Igama elithi "I-Stockholm syndrome" ibonakalisa kuphela isimo sengqondo sabasemagunyeni, apho baqala ukuvelana nabo nabahlaseli. Kamva eli thuba lafumana isicelo esiphezulu kwaye lisetyenziswe ukuchasisa ukukhangwa kwexhoba kwi-aggressor ngokubanzi.
I-Hostage Syndrome okanye iStockholm Syndrome
I-Stockholm Syndrome yafumana igama layo kwi-Niels Bijerot yobundlobongela, eyayisebenzisa ekuhlalutheni kwayo imeko yokubamba i-Stockholm ngo-1973. Kwaye malunga nabantu abambalwa abaphindaphindiweyo ababethabathe indoda kunye nabafazi abathathu kunye neentsuku ezintlanu bazigcina ebhankini, besongela ubomi babo.
Le nto yabonakaliswa xa iindwendwe zikhutshwa. Ngokukhawuleza, amaxhoba athatyathela kwicala labahlaseli baze bazama ukukhusela amapolisa ayeza kuqhuba umsebenzi wokuhlangula. Emva kokuba abaphuli-mthetho beya ejele, amaxhoba ayewacela ukuba ahlale ejele kwaye awaxhasayo. Omnye wabantu ababetha umtshato wakhe umyeni wakhe waza wathembisa ukunyaniseka kumhlaseli, owayesongela ubomi bakhe ngenxa yeentsuku ezinhlanu ezesabekayo. Kwixesha elizayo, amabanjwa ama-hostage aqala ukuzibandakanya nabahlaseli.
Kwakunokwenzeka ukuchaza iziphumo ezingavamile zezinto ezenzeke kwi-forensics. Amaxhoba ngokuthe ngcembe aqala ukuzichazela ngokwabahlaseli ngexesha lokuhlala ixesha elide kwintsimi efanayo nabaphangi. Ekuqaleni, le ndlela yindlela yokukhusela yengqondo evumela ukuba ukholelwe ukuba abahlaseli abayi kubangela ingozi.
Xa umsebenzi wokuhlangula uqala, imeko iphinda ibe yingozi: ngoku awanjalo kuphela abahlaseli abangabangela ingozi, kodwa nabavuleli, nangona bengenangqiqo. Yingakho ixhoba ithatha indawo ekhuselekileyo "yokukhusela" - intsebenziswano kunye nabahlaseli.
Isivakalisi sagqiba iintsuku ezintlanu - ngeli xesha kungabandakanyeka ukuba kunxibelelwano, ixhoba liyaqaphela ulwaphulo-mthetho, iinjongo zakhe zisondele kuye. Ngenxa yoxinzelelo, loo nto ingabonwa njengephupha, apho yonke into iguqulwa, kwaye abahlangulayo kulo mbono banokubonakala babangela zonke iingxaki.
Isifo seStockholm
Namhlanje isifo seStockholm kwiintlalontle zentsapho zifumaneka rhoqo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kumtshato onjalo umfazi unobundlobongela obuvela kumyeni wakhe, uvavanya uvelwano oluqhelekileyo kumntu okhuselekileyo njengamaxhoba kubahlaseli. Ulwalamano olufanayo lunokukhula phakathi kwabazali nabantwana.
Njengomthetho, i-Stockholm syndrome ibonakala kubantu kwaye becinga "ixhoba". Njengomntwana, abanakho ukukhathazeka komzali kunye nokunyamekela, babona ukuba abanye abantwana kwintsapho bathanda kakhulu. Ngenxa yoko, bayakha inkolelo yokuba bangabantu besibini, abahlala bekhangela iingxaki ezingafanelekanga nantoni na. Ukuziphatha kwabo kusekelwe kwingcamango: ungaphantsi uxoxe nomnxepheli, ukugqithiswa okungaphantsi komsindo wakhe. Njengomthetho, ixhoba alikho kwindawo yokungaxoleli umtyholi, kwaye
Uncedo kwiStockholm syndrome
Ukuba sicinga ngesifo seStockholm kwisiseko sobudlelwane bentsapho (le yimeko eqhelekileyo), ngoko umfazi, njengomthetho, uyazifihla iingxaki zakhe kwabanye, aze afune isizathu sokuxhaphazwa komyeni wakhe. Xa bezama ukumnceda, uthatha uhlangothi lomgcini - umyeni wakhe.
Ngelishwa, akunakwenzeka ukunyanzelisa loo mntu ukuba ancede. Kuphela xa umfazi ebona umonakalo wangempela kumtshato wakhe, uyaziqonda ukungabikho kwemisebenzi yezenzo zakhe kunye nokungaziboni kwamathemba akhe, uya kukwazi ukushiya indima yexhoba. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle koncediswa ngumgqirha, ukuphumelela kwimpumelelo kuya kuba nzima, ngoko kubalulekile ukubonisana neengcali, kwaye ngaphambili, ngcono.