Yintoni oyifunayo ukuba ubhaptize intombazana?

Ukubonakala kwintombi kwintsapho ngumcimbi omkhulu kubazali abancinci, izihlobo zabo kunye nabathandekayo. Ukuba i-crumb ikhule ngokholo lwama-Orthodox, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba ubhaptize umntwana. Abazali banemibuzo emininzi. Ngoko ke, kufuneka siqonde kwangaphambili oko kufunekayo ukuze ubhaptizwe ngumntwana, kulo mzekelo, amantombazana. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba imibuzo ephakamileyo ye- rite iyafana nabantwana bobabini besini, kodwa ngezinye iimeko kubalulekile ukujamelana nokungafani.

Oko kufuneka ukubhaptiza intombazana: izinto zokomoya

Ingongoma ebalulekileyo kukukhethwa kwabazali bakaThixo . Kumele ukuba babekholo olufanayo. Imvuthuluka yamama neTata kufuneka ithembele abantu abakhethiweyo kule mishini. Kufuneka ukuba nethemba lokuba baya kuthatha inxaxheba ekukhulisweni komhlambi, uya kuba yinkxaso yakhe. Kukholelwa ukuba ukuba kukho into eyenzeka kubazali, ngaba oothixo abanokuthi banakekele ikamva lomntwana.

Kwiimeko ezizodwa, icawa ivumela ukungabikho kootata wentombazana leyo. Indima ehamba phambili idlala ngumama.

Kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba kukho imingcele xa ukhetha oothixo. Akunakuba yindoda kunye nomfazi ongeyindoda nomfazi. Kwakhona, abazali bakhe bokwenene abanako ukubhaptiza umntwana. Nangona kunjalo, ezinye izalamane zingakhethwa kule mishini. Abazali banokukhetha abahlobo babo abasondeleyo.

Ingongoma ebalulekileyo kukuba ukhethe igama lomcimbi. Ukuba igama abazali abanike lona umntwana aluhambelani nabangcwele, ngoko kubhaptizo omnye kufuneka ukhethe omnye. Eli gama liya kusetyenziswa kwimithandazo. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba igama elinikezwe ngexesha lokoqobo kufuneka ligcinwe liyimfihlo, kuba kulula ukuliphazamisa. Kukholelwa ukuba xa bangela umonakalo egameni elibhalwe kwisatifikethi sokuzalwa, kwaye kungekhona kubhaptizwe (kuthathwa njengokuba yinyani), ngoko ukutshabalalisa akuyi kusebenza.

Yintoni oyifunayo ebandleni ukuze ubhaptizwe intombazana?

Ngaphambi koko kuyimfuneko ukufunda ethempelini indlela umkhosi ohamba ngayo kwaye kuthatha ntoni ukuba uqhube. Emva koko, imigaqo nemimiselo ingahluka. Kwezinye iicawa, kukho amaxabiso amiselwe ukuhlawula umcimbi. Kwabanye, bacela ukuba wenze umnikelo. Kukho isithethe ukuba ezi ndleko zihlawulwa ngu-godfather. Kwakhona uthenge umnqamlezo umntwana. Unokuthenga kwakhona ikhonkco. Ngamanye amaxesha umnqamlezo uphonyelwe kwi-ribbon okanye ngentambo.

UThixo unomama kufuneka azi ukuba ubhaptizo lwentombazana kufuneka lufumane i-gooseberry. Le ithawula okanye ingcezu yengubo, eyenzelwe ukumbamba umntwana emva kwefonti. Emva kwesigramente, awukwazi ukusula. Abazali mabayisebenzise xa i-crumb igula.

Kwakhona unkulunkulu makafanele anakekele iingubo zalo mcimbi. Kufuneka uyazi ukuba ngenxa yokuzalwa kweentombazana kufuneka uthenge oku kulandelayo:

• ihembe elimhlophe elinombala omhlophe, abazali bakhe baya kumgcina ubomi bakhe bonke;
• ibhononti kunye neerbhoni okanye ilayiti;
• Ungathenga izicathulo ezintle, kodwa akuyimfuneko.

Oomama-ntombi kufuneka bafike kunye neminqamlezo yabo. Ibhinqa lifuna ukugqoka ingubo phantsi kwegolo (okanye igqoke). Amagxa kufuneka avalwe. Akukhuthazwa ukuba unxibe izicathulo ezinezithende eziphezulu. Oku kungabangela ukuphazamiseka, kuba umthendeleko uhlala ixesha elide kwaye lonke eli xesha kufuneka ugcine imivumba ezandleni zakho. Uthikazikazi weMnqamlezo awukwazi ukugqoka iifutshane kunye neT-shirt.

Ngoku intombi yam ingabhaptizwa kungeyetempile kuphela. Ngeli xesha, umkhosi ungenziwa ngisho nasekhaya. Kule meko, igumbi linikwe isakramente. Ukukhetha icawa yokubhaptizwa kwintsana, abazali abancinane kufuneka bavelele iimvakalelo zabo. Ngumbingeleli kufuneka uvumelane kwangaphambili, njengoko kuya kufuneka ukuba ukhethe usuku kunye nexesha lokoqobo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isakramente sinokuqhutywa ngeentsuku zeveki nangeveki. Kubalulekile ukuba ukhethe usuku ukuze luhambelane nexesha lokuya esikhathini. Emva koko, ngeli xesha umfazi akakwazi ukuya ecaweni.