Ukuba siluguqulela igama elithi "umlingiswa" kwiGrike yamandulo, siya kufumana inkcazo yekota. Oku kuyimpawu eyahlukileyo, uphawu, uphawu, amaGrike asendulo achanekileyo ngokuchanekileyo abiza le nto. Umlingani ushiya uphawu lwaso kuwo wonke umcango, isenzo, igama. Enyanisweni, liqela leempawu zobuntu ezizimeleyo ezizibonakalisa ngokwazo ngokuzalwa. Ngexesha elifanayo, umlingani awuyiyo impahla yangasese, kodwa ifunyenwe.
Iimpawu zabantu ziphuhliswa ngesiseko senkqubo yesantya (innitude), indawo yokuhlala, ukukhuliselwa, kunye neempawu zomzimba zomntu.
Mhlawumbi, nangaphambi kokuba kubonakale ingcamango "yobunjani", abantu bazama ukukhetha uhlobo luni lomntu onalo. Iminikelo yokuqala ebalulekileyo ekufundeni kwethu ukuziphatha nokuziphatha kwethu kwenziwa ngamagqirha aseGrike asemaGrike kunye nofilosofi, ugqirha uGalen, emva koko uSigmund Freud, uCarl Jung, kunye nabalandeli - ngoku, uT. Dobson, E. Wagle, K. Hurley nabanye.
Ukukhangela iimpawu zobuntu
Ukuze kuqinisekiswe iimpawu zomntu womntu, kuyimfuneko ukunika impendulo ngokwemiqathango emine yokuhlola:
- ulwalamano lomntu kuye;
- isimo sengqondo kwabanye abantu;
- isimo sengqondo sokusebenza;
- ubuntu obunamandla.
Isimo sengqondo esichazwa ngokwawo sithiwa ukugxeka okanye ukuzithemba, abanye abantu bangazibonakalisa njengobungcavu, ukungakhathaleli, ukunyaniseka, ububele, ububele. Ngokuphathelene nomsebenzi, ubuvila, intlangano, umsebenzi onzima, ukungahambelani, ukunyaniseka, ukuchaneka, njl njl. Ubuntu obunqwenela ngamandla - konke kukubandezeleka kwintsebenzo ethile okanye ukungabi nako, kunye nokuqeqeshwa, ukunyamezela, ukuzimisela.
Udidi lwangoku
Iingcali zemihla ngemihla zinika uluhlu olutsha oluqhelekileyo lwento abantu abafana ngayo nendalo. Uhlobo lomlinganiso lugqityiwe ngumbalo onamaqondo asithoba-ama-enneagrams, ekugqibeleni, sifumana iintlobo ezithoba:
- umbonisi;
- U mncedisi;
- phelele;
- wrestler;
- ngabanye;
- thandana;
- umgcini woxolo;
- mlandeli;
- umcebisi.
Kutheni, ngokwenene, ngaba sinomdla kakhulu kulolu hlobo lomlingiswa? Kwiminyaka eminyaka ubudala, kunye namawaka amaninzi omsebenzi wokubeka iliso ngomntu ofanayo, kukhokelela ekubeni siqonda ukuba kuphela ngokuqonda kwethu, ngokufunda nokuzimisela ukuba ngumntu onjani, siya kukwazi ukuphucula ukuqonda kwethu kwehlabathi.
Ukuvakala kwendalo
Iipropati zomntu womntu azikwazi ukulungiswa ngumntu ongenamntu. Abantu abanaluphi na uhlobo lwenkqubo ye-nervous bangakhula ngokwabo okanye banqande impawu ezifunwayo, nangona kunjalo, abantu abahlukeneyo banikwa ubunzima obunzima.
Enye into - ukugxininisa. Ezi zizinye iimpawu zobuntu eziye zaphuhlisa ngokugqithiseleyo. Ngenxa yoko, umntu unenkathazo ebantwini, ingakumbi xa kuthethwa ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye kubonakala kubo bonke. Iziganeko ezigqithiseleyo zokugxininisa ziyi-psychopathy, oko kukuthi, ukuphazamiseka kwesimo somntu. Yaye le sizathu sokufaka isicelo kwi-psychologist.
Iimbalo ezidumileyo:
- ukungahambi kakuhle - imimoya ephakamileyo, akukho ngqiqo yemilinganiselo, amandla ahlabayo ngomthombo, akukho nto ingengozi;
- ikhutshwe - isidingo sokwanda kolwazi, ukunqongophala kokuzimela kunye nentlangano ephantsi;
- i-dysthymic - ngamanye amagama, i-pessimist, igcinwe, ithule, igweme ukungquzulana kunye noxinzelelo ;
- ngeniswa
- umntu "ngaphakathi" ngokwakhe, ongenakuhlawuleka kwaye ehoxisiwe; - i-cycloid - ubomi kwiimjikelezo, oku kuchaphazela kokubambisana kunye nomoya;
- ukuxhalaba- ukungaqiniseki, ukungazithembi, ukungasebenzi;
- ukuvakalelwa ngokwemvakalelo , ukungathinteka;
- i-pedantic - ifuna izinto ezincinci;
- Ukubonakalisa - ukufuna iindawo ezikufutshane;
- ukulungeleka - lula "kunokutsha", ukulungele ukungquzulana kwimeko yokuqala.