Oomncinci kunye nabangenamava bavame ukuphulaphula iingcebiso zoomama kunye nogogo kwimicimbi yokukhulisa nokunyamekela umntwana. Baphakamisa nokuba oomama abayinqumisi abantwana babo ukuya kunyaka, kwaye ngonyaka bawanqanda zabo iintsana. Kuzo iziphi izicwangciso ezisekelweyo kwaye ingaba ziyahambelana neyinyani, siza kuxela kweli nqaku.
Kutheni ndikwazi ukugawula umntwana unyaka?
Ukuba ukholelwa iimpawu zabantu, ke abantwana abanakukunqunyulwa ukuya kunyaka, kuba baxhamene kakhulu nomama wentambo engabonakaliyo ngeli xesha lobomi. Ukunciphisa iinwele kumntwana omncinci kuthetha ukunqumla intambo yomnxeba odibana nabo. Kukholelwa ukuba emva kokungenelela okunjalo, umntwana uyaba buhlungu aze alahlekelwe inhlanhla.
Kwakhona, ukuvinjelwa kweenwele ezinqunywe ngabantwana abangaphantsi komnyaka omnye kudibaniswa noloyiko lokulimaza umntwana. Okokuqala, abantwana abaphambuki, kwaye okwesibini, abazange bakhule ngesihloko.
Kukho imeko xa abantwana abancinci bezinwele ezinzima kwaye bakhula ngokukhawuleza. Olu hlobo lwenwele luya kufumana lula emehlweni omntwana kwaye lumthintele, lwazi umhlaba jikelele. Kule meko, umntwana unokunqunyulwa unyaka. Yenza oku ngenyameko, ukuze ungalimazi umntwana. Kungcono ukuba unina unomncedisi oza kuphazamisa ingqalelo yengane kwinkqubo ngamathoyizi.
Kutheni abantwana befanele banqunywe kancinci kunyaka?
Kukho uluvo lokuba umntwana kufuneka anqunywe ngokukhawuleza kunyaka ukwenzela ukuba abe neenwele ezinzima kwixesha elizayo.
Okubonakalayo kukuba iinqwelo ezinwele iinwele zinyuka ngenxa yokuba ziqala ukukhula ngokulinganayo. Nangona umntwana echitha ixesha elininzi elele phantsi kwaye elala kaninzi ngemini, iinwele zakhe zihamba ngokukhawuleza. Ngenxa yobomi babo kwiindawo eziziintloko zeentloko kunye neempembelelo kukuba azinqabile kwaye zincinci.
Ingaba kuyimfuneko ukunqumla umntwana ngonyaka kufuneka kugqitywe ngabazali ngokwabo, ngokusekelwe kwimeko yezinwele zentsana. Ukuba ayingalingani, ke unqunyulwe, ukuze ulungelelanise, ufuna. Ukuba iinwele zikhula ngokulinganayo kwaye ubude babo abuphazamisi naso, kungenziwa kulibaziseka ngenkqubo yokukhanda izinwele.