Umlinganiselo obalulekileyo wokuvavanya ubugcisa bakho yinkcubeko yezonxibelelwano zoshishino. Iinkokheli zihlawulisa ngokwaneleyo oku xa kuthatha umntu ukuba asebenze, kunye nokuqhuba umsebenzi wabo.
Enye yeentlobo zentetho yeshishini yintetho yefoni. Ngoko ke, ngethuba lencoko yocingo, izakhono zokuqhuba incoko yeshishini ziya kuba luncedo. Ukongeza, incoko yefowuni iyahluke kakhulu kwingxoxo ebusweni.
Imithetho eqhelekileyo yokuqhuba intetho yile ndlela ilandelayo:
- umdla ocacileyo kwisihloko sencoko;
- isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kumnxibelelwano;
- ukungabikho kwempembelelo yengqondo yakho kwimeko yentetho.
Inkcubeko yengqondo yezonxibelelwano
I-psychology yezonxibelelwano zezoshishino inxalenye yengqondo yeengxaki. Eli candelo lisebenzisa imigaqo efana neyengqondo jikelele: umgaqo-siseko, umgaqo-phuhliso, umgaqo-nkqubo.
Ukunxibelelana - ukusebenzisana kwabantu ababini okanye ngaphezulu, abanomnqophiso wokutshintshiselana ngolwazi lwenkcazo okanye isimo sengqondo. Ngethuba lokunxibelelana, u-interlocutor wakho uthonya kwaye uchaphazela ukuziphatha kwakho, urhulumente kunye nehlabathi. Le mpe mbelelo ihlala isondelene, kodwa ayifanekiyo - ifanayo. Ngokwenene, ukuthetha kubakho kwimisebenzi ebambene yabantu. Kwiinkqubo zonxibelelwano, abantu batshintshisana ukuziphatha, ubuso kunye neempendulo. Ukongezelela, bobabini abanxibelelwano banemifanekiso yabo enemifanekiso yendlela yabo nganye ibonakala ngayo ngaphandle (le mifanekiso ifana nokufana nokoqobo, kodwa ingagqibekanga), kunye nomfanekiso wabo-interlocutor (umfanekiso uhambelana nokunyaniseka, kodwa umntu uhlala ezisa kulo ngokwam). Ininzi ngokubanzi kummandla woluntu unxibelelwano, kukho uhlobo olunjalo loqhagamshelwano lwezoshishino. Ukongeza kubantu ababini abandakanyeka ngqo kwingxoxo, kukho intlalo yoluntu. Wonke umntu ukholelwa ukuba uyingqayizivele kwaye unengcamango yakhe, kodwa, ngelanga, ekugqibeleni yonke into ihlaselwa kwimbono yoluntu.
Inkqubo yokunxibelelana
Kukho iindlela ezininzi kunye neentlobo zonxibelelwano. Uhlobo loqhagamshelwano loshishino lubahluko olokuba luhlala luqhubela phambili injongo ethile, linomda wexesha kwaye luhlala luphulwe phantsi. Incoko yezoshishino iya kuthathwa ngempumelelo, ukuba phakathi kwamaqabane kuya kuba nokuqonda nokwethemba.
I-Etiquette kunye nenkcubeko yoqhagamshelwano loshishino
I-Etiquette ngumyalelo omiselweyo wokuziphatha. Inkcubeko yokuziphatha yindlela yokunxibelelana esekelwe kwimilinganiselo yokuziphatha, ukunambitheka kwe-aesthetic nokugcina imithetho ethile kunye nemigangatho.
I-etiquette yezoshishino liyinxalenye ephambili yokuziphatha komntu webhishini. Olu lwazi alufunanga nje kuphela ukufumana, kodwa nokuhlakulela rhoqo.
Umthetho wenombolo 1 . Ukugcina ixesha. Umsebenzi omude uphatha kakubi, kwaye kuyacaca
Umthetho wenombolo 2 . Njengamagama ambalwa angadingekile njengoko kunokwenzeka. Wonke umntu kufuneka akwazi ukugcina iimfihlelo zeenkampani zabo, kunye nokungaxoxiswanga ngemicimbi yabo yomntu emsebenzini.
Umthetho wenombolo 3 . Cinga ngabanye. Njalo qwalasela iimbono, iiminqweno kunye neminqweno yabathintana nabo kunye namaqabane.
Umthetho wenombolo 4 . Impahla yengubo yokugqoka . Zama ukugqoka ngendlela efanayo nabanye, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo ukubonisa ukunambitha kwakho.
Umthetho wenombolo 5 . Inkcubeko yentetho yezonxibelelwano zoshishino. Ukuba umntu uthetha ngokufanelekileyo, ngoko ufanelekile ukuba aqaphele kwaye ufumane idumela elihle.
Zama ukuqhuba intetho ngokuchanekileyo uze uhambise nayiphi na phezulu.