Okwangoku, umthwalo omkhulu kunye noxanduva lokukhuliswa kwabantwana uhlala kumagxa omfazi. Cinga, basikhupha kwiigadi, bafundise ezikolweni, nakwikhaya, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, upapa uthatha isikhundla esincinci ekubunzeni umlingani womntwana, ekholelwa ukuba yintsebenziswano yowesifazane. Nangona kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuphika ukubaluleka kwemfundo yendoda.
Uyise kwintsapho unendima ekhethekileyo. Okokuqala, ubaba ulungiselela umntwana wakhe isampula somntu - umkhuseli, umgcini wesondlo, intlonelo. Indima kayise ekukhuliseni komntwana incitshiswa ukuba umzali ungowomntwana umgca wendlu, umgcini kunye nomkhuseli wendlu. Ngombulelo, abantwana banokuzithemba ngakumbi, bakhulise ngokwengqondo impilo enempilo, ngenxa yokuba banemiphumo enokwethenjelwa enjalo.
Indima kayise ekukhuliseni unyana wakhe
Ubomi bukaTata ebomini benkwenkwe kubaluleke kakhulu. Nguyise onguyena mzekelo wokuziphatha kakuhle kwabantu - ngokubhekiselele kwintsapho yakhe, intombi yakhe ethandekayo, abahlobo, abantwana abasasa. Umntwana ulingisa, ngokubanzi, kubawo. Indima kayise ekukhulisweni kwentsapho iyancitshiswa yinto yokuba umntu, ngokubanzi, kufuneka abe nokuqeqesha ngakumbi kunomama onobubele. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kokubonakaliswa kobundlobongela kunye nobunzima obugqithiseleyo - mhlawumbi unyana uya kukhula ethukuthele. Ukuxhaswa kunye nokuqatshelwa kwePapin, ukuphuhliswa kokuzimela, ubukhulu bomntu, inhlonipho yabasetyhini - konke oku kuyona msebenzi oyintloko wokukhulisa uyise wonyana.
Indima kayise ekukhulisweni kwentombi
Ukukhulisa intombazana yinkqubo enobunzima kwaye enoxanduva. Inyaniso kukuba ukukhula, intombi isebenza umfanekiso wopapa xa ukhetha iqabane lomntu, indoda, inkwenkwe. Umntwana uyamkela umzekelo wokwakha ubudlelwane phakathi komfazi nomyeni kubazali. Ukongezelela, indima kayise ekukhulisweni kwentombi yileyo, ukujonga upapa, intombazana kufuneka ibone ezo zimpawu ezenza indoda ibe yindoda yangempela. Ngoko ke, utata kufuneka aphathise intombi yakhe njengendoda, inkosikazi, ngaloo ndlela iphakamisa isidima sayo sesifazana. Kubalulekile ukubona intombazana njengomntu, ncokola naye, uyayixabisa imbono yakhe. Intombi eyakhulela emkhatsini wothando, mhlawumbi, iya kuba ngumntu onomusa, uvelwano, ukwakha intsapho eqinile nonothando.
Ukukhulisa umntwana ngaphandle kobawo
Kukho imeko xa abantwana bekhula bengenalo uthando nothando lukabawo. Nangona kunjalo, imfundo yomntu kunyana wayo iyimfuneko kunoma yintoni na. Ukuze sikhule umntu ohloniphekileyo, umama kufuneka aphathe le nkwenkwe njengendoda, nangona kunjalo esincinane. Mcele uncedo malunga nendlu, akunike iingubo, uthwale isikhwama. Makhele umntu osapho (umkhulu, umalume, umzalwana omdala), abahlobo babe ngumzekelo omelekayo kumntwana. Xa ukhulisa intombi engenawo ubawo, umzekelo wokuziphatha ngokufanelekileyo wesilisa kubalulekile. Ingaba ilungu lentsapho, u-godfather, umhlobo, othanda nokumkhathalela. Ukuze ugweme iingxaki ngesini esahlukileyo, umama makaxelele intombi yakhe malunga nolwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, unike iincwadi ngokuphathelele uthando oluhle.