Umntu uyaqonda ukuba uyayithanda ubomi, amehlo akhe avule izinto ezininzi ezintle ezinokubakhuthaza, kodwa uthando luhlala luqhuba ngamandla kunye nomoya onqwenela.
Umbono weengqondo ngezobudlelwane bomfana nentombazana
Abasetyhini kunye nesini esahlukileyo, njengokuba uyazi, zivela kwiiplanethi ezahlukeneyo, ngamanye amaxesha zijonge into efanayo kwimeko ehluke ngokupheleleyo. Ukuthintela uthando phakathi kwendoda kunye nentombazana, akukho nto iphazamisekile, ayizange ibe negalelo ekuveleni ukungavumelani kwimbali yabo yothando, kufuneka umntu alalele iingcebiso zeengqondo zeengqondo kule ndaba.
Ngoko, isondo esifanelekileyo sinobuchule bokucinga , sikhokelwa yimvakalelo, intuition, engenakutsholwa ngamadoda athambekele ekuphulaphuleleni kuphela iinyani, intetho eqiqayo yomnxibelelwano.
Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba uthando oluqinileyo phakathi kwendoda kunye nentombazana iyancipha emva kweemeko ezinjalo, xa ngexesha lomphikisi wakhe kunzima ukubonisa ukuqonda komntu othandekayo, kutheni kungahambelani nale nto okanye leyo.
Kwiimeko ezinje, xa kubonakala ngathi kuncinci kwaye kuqhutywe ngumsindo, kucetyiswa "ukupholisa" kwaye kuphela, ekubeni kwindawo eqhelekileyo, ubuyele kwisifundo esingavumelaniyo. Kufuneka ufunde ukuthetha nomlingane ngolwimi lwakhe. Ngokomzekelo, ukuze umntu osemtsha aqonde umthandi wakhe, kufuneka afake iimfuno zakhe njengokuthi: "Ngoku ndiziva ndixakekile. Ndifuna ukucaca, kodwa kunzima ukuqonda indlela yokwenza ngayo. Xa ndithi ndifuna kakhulu uthando lwakho, andithethi ukuba andithandi. Ndifuna nje ukuba ungandibambe ngokuphindaphindiweyo (ewe, ndiyaqonda ukuba wenza oku), kwaye wongeza nangakumbi. "
Wonke umntu, kwaye nangakumbi ukuba kukho intetho phakathi kwezesini ezichaseneyo, ubeka intsingiselo kuwo onke amagama, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kukho ukuxabana okukhulu kwenzeka ngokuchanekileyo ngenxa yokuba isibini asizange sikhathazeke ukucacisa: "Ngaba ndakuqonda kakuhle? Ngaphantsi kwesi sigqibo, uthetha oko ndi ... ".