Ixesha alizange liphele ngokupheleleyo xa usapho lucatshangelwa ludalwa kuphela emva kokubhaliswa ngokusemthethweni kwiofisi yokubhalisa kunye nomtshato ebandleni. Kancinci, isiko lomtshato saqala ukuphela kwimihla yethu yobomi bemihla ngemihla. Kwaye namhlanje ukubhaliselwa okusemthethweni sele kungabonakali. Iintsapho ezininzi, kungekhona abantu abancinci kuphela, zijonga ukuba zanele ukuhlala kunye kunye nokuqhuba ikhaya elidibeneyo ukuze kuthiwa yintsapho.
Umtshato womtshato - kunye nokuchasene
Isithethe somtshato womtshato esiwuthathe kubantu baseDutch. Ngaphambi koThixo, abantu abaneenkolelo ezahlukeneyo abakwazi ukuzibophelela kubantu ngenxa yezizathu ezithile. Ezi ntsapho zadalwa ngokuvunyelwa kwabasemagunyeni. Namhlanje, ngomtshato womtshato, sithetha imitshato, ngaphandle kwemimiselo. Isimo sengqondo somtshato wasemzimbeni singenangqondo, kokubili phakathi kweengqondo zengqondo kunye nabantu abaqhelekileyo. Ngokubhekiselele kumtshato womtshato, amadoda athambekele ekutheni athambekele ngakumbi. Ukuzimela kwakhe, nangona utyunjwa, indoda iyazama ukugcina ukugqibela. Abasetyhini banamathele ngakumbi ukuzinza nokuthembeka. Kwaye abaninzi abantu bayavuma ukukhulula ubudlelwane ukuze bahlale besondelene nabo. Nangona ukungafani kuyo yonke indawo. Kwaye kwimihla yamanje yabesifazane bezombusazwe kunye nabafazi bezoshishino, ezo zinto zingabandakanyeka.
Iinkonzo kunye neNgcaliso yomtshato womtshato
Njengoko bathetha, bangaphi abantu, ezininzi iingcamango. Ngako oko, isihloko sesi-pluses kunye ne-minuses sinokuphuhliswa ngonaphakade. Inkululeko yobundlobongela ngaphandle kwemfanelo kunye nethuba lokuvavanya iimvakalelo zakho kunye nentsebenziswano ngokufanelekileyo kusengaphambili. Kodwa uvavanyo lunokulibaziseka. Kulo xesha kukho ipropati edibeneyo, abantwana abaqhelekileyo. Abantu emtshatweni womtshato baziva benganyaniseki, okukhokelela ekulahlekelweni kwethemba kunye nokungavumelani okungadingekile. Ingakumbi kubantu abatsha.
Iintlobo zomtshato womtshato zibonakala zicaca kubantu abavuthiweyo abasele bahlala emtshatweni womthetho, kunye nokukrakra komtshato. Abantu abanjalo, ukuqala ulwalamano olutsha, bafumana uloyiko lweempembelelo eziphindaphindiweyo. Kwaye, umtshato womtshato ubonisa ithuba lesibini ebomini (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha wesithathu nesine ...). Ngelo xesha, xa ufumana intlungu yokudumala kunye nokulahleka, kuninzi uxanduva lokujongana nolwalamano olutsha. Bawaxabisa kwaye abadingi ukuvuselelwa okongezelelweyo ngendlela yesitampu kwipaspoti yabo. Kubantu abancinci, umtshato womtshato uyindlela yokumazana kakuhle. Ininzi yolwalamano lwabantu abancinci bexesha lethu luqala, ngokusekelwe kwintando kunye novelwano. Umtshato womtshato unikeza ithuba lokwenza isinyathelo esiqinileyo ukuchonga ukuba ngaba ngokwenene ukukhangwa kwesondo okanye into eninzi.
Iingxaki zomtshato womtshato zihlala zentlalo kunengqondo. Ukuba abantu bayavuma ngokuqinisekileyo umtshato womtshato ukuze bazame ngokwabo, oko kusenjalo. Izibini ezinjalo zihamba ngokukhawuleza ukufumana abantwana kunye nokufumana indawo yokuhlala. Kodwa konke kwenzeka. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka, xa usapho lwabantu basekhaya ludibanisa, abantwana bahlala bengumfazi, kunye nepropati ebaluleke kakhulu kumyeni. Ukusekwa ngokulula konke into ngokuqhelekileyo "yintloko yentsapho."
Iingeniso kunye neempembelelo zomtshato womtshato zingaqwalaselwa ixesha elide kwaye zivela kwimibono eyahlukileyo. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, eyona nto ebalulekileyo kulwalamano iya kuba nemvakalelo kunye nokunyaniseka phambi komnye nomnye kunye nabo. Omnye udibanisa inyanga emva kokubhaliswa ngokusemthethweni, kwaye umntu uhlala ngokuvuya emtshatweni womtshato kwaye uvelisa abantwana abaninzi.