Mhlawumbi, wonke umama ozayo, ehlala kwindawo ekhangayo, amaphupha emva kokuzalwa komntwana ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumondla ngesifuba. Enyanisweni, isifiso esinjalo somama siphuma ngesizathu. Emva koko, okokuqala, ukubaluleka kunye nokunceda ubisi lwebele ngenxa yenyama encinci ayinakugxininiswa, okwesibini, kuyinto elula kakhulu, kwaye okwesithathu, ayiyikuhlawula uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, njengokuba, umzekelo, ukuthengwa kweemveliso ezibizayo kunye nokutya okunomzimba. Enyanisweni, kwiimeko ezininzi, isimo sengqondo sokuncelisa emva kokubeletha senza umsebenzi wakhe, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana akanasondli kakuhle okanye ekugqibeleni uyayenqaba ngokupheleleyo. Umtsha omtsha uqala ukulahlekelwa yithemba kumathuba alo "ngononophelo". Ngokukhawuleza wayetyelela kwezinye iindlela zokutya iimvuthu, nangaphandle kokuqonda ukuba ngaloo ndlela wayemlahlela ukutya okufanelekileyo. Ukulungisa le meko enzima ngenzuzo yentsana, kufuneka nje ufumane amandla kunye nomonde. Yaye indlela yokufundisa umntwana isisu, siza kuxela kwinqaku lethu.
Kutheni umntwana engafuni ukuncela?
Izizathu zokuba umntwana olambileyo olambileyo uqala ukumnceda, kwaye kungekudala ukuphosa isifuba kunoku:
- ukungahambi kahle komzimba (kumanzi, kushushu, njl.);
- impilo embi (i-fever high, stomatitis (thrush), njl);
- colic;
- ukusetyenziswa kakubi, okubangela ukuba ukutya kungabonakali;
- utshintsho kwintyatyambo yobisi lwebele ngenxa yokutya okudliwayo ngumama ngesinambatho "esicacileyo" (iziqholo, igalikhi, i-anyanisi, i-lemon) okanye ngokumalunga nokuqaliswa kokuya esikhathini (ngeli xesha, ukunambitheka nokubunjwa kobomi kutshintsha phantsi kweempembelelo zamahomoni);
- iimpawu ze-anatomical ze-crumb (iifrenum emfutshane) okanye unina ongumongikazi (inkulu kakhulu, incinci okanye ibuyisiwe);
- utshintshe iphunga lomzimba womama ngokusebenzisa i-perfume okanye idayodorant (umntwana akanako "ukuvumba" ukuvumba komthonyama aze athukuthele ngenxa yalokhu);
- Ukuqala ngokuqhelana nebhotile (umzekelo, ngenxa yokugula komntwana okanye umama, umntwana wasondliwa ngomxube kwibhotile.) Ukuphumelela kuye kulula ngakumbi kunokusuka kwibele, ngokugqithiseleyo ixesha umntwana uqala uvila kwaye uyayenqaba ngokubanzi);
- unomdla kwihlabathi elikujikelezayo (oku kufuthi kwenzeka ntoni xa umntwana eneminyaka engama-3-4 ubudala Ukuba unika umntwana ithuba lokubona oko kwenzekayo, ngaphambi kokuba alale, uya kuvuya "ngokutya kwakhe." Ukutya kulolu hlobo kungathatha imizuzu engama-20-40).
Ukuba zonke ezi zizathu zipheliswa okanye zingabandakanywa, ukuzama ukunyusa umntwana olele okanye osilekeleyo akuphumelelanga, i-whims kunye ne-arching "ngaphansi kwebele" iyaqhubeka, mhlawumbi, ngumbuzo othi "imeko yokucima". Ngoko i-crumb inikeza uphawu lokuba ufuna ukutshintsha into ebomini bakhe. Ukuqonda into engafanelekanga kunye nendlela umntwana afundiswa ngayo ukuba ancelise, kuyimfuneko ukuhlalutya indlela yakhe yokuziphatha kunye nomama wakhe emini.
Sebenza kwiingxowa okanye indlela yokufumana umntwana ukuba ancelise isifuba?
Kucetyiswa ukuba, ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka, ukuba ungabhekiseli kwiintshaba zokuncelisa - ibhotile. Ukondla umntwana ngokubonakalisa ubisi lwebele okanye ukuxhaswa (imixube) kungcono kwi-spoon, indebe, isirinji. Ngaphandle koko, ukukhululeka kokufumana "ukutya" kwibhotile kunokunciphisa kakubi amathuba okubuyela kwibele.
Ukuba usebenzisa umbane ukuzola, kude kube yinto ejwayelekile yokuncelisa, kufuneka kancane kancane isuswe ebusweni bomntwana. Ukunciphisa kuyimfuneko ngezinye iindlela (egqoke kwiingalo (kwisikhwama), ukugubungela kwi-ballball). Kufuneka ukuba uzame, ukuba emva kokuba umntwana azincancise encinane, ngokuchanekileyo uyifake isifuba kuyo emlonyeni. Kubalulekile, ukuba ube nomonde, kungekhona ukumphoqa ukuba adle ngamandla.
Ngokukhawuleza ukujwayela isifuba kukunceda i-round-clock-clock "mama" nomntwana. Emva kokulahla zonke iimeko, umama kufuneka ahlangabezane kuphela nomntwana iintsuku ezimbalwa. Ubukho bezinye izalamane abuvunyelwe. Uqhagamshelwano "ulusu ukukhupha," ukulala okuhlangeneyo, ukusabela kuyo yonke into ephaphazelayo ephupheni ngesiphakamiso sesifuba, iphunga lomzimba kamama - konke oku kuya kusinceda ukuba umntwana aqonde ukuba unina uyamthanda, kwaye amabele "amnandi" alula kwaye athembeke.
Khumbula ukuba umonde kunye nomsebenzi uya kuba yi-peretrut, kwaye ngenxa yomsebenzi wabo kungekudala uza kuvuzwa ngumntwana ozolile, ophelileyo kunye onempilo, enomdla ngokunyanga phantsi kwebele.