Kukho iimeko xa ungafuni ukulungisa amacandel, kodwa indlela yokushiya le meko ayinakwenzeka. Apha, umzekelo, wafunda ngokungcatsha kwendoda yakhe, ngokuqinisekileyo, akunakuyenza njani iprouchit kule nto? Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha indoda ethandekayo ifuna ukuhlwaya ngenxa yokunyaniseka, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ayiyikuxabisa into ayenzela yona, ngoko uthi "isobho asanele kwaye i-sock yami ilahlekile", unokucinga ukuba kuphela yena osebenza yodwa. Kubonakala kungeyonto into ekhethekileyo, kodwa iyancipha!
Indlela yokufundisa umyeni ongabongiyo?
Akaboni konke ophelile ukuba umkholise, ngaphezu koko, uyalibala malunga nezipho kunye neeholide zeentsapho? Ingxaki, indoda ethandekayo yokuthuka isidingo sokufundisa. Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa zokwenza oku.
- Umyeni owenziwe ngumlibala wakho? Musa ukuhlambalaza, cwaka ucoce, makacinge ukuba wenza ntoni.
- Uthembisa ukuba uza ekhaya ngexesha, kwaye endaweni yoko waya kumnandi nabahlobo? Ngomso olandelayo, yenza okufanayo, hamba uye uzibhenye, ushiye inqaku (ukuthumela i-SMS), kwaye unqamle ifowuni, vumela ukuba uzive kwindawo yakho.
- Ukuba indoda iyonwabile ngokupheka kwakho kwaye isetyenziswe kuye ngoku ukuba i-omelette iyimvavanyo kuye, zama amaxesha ambalwa ukuba ungampheki. Kwaye kwangoko ubukela iTV xa ulele embhedeni. Ewe, wathi akukho nto uyenzayo, makabone ukuba ibukeka njani.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo amadoda acinga ukuba umfazi ohleli ekhaya nomntwana akenzi nto, kwaye ngenxa yoko akanako ukukhathala. Ngaba yakho iyafana? Mshiye yedwa kunye nosana, kwaye uye eholide nabahlobo bakho okanye nabazali.
- Kwezinye iintsapho, izigwebo zenziwe ngenxa yecala. Umyeni ongekho phantsi kwakho, ke makumhlawule.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo, oomama baqhelana "nesohlwayo ngokwesondo", bacaphukile bayenqaba ukuthandana nomyeni, ngelixa engaqapheli ityala. Kulapha kuphela umbuzo othi ngubani oya kugwetywa ngakumbi kule meko?
Indlela yokuhlwaya umntu ngenxa yokunyelisa?
Watshintsha - ubuhlungu, ukuhlambalaza nokufunwa kakhulu. Yintoni enokuyenza?
- Amacandelo amancinci amancinci - gxotha onke amaqhosha avela kwiikhati, unqumle izibophelelo uze udwebe i-trousers.
- Yeka ukupheka kuye, ukutshiza kunye nokuhlamba iimpahla zakhe zangaphantsi, kunye nokunceda emsebenzini, makumvumele ukuba athole konke ukuwacima.
- Ngaba umthandayo unemoto? Ukugqwesa, mnike umthunzi omtsha (uyipende ngombala othokisayo kakhulu oya kuwufumana) okanye upende "ihashe yensimbi" ngeentyantyambo zepinki kunye namabhotela.
- Ukuba ugqiba ukungavumelani, ungonakalisa idumela lakho. Tshela wonk 'ubani ukuba ungathembekanga kwaye awukholisi lomntu, kwaye umthandi uyinto enyanyekayo. Kwaye umbuzo othi "uhlala phi na?", Impendulo yokuba wayenomdla kuwe kuphela njengomnini wekhredithi eninzi.
- Uyakhumbula ukuhleka kwehlazo "ukuphindiselela kumcuphi ngobuchule, qalisa umtshato kunye nenkosikazi yakhe"? ukugqitywa okunjalo akunakukufaneleka, kodwa unokuqala ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kunye nentombazana ye-orientation-standard. Kwaye kubonakale kunye naye kwiindawo zoluntu, rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka. Ewe, uphetele ngale mfazi kunomfanekiso othile womntu.
- Amanye amantombazana azama ukuphindiselela kumcuphi, ukukhawuleza ukulala nabo bonke abahlobo bakhe.
- Eyona ndlela, indlela efanelekileyo yokugweba umrhwebi kukuba unqamle ubuphi ubudlelwane naye.
Indlela yokufundisa umyeni wakho isiselo?
Kuphela, ukucinga, indlela yokufundisa umntu isifundo sokusela, cingisisa imeko yangoku. Yinto enye ukuba umyeni wakho uphule izicwangciso ezithile kunye nezidakamizwa zakho ezingenakucwangciswa, kodwa amacala akhona.
Ngoko, indlela yokufundisa umyeni wakho isiselo? Injongo yethu kukubonisa ukuba ukunxila akunakulungile, ukuba kweli lizwe unokwenza nantoni na. Oko ufikayo kuxhomekeke ekucingeni kwakho. Unokupenda izipikili zakhe ezandleni zakhe nasezinyaweni nge-varnish eqaqambileyo, kwaye unike i-solvent kuphela xa ecela ukuxolelwa. Ungasebenzisa umakishi ongehlanjwanga kwigama elibi bhala ebunzini okanye kwenye indawo evelele. Unokugqoka apho wafika khona, kwaye kusasa ukubonisa nokucela ukuba uchaze ukuba kwenzeke ntoni kuye.