Imfihlelo phakathi kwekwindla yemimoni: ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga ngonyango, ekwindla yithuba elihle lokuzalwa komntwana. Iinyanga zokugqibela zokukhulelwa zenzeka ngexesha leemifuno kunye neziqhamo, akukho ukudinwa komntwana wehlobo lokushisa kwehlobo, kodwa amaqabunga awazange afike, ukuze uhlale emoyeni omtsha ixesha elide. Ngokubanzi, zonke iinkalo zokuphucula impilo zibonakala. Ngelishwa, le mi sebenzi ingabonakaliswa ngengubo engalunganga yomntwana.
Njani iimpahla ezinokulimaza?
Kwenzeka ngoko ukuba izilwanyana zendalo zizinzile kwiingcinga zabasetyhini abaninzi. Ukuba kukho umbuzo wendlela yokugqoka umntwana osandul 'ukuwa, ngoko uninzi lwabaomama lunempendulo eyodwa - ukufudumala! Kodwa le nto yayingeyona "ingqumbo" ingubo, kwaye emqolombeni kwakubanda, ngoko ke umnqweno wokufudumala umntwana usulungile. Namhlanje kunzima nokuba ucinge ukuba ukugqoka nokufudumala okufudumalayo "kwonakalisa" izinto ezinobomi bezempilo. Ukugqithisa kuyingozi kakhulu kwiintsana! Okokuqala, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ukutshatyalaliswa kwesantwazana kusenokuba ngamanye amaxesha kunokusebenza komntu omdala, ngoko ukuba unyoko upholile, umntwana ushushu. Oku kuthetha ukuba lixesha lokulibala malunga nomthetho obangathandabuzekiyo - ukugqoka umntwana ngento enye. Okwesibini, ukugqithisa kubandakanya iingxaki zesikhumba somntwana, isisu kunye nenkqubo yokuphefumula. Ngoku, ukuqala ukusuka ngasentla, unokuxubusha indlela yokugqoka umntwana osanda kuzalwa kwimozulu.
Kuchaneka njani ukuba ugqoke isana esisekwindla?
Izinto ezifunekayo ukuba usana olutsha luwahlule lunokuhlulwa kwiiklasi ezimbini - umzimba kunye nezingubo zangaphandle. Emzimbeni zonke iintlobo zebhodi , izilwanyana , amadoda amancinci, kwii-top-overalls, iebhattshi okanye iimvulophu kunye neengubo. Ukuba sithetha malunga nokuqala kwexesha lekwindla, ngoko kwiqondo lokushisa malunga ne-18 ° C kwiingubo zangaphandle akuyimfuneko, umzimba owaneleyo kunye nomntu ofudumeleyo. Ngokupholisa unganciphisa. Enye yeengcebiso zabantwana bezilwanyana ngendlela yokugqoka umntwana ekwindla, yehla ukuya kwinconywa yokugqoka iimpahla ezininzi. Oku akufanelekanga, ukuhamba, ukudonsa umntwanantshontsho omnye ofudumele kwaye uthathe ingubo yeboya. Kungcono ukugqoka iimpahla ezimbalwa okanye ukubamba iingubo ezimbini ezincinci. Ukuba ikwindla eguqukayo iya kukukholisa ilanga, umntwana unokukhutshwa encinane kwiingubo, ukuba umoya obandayo uphuma, kuya kubonakala ukuwufaka. Kwakhona iingubo zokutshatsha iintsana ekwindla zixhomekeke kwindlela yokuhamba, kwisihlalo sabakhubazekile umntwana unxibe kwiqondo lokufudumala kwelinye ilitye elingaphantsi kuneloluko, apho umama eluqhayisa ngokufudumala kwakhe.
Ungayiqonda njani ukuba umntwana uphelile okanye utyhile?
Enyanisweni, ukugqoka ilutsha ngokusesikweni kwizame zokuqala akuyi kusebenza kunoma yimuphi umama omtsha, ngoko ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba ubuyile ekuhambeni, apho inkomo yayininzi kakhulu, kwaye phantsi kweengubo ozibonayo obomvu obushushu
Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - bukela impendulo yomntwana ade afunde ukuthetha. Ukuba izibambo zipholile, kwaye umntwana akayinto ephosakeleyo, ngoko kukhululekile kuye, ukuba ubusuku obusithathu emgqeni umntwana ulawula ukukhupha ingubo, kwaye kuyatshisa kuye. Ndikholelwe, xa ubusuku obubandayo buza, ingubo iya kuhlala kwindawo. Thembela umntwana wakho!