Njengomthetho, isitayela sobukhosi semfundo yentsapho asifudumala kakhulu. Kubonakaliswa yi-predominance yolu hlobo "unxibelelwano lomzali" lomntwana. Konke ngaphandle kokukhetha, izigqibo zenziwa ngabantu abadala (abazali) bakholelwa ukuba umntwana wabo kufuneka ahlale ethobela njalo.
Iimpawu zesitayela sobukhosi
- Ngemfundo yobuqhetseba, abazali ngokuqhelekileyo ababonisi abantwana babo uthando lwabo. Ngenxa yoko, ukusuka kwicala libonakala ngathi bancitshisiwe kwintsapho yabo.
- Abazali bahlala banika imiyalelo baze babonise ukuba yintoni na indlela yokwenza ngayo, ngelixa kungekho ndawo yokuhlala.
- Kwintsapho apho indlela yokukhulisa yokuziphatha ilawulwa khona, iimpawu ezinjengokuthobela, ukulandela izithethe kunye nentlonipho ziyakuthandwa ngokukhethekileyo.
- Imithetho ayizange ixoxwe. Kukholelwa ukuba abantu abadala bakulungile kuzo zonke iimeko, ngoko ngokungaqhelekanga ukuthobela kuhlwaywa ngeendlela zenyama.
- Abazali bahlala bekhawuleza ukuzimela kwabo, kungabandakanywa isidingo sokuthatha ingqalelo yakhe ngcamango. Ngexesha elifanayo yonke into ihambelana nokulawula okuqinileyo.
- Abantwana, kuba bahlala bephulaphula imiyalelo, ababe bengelona nxaxheba. Ngexesha elifanayo, abazali abahloniphekileyo balindele ukuzimela ngaphandle kokuzimela kwabo ngenxa yokukhuliswa kwabantwana. Abantwana, ngokufanayo, baxhamla, kuba zonke izenzo zabo zinciphisa ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zomzali.
Ukungalungi kwindlela yokufundisa yemfundo
Isitayela sobukhosi semfundo yentsapho sinokungonakali kakhulu kubantwana. Ngoko, sele sele sele eselula, kungenxa yokuba yena uhlala ephikisana rhoqo. Abo bantwana abasakhulayo baqala ukuvukela kwaye abafuni ukwenza izabelo zabazali. Ngenxa yoko, abantwana baba nobudlova, kwaye bahlala beyeka ngokupheleleyo isidleke somzali.
Izibalo ziqinisekisa ukuba abafana abavela kwiintsapho ezinjalo baxhomekeke kubundlobongela. Zihlala zikhuselekile ngokwabo, zihlala zithintela, kwaye izinga lokuzithemba liphantsi. Ngenxa yoko, yonke inzondo nomsindo zithengiswa ngabanye.
Ubu budlelwane obunjalo abubandakanyi ubukho bobuhlobo bokomoya phakathi kwabazali nabantwana. Kule ntsapho akukho nxu lumano, ekugqibeleni lukhokelela ekuphuhliseni ukuphaphazela kwabanye.
Ngoko ke, kwinkqubo yemfundo kubaluleke kakhulu ukunika umntwana inkululeko yokuthatha isenzo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka kushiywe kuphela.