Icandelo le-Caesarey liyinkqubo eyinkimbinkimbi, apho kukho amaninzi amaninzi eyenziwa yinkwenkwe engaphantsi kweemeko zonyango: ingaba yincinci encinci yowesifazane obelethayo, intambo eninzi, okanye isimo esingaqhelekanga sesisu esiswini. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ibhinqa ligqiba: "Ndifuna ukwenza i-cearean" ngaphandle kokubonisa.
Kutheni ukhetha icandelo lekhasari xa ufuna?
Kukho iinkcukacha ezininzi zokuba abafazi ngokwabo bakhetha ukuhlinzwa, kungekhona ukuzalwa kwemvelo. Kuze kube yinto efanelekileyo - zigwebe wena.
Inkcazo yokuqala ye-laarean ngokuvumelana nentando yedwa kukuba ukwesaba amahemuhemu ukuba kubuhlungu kakhulu ukuzala . Amantombazana akholelwa ukuba ukhetha umsebenzi, baphephe intlungu ngexesha lobasebenzi. Kodwa bangaphi abantu abacinga ukuba iintlungu zokuhamba emva kokuhamba zihamba kunye kwaye ubunzima babo bubukhulu kakhulu? Kwaye umngcipheko weengxaki ziphezulu. Kwaye, oku, kunxulumene nokuvakalelwa okungathandekiyo. Oku kungaqinisekiswa ngabo bawenza i-Caesarea ngentando nangaphandle kwayo.
Isizathu sesibini sokusasaza, ukuba sifuna - umfazi ngokwakhe unokukhetha usuku lokuzalwa lwakhe lwana. Kodwa kulungile ukukhumbula ukuba xa ukhetha inombolo enhle okanye usuku xa uyise wengane engekho kwintengiso, kwaye ugqirha akakho ekhefu, umfazi uya kumnciphisa umntwana okhethiweyo. Kodwa kuphela ukuqala kweemfazwe kuthi ixesha lifikile kwaye umntwana usulungele ukuzalwa. Kwaye unyanzelekile, eqinisweni, ukuhanjiswa kunika imiphumo engathandekiyo kwixesha lokubuyiselwa komfazi.
Kukho nabo bathi banokungena kwi-calarean, banciphisa umntwana wengcinezelo esuka kwinqanaba lakhe ngokusebenzisa iindlela ezincinci. Kodwa uluntu luye lwacwangcisa ukuba oku kufuneka ukuba azalwe ngumntwana. Ngexesha lokudlula kwinqanaba lokuzalwa, umbane ogqityiweyo uphunyezwa ngaphandle kwemiphunga yakhe, engenakwenzeka nge-laarean. Ngenxa yoko, imiphunga yengane iyahlala imanzi, kwaye kuvela iingxaki malunga nokunikezelwa kwe-oksijini.
Ukunikezelwa kwezi ngxabano kunye nezinye iingxabano, kubaluleke kakhulu ukulinganisela zonke iingxaki kunye nokuqhafaza kwaye wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo kuwe.