Ukuba mnandi kwaye kukhangeleke iphupha labasetyhini abaninzi banamhlanje. Kuyaziwa ukuba ubuhle - le yikhadi eliphambili lamacilongo lamabhinqa, kwaye ubulili obufanelekileyo buchitha ixesha elininzi ukubonakala kwazo. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abasetyhini abanakuvuyiswa ngokupheleleyo ngqondweni wabo kwisibuko, kwaye kwezinye iimeko, kubangela izifo ezithile. Kunzima ukuguqula ngokucacileyo ubuso bakho okanye umzobo wakho, kwaye kwezinye iimeko kubonakala kungenakwenzeka, ngoko ke, kunokuba umelane nemvelo, kungcono ukuba uthandane kwaye uyamkele ukusilela kwakho.
I ngcebiso
Iingcali zeengqondo emhlabeni jikelele zithi kuphela umfazi othembekileyo nonelisayo onokwakha umsebenzi kunye nokuphucula ubomi bakhe. Ukunqoba kweentsika eziphakamileyo kuqala ngesinyathelo sokuqala - ukwamukelwa kwakho, umzimba wakho kunye nokungaphumeleli kwayo, ngaphandle kokuba siza kuba ngabantu behluke ngokupheleleyo. Abanye abafazi bayiphatha ngokulula, abanye bangathatha iminyaka engaphezu konyaka. Into ephambili, ukuba kukho ingxaki - ukusebenza kwisisombululo sazo, kwaye kuya kufuneka iphele. Kukho imigaqo embalwa elula evumela abesifazane ukuba bathande ukusilela kwabo:
- Iingcali zengqondo zincoma ukusetyenziswa okunjalo-ukubhala phantsi kwelinye iphepha elifanelekileyo kunye neempazamo zabo. Uluhlu lwemilinganiselo kufuneka lufundwa kwakhona imihla ngemihla kwaye lube nekratshi ngabo, kunye nayo yonke impazamo yokulwa. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba kukho ubunzima obunzima kunye nobuvila kuluhlu lweephene, ngoko unako ukubeka umgomo-ukwenza uqeqesho okanye usebenze ekuseni, kwaye ke ulwe nabo bobabini, ngexesha elinye.
- Tshintsha izigwebo zakho malunga nomntu wakho okanye ukubonakala. Ukutshintshwa "inqabileyo" inenzondelelo "ngifuna." Kuyaziwa ukuba kuphela ukutshisa ngomnqweno kunokutshintshwa into ethile. Kwaye ukuzama ukujongana nemiphumo "ngokungafuni", akukho nto kwaye akukho nto.
- Ukunxibelelana ngakumbi nabantu abanethemba kunye nabazithembayo. Njengomthetho, ithemba lichaphazela kwaye lixhobisa. Ukunxibelelana nokuzithemba kunye nalabo abafezekisa le njongo kukukhuthaza ukufikelela kwiziphumo ezinjalo.
- Nsuku zonke fumana ixesha lokurekhoda impumelelo yakho. Ingaba yiminqwana emibini okanye iiyure ezimbalwa, ezivela kuye. Ngeli xesha, kufuneka ucinge ngawe kunye nempumelelo yakho. Kwaye, ukucinga ngokuzonwabisa.
- Jabulela nayiphi na into oyifunayo. Ukuba lo ngumsebenzi, ngoko ke ungakanani na ongasenakunyuswa. Ukuba oku kupheka, ngoko ke kukuhle kangakanani. Ukuba lo ngumsebenzi kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, ngoko kukuhle kwaye kuguquguquke umzimba wakho.
- Yeka ukukhononda ngobomi bakho kunye nokungaphumeleli kwakho. Nabo bathandekayo. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyeke ukuthetha ngawo, zonke iingxaki ziya kuba zibalulekileyo.
- Qala ukuzidumisa. Ukuzidumisa kufuneka kube njalo kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kunye nayo yonke into elandelelanayo - ukwenza umsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle, ukuba idle isidlo sakusihlwa, ngenxa yamehlo enhle kunye neenwele, ukuthetha okanye ukungathethi. Kweminye, lo msebenzi ungabonakala unzima, kodwa ukuba uyawuphinda uyiguqule imihla ngemihla, emva kweeveki ezimbalwa uya kuba ngumkhwa kwaye uncedise ukuthanda ukungahambi.
- Ukuba awunelisekanga ngomzimba wakho okanye umntu, kufuneka
ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka ukubukeka kwisibuko esikwi-nude. Kukunceda kakhulu ukuncoma ukucinga kwakho, ukumomotheka kwaye akukho mzekelo ukugxeka. Ngokwenene kwiiveki ezimbalwa, ukungaxhalabi kwangaphambili kuyadlula. - Zinike izipho - iingubo ezintsha okanye izicathulo, i-trinkets kunye nemihlobiso. Kuyaziwa ukuba isipho yindlela ephilileyo yokunyamezela nokuxinezeleka.
- Nika ingqalelo ngakumbi ekudleni okunempilo, ukuya kwi-gym, i-hair salon kunye ne-salon yobuhle. Ukunyamekela kwimihla ngemihla ukubonakala kwayo kunye nokuphuculwa kwayo kuhlale kukuhle. Umsebenzi oqhubekayo kuphela uzakuvumela ukuba ubone iziphumo.