Amanyathelo okuqala eemvumba zivuyisa gqitha kubazali. Njengomthetho, abantwana baqala ukwenza iinzame ezizimeleyo ukuya kwixesha elilodwa. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba umntwana akahambanga unyaka owodwa, kwaye oku kuxhalabisa oomama abaninzi.
Bahamba nini na abantwana?
Masiqale siqaphele ukuba ngaba ukuphambuka kwimimiselo kwaye xa umntwana eqala ukuhamba . Ngokuqhelekileyo oomama bacinga ingxaki kuphela kuba abanye abantwana abasuka kwi-sandbox yesiqalo baqala ukwenza amanyathelo okuzimela ngokukhawuleza ngaphambili. Abazali abakhathazekayo ngokukhawuleza bavusa ukwesaba: kutheni umntwana wabo engazange ahambe, kwaye ummelwane sele sele eqhuba ngokusemthethweni.
Ewe, ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana bazama ukuhamba kwiinyanga ezili-12. Nangona kunjalo, isiqhelo sisithuba esiphuma kwiinyanga ezili-9 ukuya kwezi-15. Ukuba uwela kule miqathango, akukho sizathu sokukhathazeka. Abantwana abakhutheleyo nabanomdla ngokukhawuleza bazama ukuyeka isandla sikamama baze baqale ukuhlola ihlabathi elibangqongileyo. Kwabanye abantwana, ukunyakaza kuzo zonke ezine kuyamkeleka.
Ingxaki enzima xa umntwana enqaba ukuhamba emva kwexesha emva kokufunda ukukwenza. Ngokuqhelekileyo, lo mgaqo udibene neemeko ezixinzelelekileyo. Kungaba ukwesaba, ukugula okanye izimo ezingekho phantsi ekhaya. Kulo mzekelo, umntwana uyamoyika ukuhamba kwaye ancede anqobe loloyiko ludinga ukunakekelwa, ingqalelo kubazali.
Ootitshala bezilwanyana baya kubona izizathu ezininzi zokuba umntwana engathandi ukuhamba.
- Xa umntwana engahambanga nonyaka, oku kungabonakaliswa. Buza abazali bakho: kungenzeka ukuba ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kudlulelwe kwi-kid ngelifa.
- Isizathu sokuthi umntwana akahambanga unyaka unesondlo esingenamlinganiselo.
- Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana akayi kunyaka o-1 nje ngenxa yokuba akukho zinto ezikhuthazayo. Yiba nesithakazelo kwisifundo esithandayo kwaye ucebise ukuba ufikelele kuye.
- Amava ambi njengesiwa esinamandla okanye ukutyumla kunokwenza ixesha elithile lugxeke umnqweno wokuhamba.
- Inkcazo yoko kutheni umntwana engazange ahambe, kwezinye iimeko, usetyenziso olude kakhulu lwe-orna okanye uhambahamba.
Kuthekani ukuba umntwana akahambanga?
Ukuba i-crumb isele iwele umgca ngonyaka kunye nesiqingatha yaye ayizange iqale ukuhamba ngokuzimeleyo, qhagamshelana nodokotela wezilwanyana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, izizathu zisesithini esicuthakathakileyo se-muscle okanye ingxaki yengqondo. Ukuba i-crumb ingumntu oneminyaka elidala kwaye uhlala enentlalontle, unolwazi, uxolo - akukho sizathu sokwesaba. Ngexesha elifanelekileyo umntwana wakho uza kwenza isinyathelo sokuqala.