Umhla wokuqala kufuneka usekelwe kumgaqo wokuba uncedo lomntu onokukwazi ukubona naluphi na umlingo. Emva koko, indlela yonke into eya kuqala ngayo incike kwisibini sakho, sesithathu kunye nazo zonke iintlanganiso ezilandelayo kunye nento enothando lwakho. Indawo efanelekileyo yomhla wokuqala ayiyi kukwazi ukunika ulwalamano oluhle kumntu ongenalutho, kodwa ukudibanisa okukwenzekayo.
Umhla ogqibeleleyo - yintoni na?
Intlanganiso efanelekileyo kunazo zonke izithandani ezimbini, apho enye iqabane livakalelwa likhulu, ngokokuqala kuphela. Intlanganiso enjalo kufuneka iphindise iimvakalelo ezifihlakeleyo kwaye ibe yintlobo yeshukumiso sokwenza amanyathelo athile ngokumalunga nomnye.
Ukuba ukhawuleza ubuchopho bakho phezu kwento efanelekileyo ukuba yintoni, cinga ngawo kuqala. Khumbula ukuba kufuneka kukhethwe ngokuxhomekeka kwimeko yoqabane lakho. Kakade, indawo yosuku akufanele ihambe ngaphezu kwe-decorum. Ngokomgaqo-nkqubo, yindoda yinto yokukhethwa kwevenkile yokutyela, i-cafe, njl njl.
Kwaye ngoko, abamele isigqibo esihle sabantu, abanokuzithemba, banokuthokoza ngokumisela umhla kwenye indawo yokudlela yase-chic. Ubuntu bobugcisa buya kuvuyisa ukuba intlanganiso yokuqala kunye nekhethiweyo iqhubekileyo, bangaphi abangekho kwindawo yokutyela, kodwa ngohlobo lohambo ukuya kumyuziyam, ukuya kumboniso. I-Romantics iya kuba nemihlali xa kunikwa intlanganiso kwi-cafe yehlobo (ewe, ukuba imozulu iya kunceda), kwibhuloho okanye ngendlela yokukhwela emfuleni, uhamba epakini.
Khumbula ukuba unako ukuchitha umhla wokuqala wokuqala kwi cafe. Mhlawumbi oku kuyindlela yokuphumelela. Gxininisa, okokuqala, ekhitshini. Oku kwenziwa ukwenzela ukuba kungabikho iimeko ezihlazo. Vumelana nenyani, ukuba iqabane lakho liyimifuno, akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuvuya ukuba abe kwindawo ye-cafe, apho kuphela iintlobo zenyama yokutya.
Umhla opheleleyo kumntu
Xa uhamba ngomhla, khumbula ukuba awunabo kuphela abafumanayo. Indoda inenkxalabo njengoko ukhona. Ngokwenzululwazi phakathi kwamadoda, umhla olungeleyo kufuneka ube ngokwesi sicwangciso esilandelayo:
- Udibana nawe kwindawo ekhethiweyo, ubonisa ngendlela enokuba nayo imoto kwaye uphantse ukuba ngumntu oqinisiweyo. Ukhangeleka elula, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo elinga kwaye elihle.
- Uhamba ukuhamba ngaphandle kwedolophu. Kulapho kwenzeka ukuba udibane nabahlobo bakhe, abathandwayo yingqondo yakho nobuhle.
- Ukutshitshisa abahlobo, iqabane lakho libala ukuba uphelele kulo lonke ixesha malunga nendlela yokuchitha ixesha elifanelekileyo.
- Uya kunye ndawonye kwindawo eyimfihlo, uzaliswe ngothando. Xoxa ngezinto ozithandayo.
- Ingxoxo iya kuba ngumsindo, kodwa, ngelishwa, uyaphawula ukuba emva kweyure kwaye uyifake ekhaya.
- Ngomngcipheko wendlu yakhe unika omnye othandekayo omnye ubumnandi bumnandi.
Khumbula into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba umhla wokuqala awuyi kuba yinto efanelekileyo ukuba awukhumbuli ubunjani bakho nobuhle obuvela kwimvelo.