqalise ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe. Kwiinyanga ezi-6, oku kulandelayo kufuneka kwenziwe:
- Ukuyeka imikhwa emibi . Ukutshaya, utshwala, kunye nobisi obuninzi, kuyingozi kakhulu kwimpilo yomntwana kunye nokukhulelwa kwakho kwexesha elizayo.
- Thatha uphando. Ukugqithisa ukuhlalutya kwiintsholongwane zentsholongwane ngokwesondo kuwe, nakumyeni.
- Qala ukuthatha iivithamini. Ukuba ngaphambi kokucwangcisa umntwana awuzange uyisebenzise nayiphi na iivitamin complexes , ke yithuba lokuba uqale ukwenza oko. Khangela izinto eziphilayo zendalo. Yintoni e thengiswa kwii-pharmacy, kwiimeko ezininzi, iziyobisi zokwenziwa. Bafana nje ngama-20% kuphela. Benza okubi ngaphezu kokulungileyo. Hlola imarike yeBAD. Iimvithamini zexabiso zixabisa, kodwa ixabiso kunye nexabiso liyimiqondo eyahlukileyo.
- Ukucinga kakuhle. Thatha umgaqo wokuba nethemba. Khangela konke okulungileyo, khangela izinto ezilungileyo kwaye ungaba buhlungu ngenxa yezinto ezintle.
Ukulungelelanisa ngendlela ephilileyo kuya kunceda ukuqinisekiswa kokukhulelwa:
- Ndiyindoda enempilo kwaye ndifuna umntwana;
- konke kulungile, namhlanje ngumhla omuhle wokukhulelwa;
- yonke imihla amathuba okukhulelwa umntwana abe ngakumbi;
- kwintsapho yethu yokuzaliswa.
Kubalulekile ukuvakalisa amagama anjalo ngamaxesha amaninzi ngemini inyanga. Yenza kuphela ngexesha langoku. Njengokuba yonke into ikusebenzela yona, okokufunayo okuninzi kwenzeka.
Ukukhulelwa
Ukuqinisekiswa ukuze ukhulelwe kuya kuba luncedo. Kakade, akufanele uyeke "ukusebenza" kule ndlela. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba uvavanyo lunikeza umphumo omuhle, uqikelelo lwakho luya kuqinisekiswa, uye kwiingqinisiso zentsapho.
Mhlawumbi uphupha kabini, kulungile. Ukuba amawele azalwa emgceni wakho nomgca wendoda, ngoko unako amathuba. Ufuna inkwenkwana okanye intombazana yengqondo ingacetyisi. Okokuqala, ukulindela akusoloko kulungelelaniswa. Okwesibini, ichaphazela kakubi umntwana. Wena, umzekelo, ulinde intombazana, kwaye uya kuba nenkwenkwe. Ukuba ukholelwa oko bathethayo, umntwana "unokukhubeka."
Akunandaba ukuba ngubani ozalwa naye. Into ephambili kukuba igazi lakho nenyama. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, ukuba azalwe enempilo.
Ukuqinisekiswa ngentsapho kunokufumana amagama alandelayo:
- Ndikhulelwe, ndiziva kakuhle;
- silindele amawele;
- silindele umntwana ophilileyo;
- umntwana ukhula ngokuchanekileyo;
- Andinayo ingxaki;
- sinentsapho enkulu;
- sinokuzaliswa;
- siyintsapho eyonwabileyo;
- bethu abantwana bayonwabile kwaye banempilo.
Akukho nto inomdla kumfazi kunokunyamekela umfazi othandekayo nabantwana. Ngamanye amaxesha akulula, akukho mntu uphethwe yintlungu yokuphazamiseka. Akusoloko kulula ukwenza uvuyo. Kukho amaxesha apho akunakwenzeka ukukhalisa iinyembezi. Ukuba ulawula ukufumana amandla, kwimeko enjalo, phinda oku kulandelayo:
- zonke iingxaki zisesigxina;
- yonke into iyadlula, kwaye nalo;
- Andiyikuyeka, musa ukuphelelwa yithemba;
- Ndinamandla, andinakuphulwa;
- Ndilumkile, ndenza okulungileyo;
- yonke into ihamba ngcono, ndivakalelwa;
- Ndiyamthanda abantwana kunye nomyeni;
- Ndivuya.
Simele sikwazi ukuzinceda kwiimeko ezinzima. Konke kuqala entloko yethu. Kusezingqondweni zeengxaki eziphakama, apho indlela yokuphulukisa iqala khona.