Zibuphi ubudlelwane xa bengenakuchukumisa ngokomzimba? Emva koko, umntu unokubonakalisa isimo sakhe sengqondo kumntu kungekhona ngamazwi kuphela, kodwa nakwizenzo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuphoqelela umfana ukuba azibambe, kukufanelekile ukucinga malunga nokuba ufuna umntu onjalo. Kodwa kukho iimeko ezahlukeneyo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu wakho unamahloni, kuya kufuneka usebenzise izicwangciso ezithile. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuncibilikisa iqhwa kunye nokuphula imingcele, ukuba zikhona. Zama ukungathinteka ngengozi, kodwa ungagxininisi, mhlawumbi unokwesaba. Ukuba uziva ukhululekile kwaye umfana akazami ukuzicima kuwe, ngoko impumelelo yokuqala sele yenziwe.
Indlela yokwenza umntwana amanga?
Namhlanje, i-intanethi igcwele iingcebiso malunga nokukhazimula okugqithiseleyo kunye nokusetyenziswa kwamafutha okunethezeka. Kufuneka uyazi ukuba abafana abanakubekezelela ubunzima obunamandla obuqinileyo. Ukukhanya kunye nokugqithisa umlomo kungaphinda kuhlasele umntu omncinci, kuba badibana neentambo zeempukane. Kuya kuba neentloni ukuba xa uqala ukumanga u-lipstick uhlala emlonyeni womntu. Amaninzi amaninzi ayayiphakamisa.
Zama ukwakha umoya ocolileyo, apho bobabini uya kuziva ukhululekile. Abaninzi abanamava, ngoko kunzima ukuba bathathe isigqibo kwisinyathelo esinjalo. Unokumxelela ixesha elingakanani ukuya kule ntla nganiso, ukhetha ukwenziwa kunye nokugqoka. Ukunyaniseka okunjalo kuya kukunceda ukuba usondele kwaye ukhulule uxinzelelo.
Unokwenza njani ukuba umntwana avune? Impendulo ilula: njengomthetho, u kiss uyabonakala xa uhlukana. Kulo mzuzwana zama ukusondeza ngokusemandleni akho. Phendulela ubuso bakho kumfana uze ukhangele emehlweni akhe. Unokwenza ukhangele iliso emlonyeni wakho, kodwa kungabi nanye. Ngaloo mzuzu, kubangele ukuba kubangele. Ukuba umfana akazange athathe inyathelo kwakhona, unokumanga ehlathini ukuze ugqithise intloni kwaye ulandelele umgama osondeleyo
.Unokuthetha naye ngaye. Akufuneki nje ukuba wenze amacebo. Mxelele nje ukuba ungathanda ukumanga, kodwa awazi ukuba kuya kuthini ukuphendula. Ukuba kukho into ephakathi kwakho, mhlawumbi, ingxoxo iya kuphazanyiswa ngu-kiss.
Siqokelele iinketho ezininzi ukuze sikuncede ufumane ubusuku obude ulindelwe.
Ungayichukumisa njani umfana ukuba amanga?
Ukuba awusandulandani, kufuneka umnike ithemba ngekamva lakho kunye. Mhlawumbi uloyiko ukuvuma iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye akaqinisekanga into oyithandayo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukunyaniseka nokwenene. Zama ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi kunye, ngelixa ungazichukumisi ngokuzithandela. Oku kuya kukuvumela bobabini ukuba uphumule kwaye uzive unethemba.
Umlomo wakho umele ube mnandi. Akukona malunga nomlomo, kodwa ngokumalunga nokulula kunye nokunyamekela. Akunakwenzeka ukuba umfana angathanda intombazana enomlomo omile kunye nesimo sezulu esityatywe.
Khumbula ukuba imeko iyafaneleka. Mhlawumbi umfana unenkxalabo yokuba umntu unokuphazamisana nawe. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba umfana wakho akayiboni, umanga okanye uyicele. Yenza oku ukuze ungazisoli ngothando, kodwa umzuzu olahlekileyo.
Ungamvuselela njani umntu ngokumanga ? Kukho enye indlela. Unokuxelela umfana ongazi ukuba uya kumanga njani. Unokuze ucele ihlaya ukuze umfundise indlela yokwenza oku. Ukuba uyakuthanda, mhlawumbi akayi kukukhanyela, kodwa kunokungabikho.
Kufuneka ube neembonakalo ezintle. Ungafaki isicelo sokwenza amaninzi. Kholelwa nje ukuba uhle kwaye oku kuya kuba nomthelela onamandla. Ngethuba lokunxibelelana, zama ukuba nguwe. Musa ukuzibamba. Unokuquka ukungabikho lula okuza kwenza ukuba ukhange ngakumbi.
Ukuba uthanda omnye nomnye, ukubomba kungekudala okanye kamva kuya kwenzeka, ngoko ungaxinzezeli imicimbi. Yikholelwa ukuba ukutshatyalaliswa kwexesha elide kuya kwenza ukuba u kiss lwakho ungalibaleki. Ngeli xesha uya kuba nexesha lokusondela kumntu kwaye uya kuziva ukhululekile.